1 00:00:13,068 --> 00:00:17,724 ♪ Hello, sunshine, hello, blue skies ♪ 2 00:00:17,758 --> 00:00:20,655 ♪ Hello, lovely day ♪ 3 00:00:20,689 --> 00:00:25,482 ♪ Hello, sunshine, Hello, sky ♪ 4 00:00:25,517 --> 00:00:29,413 ♪ Hello, white clouds floating by ♪ 5 00:00:30,379 --> 00:00:31,724 [Natalie] Hi. 6 00:00:31,758 --> 00:00:33,137 -How are you doing? -Hi. 7 00:00:33,172 --> 00:00:34,620 Oh, it's so good to see you. 8 00:00:34,655 --> 00:00:35,827 It's so good to see you. 9 00:00:35,862 --> 00:00:37,931 -Look at you, you're all tanned. -Yeah. 10 00:00:37,965 --> 00:00:40,931 [Natalie] I've adjusted to my life in Florida pretty well. 11 00:00:40,965 --> 00:00:45,172 But I'm trying to find a good guy who respects me. 12 00:00:45,206 --> 00:00:46,827 [Natalie speaking] 13 00:00:52,344 --> 00:00:55,896 And I was like, "Oh, my God. It's hard." 14 00:00:55,931 --> 00:00:58,862 But hopefully tonight will change everything. 15 00:00:58,896 --> 00:01:01,379 Do you wanna do something fun and different with the hair? 16 00:01:01,413 --> 00:01:04,000 Let's say I have a occasion. 17 00:01:04,034 --> 00:01:07,000 -And I want to look different. -What's the occasion? 18 00:01:08,413 --> 00:01:12,068 -I'm having a date. -How fun is that? 19 00:01:12,103 --> 00:01:15,206 So, is this your first date here in Florida? 20 00:01:15,241 --> 00:01:18,379 Yes, and I'm excited and I'm nervous. 21 00:01:18,413 --> 00:01:20,448 This is something new in my life. 22 00:01:20,482 --> 00:01:22,551 -Oh, absolutely. -And I think... 23 00:01:23,862 --> 00:01:26,275 -Okay. We'll start with the makeup first... -Okay. 24 00:01:26,310 --> 00:01:28,172 ...and then we'll get you looking good here. 25 00:01:28,206 --> 00:01:32,482 [Ryan] Natalie and me met through another friend of mine. 26 00:01:32,517 --> 00:01:36,413 I think it's pretty adventurous that she's going on a date. 27 00:01:36,448 --> 00:01:39,482 She's in Florida now. It's a new life. 28 00:01:39,517 --> 00:01:41,586 It's part of putting the past behind 29 00:01:41,620 --> 00:01:45,137 and moving forward, and I'm excited for her. 30 00:01:46,517 --> 00:01:47,758 All right, I think we're good. 31 00:01:47,793 --> 00:01:48,896 -Okay. -Do you like it? 32 00:01:48,931 --> 00:01:50,034 Are you happy with the makeup? 33 00:01:50,068 --> 00:01:51,241 -I love it. -Okay, 34 00:01:51,275 --> 00:01:52,586 let's get started on this hair. 35 00:01:52,620 --> 00:01:55,241 So, do you know this guy? 36 00:01:55,275 --> 00:01:58,103 I do not know this guy, honestly. 37 00:01:58,137 --> 00:02:00,206 -Oh! -It's a blind date. 38 00:02:00,241 --> 00:02:02,344 Oh, blind date, okay. Oh, wow. 39 00:02:02,379 --> 00:02:05,689 I've never been on a blind date in my life. 40 00:02:05,724 --> 00:02:07,793 I don't know anything about this guy, 41 00:02:07,827 --> 00:02:11,137 except that he's a model, which is good, you know? 42 00:02:11,172 --> 00:02:13,310 How did you get hooked up with this guy? 43 00:02:13,344 --> 00:02:15,000 [Natalie speaking] 44 00:02:27,827 --> 00:02:29,827 I'm excited to go on a date with a model 45 00:02:29,862 --> 00:02:33,724 because it's been my dream to make modeling my career. 46 00:02:34,793 --> 00:02:37,379 [Natalie speaking] 47 00:02:41,344 --> 00:02:42,931 Do you know his name? 48 00:02:42,965 --> 00:02:44,172 [Natalie speaking] 49 00:02:47,689 --> 00:02:49,000 He's attractive. 50 00:02:51,862 --> 00:02:53,448 [Natalie gasps] 51 00:02:53,482 --> 00:02:56,103 Oh, my God, he has too many alcohol. 52 00:02:56,137 --> 00:02:59,448 -I don't like it. -Maybe he's a bartender. 53 00:03:00,931 --> 00:03:02,413 [Ryan] Are you ready to see it? 54 00:03:02,448 --> 00:03:05,241 [Natalie] Oh, I'm so excited. Oh, my God, okay. 55 00:03:08,586 --> 00:03:09,896 [Natalie gasps] 56 00:03:09,931 --> 00:03:16,379 Oh, my God! I'm so excited. Oh, I love it. 57 00:03:16,413 --> 00:03:17,758 I I'm very different. 58 00:03:18,586 --> 00:03:20,586 [Natalie speaking] 59 00:03:20,620 --> 00:03:21,931 You're right. 60 00:03:21,965 --> 00:03:24,448 [Natalie speaking] 61 00:03:24,482 --> 00:03:27,275 -I love it. -Good. Have fun tonight. 62 00:03:27,310 --> 00:03:29,896 -I love you. -Oh, I love you too, honey. 63 00:03:29,931 --> 00:03:32,931 -Thank you. -[squeals happily] 64 00:03:32,965 --> 00:03:34,551 -Have fun. -Okay, love you. 65 00:03:34,586 --> 00:03:37,379 -[Ryan] Bye-bye. -[Natalie chuckles] Bye. 66 00:03:46,482 --> 00:03:49,379 You know for blind date, it's kind of revealing. 67 00:03:49,413 --> 00:03:50,517 No, it's not. 68 00:03:50,551 --> 00:03:53,896 It's sexy, and, yeah. 69 00:03:56,655 --> 00:04:00,793 Jolanta is gonna help me to pick up my outfit for my date. 70 00:04:00,827 --> 00:04:03,482 And Jolanta is my good friend. 71 00:04:03,517 --> 00:04:05,896 She's from Poland, but she's American. 72 00:04:05,931 --> 00:04:10,000 -Jolanta. -Ooh, ooh, ooh! 73 00:04:10,034 --> 00:04:11,689 [Natalie] She's a good-looking woman 74 00:04:11,724 --> 00:04:14,586 and she understands me because when she arrived to America... 75 00:04:16,724 --> 00:04:18,275 -Okay, let's get going. -Yeah. 76 00:04:24,137 --> 00:04:26,655 And you better help me with how to get there. 77 00:04:27,137 --> 00:04:28,172 Okay. 78 00:04:32,862 --> 00:04:34,689 Just don't throw up in my car, please. 79 00:04:35,724 --> 00:04:38,482 [Natalie] It's my first date in America. 80 00:04:38,517 --> 00:04:41,172 I don't know what I will feel when I see him. 81 00:04:41,206 --> 00:04:44,620 But to be honest, I'm afraid to get hurt again. 82 00:04:44,655 --> 00:04:49,000 I want to know who is he. I want to consider... 83 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,379 Okay, all right. Good luck. 84 00:05:11,586 --> 00:05:13,206 [man speaking] 85 00:05:13,241 --> 00:05:14,586 Hi. 86 00:05:23,034 --> 00:05:25,068 [singing bowl chimes and vibrates] 87 00:05:44,448 --> 00:05:46,689 Hi, this is a very beautiful place, 88 00:05:46,724 --> 00:05:49,827 -I really feel a great vibe. -I'm glad that you came today 89 00:05:49,862 --> 00:05:52,000 and I believe I can help you. 90 00:05:52,034 --> 00:05:54,758 My name is Syngin. I'm 31 years old 91 00:05:54,793 --> 00:05:56,344 and I live in New London, Connecticut. 92 00:06:01,827 --> 00:06:03,896 So the card that I actually pulled for you is 93 00:06:03,931 --> 00:06:05,827 "A wise one seeks the silence." 94 00:06:05,862 --> 00:06:08,586 The situation you're finding yourself in 95 00:06:08,620 --> 00:06:10,896 has really had a big impact 96 00:06:10,931 --> 00:06:14,310 on your energy, on your sense of being. 97 00:06:14,344 --> 00:06:15,724 -Yeah. -And on your path. 98 00:06:15,758 --> 00:06:19,034 It's very true, like, I just wanna reconnect with myself again 99 00:06:19,068 --> 00:06:20,896 and just find this other soulmate. 100 00:06:29,689 --> 00:06:32,724 And we me and Tania first started seeing each other, 101 00:06:32,758 --> 00:06:34,379 I truly thought that she's my soulmate. 102 00:06:34,413 --> 00:06:36,551 You know, she walked into my life at an incredible time 103 00:06:36,586 --> 00:06:38,241 and we had this magical experience. 104 00:06:38,275 --> 00:06:39,310 And now we're splitting up. 105 00:06:43,862 --> 00:06:47,103 About three and a half years ago, I met Tania 106 00:06:47,137 --> 00:06:49,137 while she was on a trip down to South Africa. 107 00:06:51,551 --> 00:06:52,620 Aw, baby! 108 00:06:52,655 --> 00:06:53,793 [Syngin laughs] 109 00:06:53,827 --> 00:06:55,586 [Syngin] Seven months after I met Tania, 110 00:06:55,620 --> 00:06:57,241 she applied for the K-1 visa. 111 00:06:58,241 --> 00:06:59,931 [Tania laughs] 112 00:06:59,965 --> 00:07:00,862 [Syngin speaking] 113 00:07:05,551 --> 00:07:08,310 [Syngin speaking] 114 00:07:08,344 --> 00:07:11,620 But before me and Tania got married, we got into a conversation 115 00:07:11,655 --> 00:07:14,206 and she literally said that I am not her soulmate. 116 00:07:14,241 --> 00:07:16,379 Would you call this relationship 117 00:07:16,413 --> 00:07:18,172 a soulmate type of relationship? 118 00:07:18,206 --> 00:07:21,517 I don't think I have that full soulmate feeling. 119 00:07:21,551 --> 00:07:22,724 [Syngin] Hmm. 120 00:07:22,758 --> 00:07:24,965 I don't know, I feel like I have met my soulmate. 121 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:29,034 Like, I feel like my first love was my soulmate. 122 00:07:29,068 --> 00:07:30,862 [Syngin] I literally thought she was my soulmate. 123 00:07:30,896 --> 00:07:34,793 But there is one major issue we'll never agree on, and that's kids. 124 00:07:35,517 --> 00:07:38,344 [Syngin speaking] 125 00:07:38,379 --> 00:07:39,827 I wanted to have kids by the time I was 30, 126 00:07:39,862 --> 00:07:41,517 -and then I met you. -Okay. 127 00:07:41,551 --> 00:07:44,034 So, I'm literally putting off having kids for you. 128 00:07:46,241 --> 00:07:48,965 [Syngin] And even though I do care for her, 129 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,724 I think we can bring out the worst in each other, 130 00:07:50,758 --> 00:07:53,724 which is something you don't wanna do. 131 00:07:53,758 --> 00:07:57,724 This relationship tried to force you into a box, and it just didn't work. 132 00:07:57,758 --> 00:08:00,344 -I don't fit into a box. -No, you definitely do not. 133 00:08:02,310 --> 00:08:04,689 I know I've put in a lot in my relationship, 134 00:08:04,724 --> 00:08:07,931 I know I gave my all and did what I needed to. 135 00:08:07,965 --> 00:08:10,379 -That also makes me sad. -Right. 136 00:08:12,793 --> 00:08:15,724 [Syngin speaking] 137 00:08:24,413 --> 00:08:29,000 And I believe that she absolutely was a soulmate for this chapter. 138 00:08:29,034 --> 00:08:32,034 I feel like we have to meet certain soulmates 139 00:08:32,068 --> 00:08:33,965 -to meet our forever soulmate. -Yeah. 140 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,137 Now, that I'm separating, I'm almost excited for that piece. 141 00:08:40,172 --> 00:08:43,689 What you're experiencing right now, I think you woke back up. 142 00:08:43,724 --> 00:08:46,965 I really feel like you're going to meet your soulmate 143 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,517 when you're traveling or when you're not in Connecticut. 144 00:08:50,551 --> 00:08:51,586 Yeah. 145 00:08:57,482 --> 00:08:59,551 -Just thank you so much. -You're very welcome. 146 00:09:00,379 --> 00:09:02,172 [Syngin speaking] 147 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,482 But nobody should have to change who they are to be loved. 148 00:09:09,034 --> 00:09:12,517 You know, when she said, my true soulmate is still out there, 149 00:09:12,551 --> 00:09:16,034 you know, wherever she is right now, that really excited me. 150 00:09:16,068 --> 00:09:19,137 It just justifies the decision of breaking up so much. 151 00:09:19,172 --> 00:09:21,103 That just reassured me that, you know, 152 00:09:21,137 --> 00:09:23,241 this is not the soulmate, you lost. 153 00:09:23,275 --> 00:09:25,068 There's more out there for me, you know? 154 00:09:34,689 --> 00:09:37,310 [Syngin] I'm very excited to be single again, you know. 155 00:09:37,344 --> 00:09:38,931 I bring a lot to the table. 156 00:09:38,965 --> 00:09:41,586 I bring kindness, caring, understanding, 157 00:09:41,620 --> 00:09:44,620 and also just, you know, a good guy, that's a good time. 158 00:09:46,103 --> 00:09:48,137 But it's gonna be very hard to start dating 159 00:09:48,172 --> 00:09:50,000 considering my current living situation. 160 00:09:52,620 --> 00:09:54,275 What are you doing? 161 00:09:55,793 --> 00:09:57,482 I'm packing the dishwasher. 162 00:09:57,517 --> 00:09:59,068 I told you, just let me do it. 163 00:09:59,103 --> 00:10:01,068 You obviously don't wanna learn how to do it. 164 00:10:02,206 --> 00:10:04,724 You know, even though me and Tania are separating... 165 00:10:04,758 --> 00:10:06,758 [Syngin speaking] 166 00:10:13,793 --> 00:10:16,103 Like, not everything's gonna fit in there properly 167 00:10:16,137 --> 00:10:18,103 and the plastic's gonna melt on the bottom and... 168 00:10:18,137 --> 00:10:19,586 I don't think there's a science. 169 00:10:19,620 --> 00:10:22,103 I just think as long as it goes wish-wish, wash-wash and clean-clean. 170 00:10:22,137 --> 00:10:23,344 Whatever. 171 00:10:26,551 --> 00:10:28,344 It's kind of strange when you know you're breaking up, 172 00:10:28,379 --> 00:10:30,241 but you're still living under the same roof. 173 00:10:39,931 --> 00:10:41,103 [Syngin] Hmm. 174 00:10:44,137 --> 00:10:46,827 You just gonna sit back and watch me fold your underwear? 175 00:10:46,862 --> 00:10:48,413 Today's laundry day and it's your turn. 176 00:10:49,448 --> 00:10:51,620 You're gonna miss me folding your underwear. 177 00:10:51,655 --> 00:10:53,103 [Syngin chuckles] 178 00:10:53,137 --> 00:10:54,620 Still very much married. 179 00:10:54,655 --> 00:10:57,137 [Syngin speaking] 180 00:11:02,689 --> 00:11:03,517 Hmm. 181 00:11:07,620 --> 00:11:10,103 Even though me and Tania decided to separate, 182 00:11:10,137 --> 00:11:13,517 we're still sleeping in the same bed and still having sex. 183 00:11:29,241 --> 00:11:32,931 But I'm down to have sex regardless, if I'm happy, sad, crying. 184 00:11:36,172 --> 00:11:38,000 And, also, it's gonna feel weird, you know, 185 00:11:38,034 --> 00:11:39,793 'cause I think we got into a good routine 186 00:11:39,827 --> 00:11:41,931 of cooking and cleaning, you know. 187 00:11:41,965 --> 00:11:44,172 And now all of a sudden, it's all about to change. 188 00:11:45,862 --> 00:11:47,689 [Tania] It is kind of awkward still living together 189 00:11:47,724 --> 00:11:50,068 since Syngin and I decided to separate. 190 00:11:50,103 --> 00:11:51,413 There is a part of me that hopes that 191 00:11:51,448 --> 00:11:54,551 Syngin and I could still, like, work out and maybe we can. 192 00:11:54,586 --> 00:11:57,862 I didn't marry him thinking it would end this way, 193 00:11:57,896 --> 00:11:59,344 I married him for our future. 194 00:12:01,827 --> 00:12:03,379 [Syngin speaking] 195 00:12:03,413 --> 00:12:05,655 No, no, I don't wanna keep a pair of your underwear, 196 00:12:05,689 --> 00:12:08,758 but also like, I mean, if you really wanna help, 197 00:12:08,793 --> 00:12:12,275 -you can bring this upstairs for us. -Okay. 198 00:12:12,310 --> 00:12:14,413 [Syngin] Tania and I are not really acting like 199 00:12:14,448 --> 00:12:16,724 we're splitting up and ending our marriage. 200 00:12:16,758 --> 00:12:19,172 We've both been living in denial. 201 00:12:19,206 --> 00:12:23,241 I think that there's still a big conversation there that we need to have 202 00:12:23,275 --> 00:12:25,758 because getting a divorce between me and Tania 203 00:12:25,793 --> 00:12:28,793 is the is the best way forward, for both of us. 204 00:12:36,068 --> 00:12:39,379 ♪ Did it again I'm all on my own ♪ 205 00:12:39,413 --> 00:12:41,482 ♪ Where am I going to? ♪ 206 00:12:42,896 --> 00:12:46,310 ♪ I'm learning to love myself ♪ 207 00:12:47,793 --> 00:12:49,896 -[Debbie] Good morning. -[Vanessa] Good morning. 208 00:12:49,931 --> 00:12:52,689 -[Vanessa] You look very nice. -Thank you, so do you. 209 00:12:52,724 --> 00:12:54,862 -Hey, Mom. -[groans] 210 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,034 Hello. 211 00:13:00,793 --> 00:13:02,827 [Debbie] Colt hurt my feelings when he told me 212 00:13:02,862 --> 00:13:04,379 he was moving out in three months. 213 00:13:04,413 --> 00:13:05,655 I was shocked. 214 00:13:05,689 --> 00:13:10,827 I was totally shocked and it's nerve-racking and scary. 215 00:13:10,862 --> 00:13:12,586 What am I gonna do? I might be homeless. 216 00:13:14,931 --> 00:13:17,241 Yeah, yeah. 217 00:13:19,034 --> 00:13:21,655 It's fine. He wants to be a jerk, he can be a jerk. 218 00:13:22,793 --> 00:13:25,275 How about we just go get some lunch or something, 219 00:13:25,310 --> 00:13:28,034 -just to get away from here? -Okay, okay. 220 00:13:41,310 --> 00:13:43,103 -[Vanessa] After you. -Thank you. 221 00:13:43,137 --> 00:13:45,758 Looks like a fun place. 222 00:13:45,793 --> 00:13:47,551 [Vanessa] Yeah, they have good beer here. 223 00:13:47,586 --> 00:13:49,103 [Debbie] Yeah. 224 00:13:50,758 --> 00:13:52,068 What do you usually drink? 225 00:13:52,103 --> 00:13:54,103 I like plain old-fashioned beer. 226 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:59,206 [growls] 227 00:14:00,413 --> 00:14:01,551 I know, I know, but... 228 00:14:03,172 --> 00:14:05,275 I know it's fucked up in your opinion. 229 00:14:05,310 --> 00:14:08,344 Three months is right around the corner, kinda. 230 00:14:08,379 --> 00:14:09,448 [both chuckle] 231 00:14:09,482 --> 00:14:12,793 So, I do feel bad, but you know, 232 00:14:12,827 --> 00:14:14,931 we just kinda wanna start our own lives now that... 233 00:14:14,965 --> 00:14:16,206 I don't blame you, 234 00:14:16,241 --> 00:14:20,827 I just don't like the way he came about telling me. 235 00:14:20,862 --> 00:14:23,655 Just the blindsided-ness of the whole thing. 236 00:14:23,689 --> 00:14:25,793 We're not trying to abandon you. 237 00:14:25,827 --> 00:14:29,000 Sure you're moving, he's still my son, even though you kicked me out. 238 00:14:29,034 --> 00:14:30,655 I understand how it works. [laughs] 239 00:14:30,689 --> 00:14:34,482 No, I'm not. I'm not trying to break you guys up. 240 00:14:34,517 --> 00:14:35,896 I'm really not. 241 00:14:35,931 --> 00:14:39,172 [Debbie] Colt and I've always had a really close relationship. 242 00:14:39,206 --> 00:14:40,724 Colt is my miracle baby. 243 00:14:42,344 --> 00:14:44,965 When I was younger, a doctor told me 244 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,586 I had a problem carrying children. 245 00:14:46,620 --> 00:14:47,862 That I won't be able to. 246 00:14:48,689 --> 00:14:49,793 Years later, 247 00:14:49,827 --> 00:14:52,137 I was actually kind of shocked when I got pregnant. 248 00:14:52,172 --> 00:14:56,206 But Colt was born really early. 249 00:14:57,310 --> 00:15:00,103 He was not expected to live. 250 00:15:02,137 --> 00:15:05,068 When he was born, he was on oxygen, 251 00:15:05,103 --> 00:15:06,896 he was on a ventilator 252 00:15:06,931 --> 00:15:09,724 for another four or five months. 253 00:15:10,758 --> 00:15:14,068 And, thank God, he came through. 254 00:15:14,103 --> 00:15:18,448 So, Colt and I have kind of a special bond between us 255 00:15:18,482 --> 00:15:21,241 and it's hard for me to let him go. 256 00:15:21,275 --> 00:15:22,827 And I don't think he ever wants to 257 00:15:22,862 --> 00:15:25,965 hurt my feelings or embarrass me. 258 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,724 Although he does sometimes. He doesn't mean to, 259 00:15:28,758 --> 00:15:31,000 he doesn't have a lot of finesse. 260 00:15:33,103 --> 00:15:35,344 -Cheers. -All right. 261 00:15:37,931 --> 00:15:39,862 [Debbie] It's probably a really good thing. 262 00:15:39,896 --> 00:15:44,379 Actually, I'm starting new, and I'm breaking free, 263 00:15:44,413 --> 00:15:47,448 and that's one thing I should break free of, is Colt. 264 00:15:47,482 --> 00:15:49,275 I think you guys will appreciate each other more 265 00:15:49,310 --> 00:15:51,413 -being away from each other. -I think so too. I think it's good. 266 00:15:51,448 --> 00:15:52,758 Yeah. 267 00:15:52,793 --> 00:15:55,758 Yeah, it's good that we get away from each other for a while. 268 00:15:55,793 --> 00:15:59,551 And then bringing a guy over for you won't be so awkward. 269 00:15:59,586 --> 00:16:01,517 [Debbie] Yeah, that was a little awkward. 270 00:16:01,551 --> 00:16:04,103 [Vanessa] Colt was so uncomfortable. 271 00:16:04,137 --> 00:16:06,655 Like, Colt was just like, "I gotta get the fuck out of here." 272 00:16:06,689 --> 00:16:08,103 I was uncomfortable. 273 00:16:08,137 --> 00:16:11,275 It's been a long time since I had some strange man in my bed. 274 00:16:11,310 --> 00:16:13,517 Yeah? Did you like it? 275 00:16:14,793 --> 00:16:16,448 I was very disappointed. 276 00:16:16,482 --> 00:16:19,896 Oh, really? Uh-oh. Why? 277 00:16:19,931 --> 00:16:21,793 He told me to stop talking at one point. 278 00:16:22,862 --> 00:16:24,241 [chuckling nervously] 279 00:16:27,517 --> 00:16:29,517 That's really odd, 280 00:16:29,551 --> 00:16:33,068 'cause I kind of had that same issue with Colt. 281 00:16:35,379 --> 00:16:39,000 [chuckling] She says this is too much. 282 00:16:39,034 --> 00:16:42,000 -You guys are a lot alike for sure. -[laughs] 283 00:16:42,034 --> 00:16:44,068 Oh, God, don't go there. No. 284 00:16:46,172 --> 00:16:50,517 It is really embarrassing for somebody to tell you that... 285 00:16:55,034 --> 00:16:56,931 I don't know. But it is embarrassing. 286 00:16:56,965 --> 00:16:59,379 Very, very embarrassing. 287 00:16:59,413 --> 00:17:01,344 Oh, my God. 288 00:17:01,379 --> 00:17:02,862 [laughs] 289 00:17:04,620 --> 00:17:07,241 What was life like before Colt? 290 00:17:07,275 --> 00:17:09,172 Did you go dating a lot? I mean... 291 00:17:09,206 --> 00:17:10,724 Oh, it was fantastic. 292 00:17:12,896 --> 00:17:16,206 It was easier to meet people 'cause I worked in cocktail lounges 293 00:17:16,241 --> 00:17:18,344 -and restaurants and stuff. -Oh! 294 00:17:18,379 --> 00:17:21,344 -So, Debbie was a wild child before a Colt! -I was, I was. 295 00:17:21,379 --> 00:17:24,896 I had a lot of oats to sow, and I sowed them all right. 296 00:17:24,931 --> 00:17:26,482 [laughs] 297 00:17:26,517 --> 00:17:28,965 I feel like we could still get some of that out of you. 298 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,379 [laughs] 299 00:17:30,413 --> 00:17:33,172 I'd love to see you happy. 300 00:17:33,206 --> 00:17:35,344 I think I have someone in mind for you. 301 00:17:35,379 --> 00:17:36,793 -Yeah? -Yeah. 302 00:17:36,827 --> 00:17:39,827 He's a friend of a friend, but I honestly don't know much about him. 303 00:17:41,275 --> 00:17:42,655 Would you be open to that? 304 00:17:42,689 --> 00:17:44,241 -That would be terrific. -Yeah? 305 00:17:44,275 --> 00:17:46,310 I'm nervous already. 306 00:17:46,344 --> 00:17:49,689 -I'll reach out and see if-- -Okay. All right. 307 00:17:49,724 --> 00:17:52,137 Oh, my goodness. A date! A date! 308 00:17:52,172 --> 00:17:53,241 [both laugh] 309 00:17:53,275 --> 00:17:54,586 I got chills. [laughs] 310 00:17:57,068 --> 00:17:59,413 I'm very nervous about meeting someone on a blind date. 311 00:17:59,448 --> 00:18:01,103 I don't know anything about them. 312 00:18:01,137 --> 00:18:03,896 I don't know what they look like, where they're from. 313 00:18:03,931 --> 00:18:05,896 I don't know anything about them. 314 00:18:05,931 --> 00:18:09,620 But anytime you meet a new person through anywhere 315 00:18:09,655 --> 00:18:14,000 that you don't know, it's nerve-racking and scary. 316 00:18:34,275 --> 00:18:36,241 [Ed] Sorry, I got emotional. 317 00:18:36,275 --> 00:18:37,655 Wow! 318 00:18:40,758 --> 00:18:42,551 -Don't cry. -I'm not. 319 00:18:44,103 --> 00:18:45,724 Sorry. [chuckles] 320 00:18:45,758 --> 00:18:48,241 I'm on a date with a girl named Mia. 321 00:18:48,275 --> 00:18:50,379 Swing dancing was awesome. 322 00:18:50,413 --> 00:18:52,448 But now she seems very guarded. 323 00:18:52,482 --> 00:18:55,586 And I did cry. 324 00:18:55,620 --> 00:19:01,275 I wear my heart on my sleeve and I kind of feel awkward. 325 00:19:01,310 --> 00:19:04,310 -[Mia] How long ago was that? -Three months ago. 326 00:19:04,344 --> 00:19:05,862 So, it's fairly recent. 327 00:19:08,206 --> 00:19:10,517 The relationship between Ed and Liz 328 00:19:10,551 --> 00:19:13,482 seems to be very, very concerning. 329 00:19:13,517 --> 00:19:16,000 He preferred to be in a toxic relationship 330 00:19:16,034 --> 00:19:19,827 and to be with someone than to be solo and happy. 331 00:19:21,655 --> 00:19:24,172 So, I'm done and I've moved on, 332 00:19:24,206 --> 00:19:25,965 and I wish her the best, 333 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,827 but I'm in a much better place. 334 00:19:28,862 --> 00:19:30,655 It sounds like you are. 335 00:19:32,896 --> 00:19:34,827 Let's talk about something else. 336 00:19:34,862 --> 00:19:36,517 So, where did you grow up? 337 00:19:36,551 --> 00:19:38,482 I was born and raised in New Jersey. 338 00:19:38,517 --> 00:19:39,827 -Can I ask you a question? -What? 339 00:19:40,551 --> 00:19:42,068 [clears throat] 340 00:19:42,103 --> 00:19:44,551 [in New Jersey accent] What's a Jersey girl doing in Vegas? 341 00:19:44,586 --> 00:19:46,827 -Oh! -[in normal voice] Did I say that right? 342 00:19:46,862 --> 00:19:48,724 Yeah, kinda. 343 00:19:48,758 --> 00:19:51,965 So, can I ask how long you've been single? 344 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:56,724 Uh, it was... It's a little less than a year. 345 00:19:56,758 --> 00:19:58,758 Got divorced in July of last year. 346 00:19:58,793 --> 00:20:01,000 Okay, sorry about that. 347 00:20:01,034 --> 00:20:03,172 It is what it is. It needed to happen. 348 00:20:03,206 --> 00:20:06,275 Okay. And how are you doing with that? 349 00:20:06,310 --> 00:20:09,275 I'm learning about myself. 350 00:20:09,310 --> 00:20:11,206 It's a whole rebirth process. 351 00:20:11,241 --> 00:20:14,034 Finding out who you are, what you like, 352 00:20:14,068 --> 00:20:16,862 what you want, what you need. 353 00:20:17,620 --> 00:20:19,275 So, I am learning. 354 00:20:19,310 --> 00:20:21,620 -Thank you for sharing that. -You're welcome. 355 00:20:22,310 --> 00:20:23,103 [exhales deeply] 356 00:20:24,172 --> 00:20:25,517 I'm not worthy. 357 00:20:25,551 --> 00:20:28,000 -[laughs] -I'm not worthy of you. I'm sorry. 358 00:20:28,034 --> 00:20:31,137 -Just... You're awesome. -Thank you. 359 00:20:35,034 --> 00:20:36,103 I like you. 360 00:20:38,241 --> 00:20:42,000 I have another awesome reason to come to Vegas. 361 00:20:44,448 --> 00:20:46,034 And I mean that. 362 00:20:47,344 --> 00:20:49,103 Okay. 363 00:20:50,310 --> 00:20:52,620 So, I guess the next question is, 364 00:20:52,655 --> 00:20:55,551 can we go out again? 365 00:21:00,965 --> 00:21:02,275 Maybe. 366 00:21:03,965 --> 00:21:05,379 Anyways, well, thank you again. 367 00:21:05,413 --> 00:21:08,000 -I had a blast. -Well, thank you, I had fun. 368 00:21:08,034 --> 00:21:09,379 Okay, so we should we get out of here? 369 00:21:09,413 --> 00:21:11,241 -Yes, let's go. -Let's go. 370 00:21:12,793 --> 00:21:16,344 I've learned that I can date closer to my age. 371 00:21:16,379 --> 00:21:19,655 I don't have to be with a young person in their 20s. 372 00:21:19,689 --> 00:21:21,482 I don't have to have that, 373 00:21:21,517 --> 00:21:23,758 which for me is huge. 374 00:21:23,793 --> 00:21:25,586 So, I asked Mia on a second date, 375 00:21:25,620 --> 00:21:28,379 but she didn't say yes. 376 00:21:28,413 --> 00:21:32,620 I would love the chance to see Mia again and get to know her more. 377 00:21:33,275 --> 00:21:35,517 -This was fun. -It was. 378 00:21:36,448 --> 00:21:37,689 Thank you so much. 379 00:21:37,724 --> 00:21:40,724 -Have a good night. Have fun. -Yeah. 380 00:21:40,758 --> 00:21:42,551 -Okay, bye. -Bye. 381 00:21:56,137 --> 00:22:00,172 [singing in Spanish] 382 00:22:02,551 --> 00:22:05,793 ♪ Can I get that... Body for free ♪ 383 00:22:05,827 --> 00:22:08,931 ♪ Why you be calling, calling we don't wanna speak ♪ 384 00:22:08,965 --> 00:22:12,068 ♪ Yeah, if you want it, better listen carefully ♪ 385 00:22:12,103 --> 00:22:15,344 ♪ We don't go running, running if you know what I need ♪ 386 00:22:15,379 --> 00:22:16,931 [singing in Spanish] 387 00:22:17,793 --> 00:22:20,034 I'm here at the airport, very excited 388 00:22:20,068 --> 00:22:23,172 because I'm about to see Jesse finally. 389 00:22:31,586 --> 00:22:35,206 [Jeniffer] This is very huge, like, we have been planning this for a year, 390 00:22:35,241 --> 00:22:38,344 and I will be able to meet him, 391 00:22:38,379 --> 00:22:39,724 like the real Jesse, 392 00:22:39,758 --> 00:22:42,275 not just, you know, behind a screen. 393 00:22:42,310 --> 00:22:44,793 And I want it to be magical. 394 00:22:46,965 --> 00:22:49,206 Of course, I have high expectations for Jesse. 395 00:22:49,241 --> 00:22:52,241 I mean, I really want him to... 396 00:22:53,931 --> 00:22:56,068 If he doesn't make me feel that... 397 00:22:58,275 --> 00:23:00,137 Because he will miss this. 398 00:23:16,034 --> 00:23:17,758 -[Jesse] Oh, my gosh! -[laughing] 399 00:23:19,620 --> 00:23:22,517 Oh, my gosh. Finally! 400 00:23:26,965 --> 00:23:28,586 Oh, babe! 401 00:23:28,620 --> 00:23:30,344 ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 402 00:23:30,379 --> 00:23:32,448 ♪ It's all or nothing ♪ 403 00:23:32,482 --> 00:23:35,344 ♪ There's no other way ♪ 404 00:23:37,103 --> 00:23:38,793 [Jesse speaking] 405 00:23:45,896 --> 00:23:48,724 -I'm so excited. -Oh, my God, so good to see you. 406 00:23:48,758 --> 00:23:50,379 -Yeah, you too, baby. -Wow! 407 00:23:50,413 --> 00:23:51,793 You look amazing. 408 00:23:51,827 --> 00:23:53,137 -You're very tall. -Oh, my God. [laughs] 409 00:23:53,172 --> 00:23:55,103 I love it. 410 00:23:55,137 --> 00:23:57,172 [both speaking Spanish] 411 00:24:01,275 --> 00:24:03,586 I was like after a year, we're here. 412 00:24:04,931 --> 00:24:08,000 -You look amazing, so excited. -You too. 413 00:24:08,034 --> 00:24:10,137 Oh, listen... 414 00:24:10,172 --> 00:24:13,517 Yeah. You look amazing, babe. 415 00:24:15,655 --> 00:24:17,000 Wow! 416 00:24:19,103 --> 00:24:20,586 [Jeniffer] He's hot obviously. 417 00:24:20,620 --> 00:24:25,034 This is like a storm of feelings and emotions that are, 418 00:24:25,068 --> 00:24:27,379 you know, waking up and starting to boil. 419 00:24:27,413 --> 00:24:31,068 I'm very, very, very excited for what's coming. 420 00:24:31,103 --> 00:24:34,206 One thing that we didn't do is kiss each other. 421 00:24:34,241 --> 00:24:36,068 I want him to kiss me. 422 00:24:36,103 --> 00:24:37,655 I really like him. 423 00:24:38,448 --> 00:24:40,034 -I made it. -So happy. 424 00:24:40,068 --> 00:24:41,862 -Yeah. -You did it. Long trip? 425 00:24:41,896 --> 00:24:44,896 -Was it good? Or... -It's 20 hours, I think. 426 00:24:44,931 --> 00:24:48,482 But it's all worth it, yeah. 427 00:24:50,551 --> 00:24:54,689 I felt that energy like through the phone, but now it's just complete. 428 00:24:54,724 --> 00:24:56,965 I mean, like I saw her standing there 429 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,551 and I was like, "Wow, she's very beautiful." 430 00:25:06,310 --> 00:25:07,896 [laughs] 431 00:25:07,931 --> 00:25:09,034 That's what I'm feeling right now. 432 00:25:10,379 --> 00:25:11,517 [both laugh] 433 00:25:11,551 --> 00:25:13,206 [loud thunderclap] 434 00:25:13,241 --> 00:25:15,758 Holy shit! What the fuck! 435 00:25:17,275 --> 00:25:19,620 Holy shit! What is that? 436 00:25:21,103 --> 00:25:23,620 Is this normal like, is this Colombia or what? 437 00:25:23,655 --> 00:25:26,965 [Jeniffer speaking] 438 00:25:29,931 --> 00:25:31,896 [both speaking Spanish] 439 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:36,241 [Jesse] Let's start this journey. 440 00:25:43,413 --> 00:25:44,206 [camera shutter clicks] 441 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,310 Oh, I love it. 442 00:25:46,344 --> 00:25:47,448 It's so cute. 443 00:25:47,482 --> 00:25:49,896 -So cute. -Just for memories. 444 00:25:49,931 --> 00:25:53,379 Jeniffer has a beautiful energy, so pure, so authentic, 445 00:25:53,413 --> 00:25:57,068 but I'm trying to be patient with the sexual chemistry 446 00:25:57,103 --> 00:26:00,827 because if you do it too fast, then it gets this, like, 447 00:26:00,862 --> 00:26:05,655 you know, different um, connotation on the relationship. 448 00:26:05,689 --> 00:26:08,137 And I wanna really take my time 449 00:26:08,172 --> 00:26:11,448 to understand what this is. 450 00:26:14,379 --> 00:26:16,310 So, how far is like... 451 00:26:16,344 --> 00:26:19,551 Hmm, to the hotel? Like, 40 minutes. 452 00:26:19,586 --> 00:26:21,965 -40 minutes? -Yeah. It's a little bit far. 453 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,310 Listen as long as I'm in your presence, I'm good. 454 00:26:24,344 --> 00:26:27,689 -Okay. -I don't care where we are, what we do, 455 00:26:27,724 --> 00:26:29,310 as long as I'm around you. 456 00:26:30,620 --> 00:26:32,103 That's what it's all about. 457 00:26:37,137 --> 00:26:39,172 [Jeniffer] Here we are in the taxi. 458 00:26:39,206 --> 00:26:41,862 I can see that he has no rush to be passionate, 459 00:26:41,896 --> 00:26:44,655 which I find very strange because 460 00:26:44,689 --> 00:26:47,689 that is just something that I didn't expect. 461 00:26:47,724 --> 00:26:51,448 And I'm afraid that it will be just like him. 462 00:26:51,482 --> 00:26:54,965 So crazy. Gosh, I can't believe we are here... 463 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,689 -[Jeniffer] Yeah. -[Jesse] ...like a year later. 464 00:26:58,310 --> 00:27:01,551 You know, it had to happen later 465 00:27:01,586 --> 00:27:04,413 because I wanted to be like, you know, getting to know you. 466 00:27:04,448 --> 00:27:08,586 So, yeah. It's been a long time. 467 00:27:12,689 --> 00:27:14,068 And for you, like, 468 00:27:14,103 --> 00:27:16,413 you know, I think now you've been single for three years, right? 469 00:27:16,448 --> 00:27:19,620 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've been single for three years. 470 00:27:35,137 --> 00:27:37,241 So, I'm worried that 471 00:27:37,275 --> 00:27:40,379 he may be so angry with me that 472 00:27:40,413 --> 00:27:42,758 maybe he never want to talk to me again. 473 00:27:43,758 --> 00:27:46,034 But I wanna tell him the truth. 474 00:27:54,241 --> 00:27:55,655 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 475 00:27:57,068 --> 00:28:00,793 ♪ I'm picture-perfect Believe me, I'm worth it ♪ 476 00:28:00,827 --> 00:28:04,275 ♪ My figures are cursive Hot, I burn like a furnace ♪ 477 00:28:04,310 --> 00:28:06,413 ♪ ...under the surface ♪ 478 00:28:06,448 --> 00:28:09,000 ♪ Then I'll perfect it ♪ 479 00:28:10,413 --> 00:28:12,241 [Syngin speaking] 480 00:28:12,275 --> 00:28:13,620 Oh, shit. 481 00:28:14,206 --> 00:28:16,344 -Hmm. -Mmm-mmm. 482 00:28:18,241 --> 00:28:20,206 -So good right? -Mmm. 483 00:28:20,241 --> 00:28:22,724 [Syngin] Me and Tania are still doing things that couples do. 484 00:28:22,758 --> 00:28:26,172 But it's time to step up and, you know, get the divorce going. 485 00:28:28,655 --> 00:28:32,275 It's really hard because it's the cycle about talking about separating, 486 00:28:32,310 --> 00:28:34,793 but both of us are too chicken to actually do it. 487 00:28:34,827 --> 00:28:37,241 Because there's a lot of emotional investment 488 00:28:37,275 --> 00:28:38,931 that we've put into our relationship. 489 00:28:41,586 --> 00:28:43,275 [Syngin speaking] 490 00:28:49,896 --> 00:28:51,379 Yeah. 491 00:28:51,413 --> 00:28:54,241 Almost doesn't feel real, right? 492 00:28:54,275 --> 00:28:57,413 [Tania] I wanna be intimate, I still wanna kiss. 493 00:28:57,448 --> 00:29:00,034 Why not? Like, we're together, we're still living together. 494 00:29:00,068 --> 00:29:01,758 Technically, yeah, we're separating, 495 00:29:01,793 --> 00:29:03,862 but we're not actually separated yet. 496 00:29:03,896 --> 00:29:06,724 Like, I don't consider myself single as yet 497 00:29:06,758 --> 00:29:08,103 until he's finally out 498 00:29:08,137 --> 00:29:09,689 from underneath the same roof as me. 499 00:29:11,793 --> 00:29:13,965 [Syngin speaking] 500 00:29:17,379 --> 00:29:18,172 [exhales sharply] 501 00:29:19,965 --> 00:29:25,068 I wanna kiss you and hug you, but I know it's at an unhealthy stage right now. 502 00:29:25,103 --> 00:29:27,931 And I know that both of us, you know, need, 503 00:29:29,275 --> 00:29:31,482 our space, you know, like, like we say, 504 00:29:31,517 --> 00:29:34,103 it's getting a lot. 505 00:29:37,965 --> 00:29:40,482 I struggle 'cause I don't want this to happen. 506 00:29:40,517 --> 00:29:41,758 Yeah. 507 00:29:43,931 --> 00:29:47,000 You know, like, I didn't marry you 508 00:29:47,034 --> 00:29:50,896 thinking that, you know, we'd be breaking up. 509 00:29:50,931 --> 00:29:52,517 Just there was a lot of differences 510 00:29:52,551 --> 00:29:54,793 when it came to kids and future. 511 00:29:58,379 --> 00:29:59,172 [Tania] Mmm-hmm. 512 00:30:00,206 --> 00:30:02,758 How do we go about this? 513 00:30:02,793 --> 00:30:07,000 I have no idea, you know, we're getting divorced. So... 514 00:30:07,034 --> 00:30:08,793 Are we getting divorced or are we getting separated? 515 00:30:08,827 --> 00:30:10,517 -What do we even do? -I think it's the same thing. 516 00:30:10,551 --> 00:30:13,103 No, I mean, separation, you're still legally married. 517 00:30:13,137 --> 00:30:14,586 You're separated. 518 00:30:14,620 --> 00:30:18,448 Yeah, but there's no point in then being married, if you're separated. 519 00:30:18,482 --> 00:30:21,827 But like I was thinking, you know, like, that is something to think about 520 00:30:21,862 --> 00:30:23,413 separation or divorce. 521 00:30:23,448 --> 00:30:24,827 You know, like what does it look like 522 00:30:24,862 --> 00:30:28,137 if we do spend, like, six months apart 523 00:30:28,172 --> 00:30:31,172 and like working on ourselves and working on our own happiness... 524 00:30:33,137 --> 00:30:35,551 Yeah, it's tough. I don't, yeah... 525 00:30:35,586 --> 00:30:37,000 I don't think. 526 00:30:40,137 --> 00:30:41,655 [Syngin speaking] 527 00:30:43,758 --> 00:30:46,000 I mean, you want children and... 528 00:30:50,275 --> 00:30:51,827 [voice breaking] It's not like I want children now. 529 00:30:51,862 --> 00:30:53,517 I've never wanted children right now. 530 00:30:53,551 --> 00:30:55,620 I just wanna be knowing 531 00:30:55,655 --> 00:30:58,137 I can be working towards that, you know, like... 532 00:31:27,448 --> 00:31:33,137 I imagined us, like, you know, growing old, Having kids together. 533 00:31:33,172 --> 00:31:37,413 You know, you out barefoot, fucking naked on our lawn. 534 00:31:37,448 --> 00:31:41,344 You know? Why couldn't we have it? 535 00:31:41,379 --> 00:31:44,000 [sobs] Like, I just don't get the why? 536 00:31:48,034 --> 00:31:50,517 [sobbing] I just remember, like, in South Africa, 537 00:31:50,551 --> 00:31:54,137 and like traveling, but when we're stable, we're stable. 538 00:31:54,172 --> 00:31:56,206 And so I just had so much hope. 539 00:31:57,896 --> 00:31:59,896 That makes me so angry at both of us. 540 00:32:01,793 --> 00:32:04,655 I just, like, too, I feel like, just we didn't try. 541 00:32:06,896 --> 00:32:08,620 But try for what, though? 542 00:32:08,655 --> 00:32:10,896 We could try all of this, but at the end of the day, 543 00:32:10,931 --> 00:32:13,206 you still wouldn't want kids, 544 00:32:13,241 --> 00:32:16,689 That's kinda when I knew, you know. 545 00:32:16,724 --> 00:32:17,896 And it breaks my heart 546 00:32:17,931 --> 00:32:20,241 because I know it's something you really want. 547 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,413 [Syngin speaking] 548 00:32:31,586 --> 00:32:32,413 [sobbing] 549 00:32:37,344 --> 00:32:38,862 [Syngin] Deciding to get a divorce, 550 00:32:38,896 --> 00:32:41,000 it's really a tough decision. 551 00:32:41,034 --> 00:32:44,379 And definitely one of the worst moments of my life. 552 00:32:46,344 --> 00:32:47,724 Sorry, baby. 553 00:32:51,793 --> 00:32:53,758 ♪ Give me the night ♪ 554 00:32:53,793 --> 00:32:56,724 ♪ Give me the splendor I gotta dance ♪ 555 00:32:56,758 --> 00:32:59,586 ♪ You wanna feel this way ♪ 556 00:32:59,620 --> 00:33:04,034 ♪ All you gotta say is I'm okay ♪ 557 00:33:04,068 --> 00:33:06,620 ♪ Yeah, I'm okay ♪ 558 00:33:07,517 --> 00:33:10,275 Why must she always do this? Come on! 559 00:33:11,793 --> 00:33:13,482 Let's put the butt that way, though. 560 00:33:17,551 --> 00:33:20,620 When Colt told me he was moving out in three months, 561 00:33:20,655 --> 00:33:22,034 I got really pissed. 562 00:33:22,068 --> 00:33:25,241 And we have not talked about it since. 563 00:33:25,275 --> 00:33:27,724 But right now I can't think about him kicking me out of the house 564 00:33:27,758 --> 00:33:29,827 because I really need to focus on my date tonight. 565 00:33:30,482 --> 00:33:32,689 I feel very nervous. 566 00:33:34,862 --> 00:33:37,206 Very nervous. 567 00:33:37,241 --> 00:33:41,206 Vanessa set me up with someone who's a friend of a friend. 568 00:33:41,241 --> 00:33:44,172 And I don't know anything about this person. 569 00:33:44,206 --> 00:33:47,137 I mean, nothing, absolutely nothing. 570 00:33:47,172 --> 00:33:49,620 Except his name is Edward. 571 00:33:49,655 --> 00:33:52,000 I've never been on a blind date before. 572 00:33:58,413 --> 00:34:01,206 So, it's better to meet someone, I think, 573 00:34:01,241 --> 00:34:04,551 in person or through a friend than online. 574 00:34:06,241 --> 00:34:09,103 I had one date in the last 40 years. 575 00:34:13,793 --> 00:34:15,413 I normally don't wear a lot of makeup. 576 00:34:16,206 --> 00:34:18,068 But I have nice eyes. 577 00:34:18,103 --> 00:34:21,000 So, that's one of my... "I want attention." 578 00:34:21,034 --> 00:34:22,344 Attention-grabber. 579 00:34:31,758 --> 00:34:34,758 The '60s and '70s were totally different. 580 00:34:34,793 --> 00:34:36,448 Free love, sex and rock 'n' roll. 581 00:34:36,482 --> 00:34:38,344 I mean, that's the way it was. 582 00:34:41,241 --> 00:34:42,655 I was a slut. 583 00:34:42,689 --> 00:34:44,724 [laughs] 584 00:34:44,758 --> 00:34:46,931 But I loved to go out and party. 585 00:34:46,965 --> 00:34:49,620 I was a go-go dancer. 586 00:34:49,655 --> 00:34:51,517 I worked at a lot of cocktail lounges. 587 00:34:51,551 --> 00:34:53,758 It was a lot of fun. 588 00:34:53,793 --> 00:34:58,758 You got to wear sexy outfits. You got a lot of attention, even from famous people. 589 00:34:58,793 --> 00:35:01,068 I had a one-night stand with the Marlboro Man. 590 00:35:01,103 --> 00:35:04,103 [laughing] We fucked our brains out, what do you want me to say? 591 00:35:08,103 --> 00:35:09,827 [sighs] You wanna pass the test. 592 00:35:09,862 --> 00:35:12,620 'Cause basically that's what it is, a test. 593 00:35:14,206 --> 00:35:17,000 [sighs] Okay, I guess this is it. 594 00:35:19,482 --> 00:35:22,896 -[gasps] Debbie! -Ta-da! 595 00:35:22,931 --> 00:35:25,758 [Vanessa] Ahhh! You look so good! 596 00:35:25,793 --> 00:35:27,482 Let's spin, let's spin Let's see it. 597 00:35:27,517 --> 00:35:31,379 Oh, she looks so cute. I love It. 598 00:35:31,413 --> 00:35:32,586 You look great. 599 00:35:32,620 --> 00:35:34,241 -My tattoo's showing. -[Colt] You look good. 600 00:35:34,275 --> 00:35:38,413 -That's fine. Let it show. -No, 'cause it's all wrinkly. 601 00:35:38,448 --> 00:35:40,931 -[Colt] That's fine. -But that's something you guys can talk about. 602 00:35:40,965 --> 00:35:42,482 -[Colt] Yeah, why not? -Yeah, but it's all wrinkly. 603 00:35:42,517 --> 00:35:44,448 -[Vanessa] Maybe he has some too. -Look, see? It's all wrinkly. 604 00:35:44,482 --> 00:35:46,862 It looks good. I bet he has a few. 605 00:35:46,896 --> 00:35:51,172 -[Debbie] Wrinkles? -No. [laughs] Tattoos. 606 00:35:51,206 --> 00:35:53,896 [Colt] You could say, "You should see the rest of it." And then, like, wink. 607 00:35:53,931 --> 00:35:56,103 [laughs] 608 00:35:56,137 --> 00:35:58,965 [Colt] Even though my mother's upset with the news of us moving out 609 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,482 and the fact that she will be living on her own, 610 00:36:01,517 --> 00:36:04,413 I'm still rooting for her on this date. 611 00:36:04,448 --> 00:36:06,137 I guess her last date didn't go very well 612 00:36:06,172 --> 00:36:08,482 I don't really know what happened. 613 00:36:08,517 --> 00:36:11,413 Well, she told me a bit about the guy 614 00:36:11,448 --> 00:36:14,586 and just didn't sound like they... 615 00:36:14,620 --> 00:36:17,137 they were in tune sexually, really. 616 00:36:20,689 --> 00:36:23,551 My mother could very well get her heart broken tonight 617 00:36:23,586 --> 00:36:26,206 but I just feel like it's better for her to try 618 00:36:26,241 --> 00:36:28,344 and keep trying than to just do nothing. 619 00:36:28,896 --> 00:36:30,000 It's worth it. 620 00:36:31,344 --> 00:36:33,034 -[Colt] Are you nervous? -[Vanessa] You all right? 621 00:36:33,068 --> 00:36:34,241 [Debbie] Yeah, I'm nervous. 622 00:36:34,275 --> 00:36:36,827 -So, what's his name? -Edward. 623 00:36:36,862 --> 00:36:38,206 -[Colt] Edward? -[Vanessa] Edward. 624 00:36:38,241 --> 00:36:39,655 [Debbie] I'll call him Eddie. 625 00:36:39,689 --> 00:36:41,758 [flirtatiously] Hey, Eddie! 626 00:36:41,793 --> 00:36:44,620 [Vanessa laughs] That's cute. Flirt a little bit. 627 00:36:44,655 --> 00:36:45,689 [Debbie] Ed! 628 00:36:47,448 --> 00:36:49,827 -[Colt] Maybe don't do that. -No? 629 00:36:51,931 --> 00:36:53,068 [doorbell rings] 630 00:36:53,103 --> 00:36:54,689 -I'm gonna go get it. -[Vanessa] Oh, my God. 631 00:36:54,724 --> 00:36:56,241 -[Colt] You stay here. -[Vanessa] I'm so excited. 632 00:37:00,793 --> 00:37:03,206 The last date I went on was a disaster. 633 00:37:03,241 --> 00:37:05,379 And if this turns out to be another disaster, 634 00:37:05,413 --> 00:37:09,620 then it might set me back to thinking maybe I'm not ready to date. 635 00:37:09,655 --> 00:37:14,896 Or maybe I'm not, um, maybe just not dateable. 636 00:37:14,931 --> 00:37:16,068 How's that? 637 00:37:16,793 --> 00:37:18,034 -Hi. -[Edward] Hi. 638 00:37:18,068 --> 00:37:19,655 -I'm Edward. -Edward, I'm Colt. 639 00:37:21,068 --> 00:37:22,275 [Colt] Hey, Mom. 640 00:37:27,379 --> 00:37:29,103 ♪ I catch your eye ♪ 641 00:37:29,137 --> 00:37:32,793 ♪ Just throw a glance ♪ 642 00:37:32,827 --> 00:37:36,448 ♪ There's danger now ♪ 643 00:37:36,482 --> 00:37:40,103 ♪ Retreat, advance ♪ 644 00:37:40,137 --> 00:37:43,724 ♪ Infectious glow... ♪ 645 00:37:44,517 --> 00:37:46,379 [Natalie speaking] 646 00:37:48,379 --> 00:37:49,206 [chuckles] 647 00:37:55,068 --> 00:37:56,620 [Johnny speaking] 648 00:37:56,655 --> 00:37:58,620 Hi. 649 00:37:58,655 --> 00:38:01,000 -I'm Natalie. -Natalie, nice to meet you. 650 00:38:01,034 --> 00:38:03,241 -Nice to meet you. -I'm Johnny, nice to meet you. 651 00:38:03,275 --> 00:38:04,965 Mmm-hmm. Good. 652 00:38:09,482 --> 00:38:11,413 What are you drinking? 653 00:38:11,448 --> 00:38:13,758 I'm drinking a Red Bull vodka. 654 00:38:13,793 --> 00:38:14,862 Oh, okay. 655 00:38:17,758 --> 00:38:19,862 I am surprised because Johnny 656 00:38:19,896 --> 00:38:23,000 look even better than the pictures. 657 00:38:23,724 --> 00:38:25,931 [Natalie speaking] 658 00:38:25,965 --> 00:38:28,068 And I was like, "Not nice." 659 00:38:39,137 --> 00:38:40,931 So, what would you like to drink? 660 00:38:43,034 --> 00:38:44,620 -Do we like vodka? -No. 661 00:38:44,655 --> 00:38:46,724 Do we like tequila? Do we like water? 662 00:38:46,758 --> 00:38:49,206 I would like water. 663 00:38:49,241 --> 00:38:51,068 -So, you don't drink alcohol? -I just, you know... 664 00:38:51,103 --> 00:38:52,448 Oh, not on the first date. 665 00:38:52,482 --> 00:38:55,827 Yeah. And I don't feel like, you know, drinking. 666 00:38:55,862 --> 00:38:57,241 Yeah? 667 00:39:15,275 --> 00:39:16,517 Don't be sorry. 668 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,896 First thing I noticed about Natalie. 669 00:39:20,931 --> 00:39:23,068 She's feeling a little bit on edge, 670 00:39:23,103 --> 00:39:24,241 especially with that drink. 671 00:39:24,275 --> 00:39:27,275 But, you know, I'm very good with women 672 00:39:27,310 --> 00:39:29,137 and I want her to trust me 673 00:39:29,172 --> 00:39:30,655 because she's gorgeous. 674 00:39:30,689 --> 00:39:33,862 And Ukrainian, I can definitely tell. 675 00:39:33,896 --> 00:39:35,931 I'm very attracted to her. She's beautiful. 676 00:39:37,034 --> 00:39:40,172 So, you're upset. I don't want you to be upset. 677 00:39:40,206 --> 00:39:41,448 You want me to get a water? 678 00:39:42,344 --> 00:39:44,103 Give me a second, okay? 679 00:39:45,310 --> 00:39:47,172 What are you doing? 680 00:39:47,206 --> 00:39:51,344 I'm getting a water, when there's a bartender. 681 00:39:51,379 --> 00:39:53,586 We'll call him when he gets over here, okay? 682 00:39:53,620 --> 00:39:55,137 [Natalie speaking] 683 00:39:55,172 --> 00:39:56,448 -Ah, okay. -Oh, no, problem at all. 684 00:39:56,482 --> 00:39:57,793 Okay. 685 00:40:15,655 --> 00:40:18,103 [breathes deeply] 686 00:40:19,758 --> 00:40:20,896 100%. 687 00:40:20,931 --> 00:40:24,965 -You do? -100%. 200%. 688 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:31,000 My marriage with Mike was spoiled by him believing in aliens. 689 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:37,172 And for me, it is extremely important, 690 00:40:37,206 --> 00:40:39,931 my man to believe in God. 691 00:40:40,758 --> 00:40:42,620 So, I feel kind of relieved 692 00:40:42,655 --> 00:40:47,517 that Johnny, he doesn't see an alien in the sky, you know, good. 693 00:40:49,689 --> 00:40:52,137 [chuckles] So, what do you do? 694 00:40:57,620 --> 00:40:59,586 I think it will work for me. 695 00:40:59,620 --> 00:41:02,310 I think it will work for you, like, fantastically. 696 00:41:02,344 --> 00:41:05,689 Well, I mean, how tall are we? 697 00:41:05,724 --> 00:41:08,172 -5'7". -You're good. baby. 698 00:41:08,206 --> 00:41:09,896 -You're good. -How tall are you? 699 00:41:09,931 --> 00:41:12,344 -I'm 6'3". On a good day. -Oh, wow! 700 00:41:12,379 --> 00:41:14,379 Okay. You're very good-looking. 701 00:41:14,413 --> 00:41:16,551 I think you're a very great model. 702 00:41:16,586 --> 00:41:18,379 Thank you very much. I appreciate that. 703 00:41:18,413 --> 00:41:21,793 But I'm pursuing to become a greater model. 704 00:41:21,827 --> 00:41:23,482 What does it mean? 705 00:41:23,517 --> 00:41:27,172 Well, bigger scene, avant-garde, haute couture. 706 00:41:27,206 --> 00:41:31,689 -What is that? -That is two different styles of European fashion. 707 00:41:34,103 --> 00:41:35,310 Sorry, what? 708 00:41:35,344 --> 00:41:37,068 Lost in your-- I got lost in your eyes. 709 00:41:37,103 --> 00:41:40,172 [laughs] I keep looking in your eyes and I get, like, lost. 710 00:41:40,206 --> 00:41:42,551 Don't look at my eyes. Look at the whole thing. 711 00:41:42,586 --> 00:41:44,655 I'm gonna look over here then, I'm gonna look over here. 712 00:41:52,448 --> 00:41:53,724 There is something here. 713 00:41:53,758 --> 00:41:55,034 There is something here, I feel it. 714 00:41:55,068 --> 00:41:58,000 And I would love to go on a second date with her. 715 00:41:58,034 --> 00:42:01,379 I definitely, definitely. 716 00:42:01,413 --> 00:42:03,379 I want to go home. 717 00:42:03,413 --> 00:42:06,103 [Johnny] But there is something still holding her back. 718 00:42:06,137 --> 00:42:07,586 She's very guarded. 719 00:42:07,620 --> 00:42:08,965 She is guarded. 720 00:42:09,896 --> 00:42:11,758 Okay, thank you for the evening. 721 00:42:11,793 --> 00:42:13,275 -Yes. -It was really nice. 722 00:42:13,310 --> 00:42:15,206 You're a really nice guy. 723 00:42:15,241 --> 00:42:16,793 Had a fantastic date with you. 724 00:42:16,827 --> 00:42:18,000 Me too, thank you. 725 00:42:18,034 --> 00:42:20,793 I would love to come back for another date with you 726 00:42:20,827 --> 00:42:22,379 if you'd ever allow me to do that? 727 00:42:24,241 --> 00:42:25,620 Yes. 728 00:42:25,655 --> 00:42:27,034 I'm already looking forward to it. 729 00:42:28,137 --> 00:42:30,241 Oh, you're so cute. 730 00:42:30,275 --> 00:42:32,551 I'm excited to see Johnny again. 731 00:42:32,586 --> 00:42:35,965 But I worry about getting hurt again. 732 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,310 That's why I'd be more cautious 733 00:42:38,344 --> 00:42:41,413 because I can't constantly getting married and divorced. 734 00:42:41,448 --> 00:42:43,758 I'm tired of it. I just want family and child. 735 00:42:43,793 --> 00:42:46,655 I can't. I just want good guy. Just good guy. 736 00:42:47,724 --> 00:42:49,068 Oh, you're so gentleman. 737 00:42:49,103 --> 00:42:51,275 -Only for you. -Okay. 738 00:42:51,310 --> 00:42:52,931 -Good night. -Bye. 739 00:42:54,620 --> 00:42:57,275 [Debbie] Next time on 90 Day: The Single Life... 740 00:42:59,310 --> 00:43:02,034 Sex has never been enjoyable, 741 00:43:02,068 --> 00:43:07,000 but my assignment is to make a self-love tape 742 00:43:07,034 --> 00:43:09,206 to help me get ready for my date with Stephanie. 743 00:43:09,241 --> 00:43:12,137 And hopefully help me lose my celibacy. 744 00:43:20,551 --> 00:43:22,275 [Jesse] Did you get raw? Because mine is raw. 745 00:43:26,655 --> 00:43:28,000 Oh, shit. 746 00:43:28,034 --> 00:43:30,206 [Jesse] I wanna focus on Jeniffer. 747 00:43:30,241 --> 00:43:32,448 And it's gonna be difficult. 748 00:43:32,482 --> 00:43:34,137 -You have no red wine. -No. 749 00:43:34,172 --> 00:43:37,724 Because this place is not okay. 750 00:43:40,379 --> 00:43:43,448 And some guys who are in their 40s who need a little blue pills. 751 00:43:43,482 --> 00:43:46,344 -But I'm lucky that I don't need a little blue pill. -[laughs] 752 00:43:46,379 --> 00:43:49,896 He has a fantastic accent and he's adorable. 753 00:43:49,931 --> 00:43:53,517 I'm hoping to be having sex when I'm in my 80s. 754 00:43:53,551 --> 00:43:56,172 [Debbie speaking] 755 00:43:59,034 --> 00:44:02,655 We've decided that we're, um... 756 00:44:02,689 --> 00:44:04,827 Gonna, gonna, gonna break up. 757 00:44:04,862 --> 00:44:07,241 Well, you can go back to South Africa. 758 00:44:07,275 --> 00:44:09,068 [Syngin] I'm not gonna sit here and be blamed 759 00:44:09,103 --> 00:44:11,000 and making them think that this is all my fault. 760 00:44:11,034 --> 00:44:12,206 There's the immaturity. 761 00:44:12,241 --> 00:44:14,586 It's time for me to move on with my life.