1 00:00:13,068 --> 00:00:15,000 [upbeat music playing] 2 00:00:17,620 --> 00:00:19,344 [singer] ♪ Do the coconut twist ♪ 3 00:00:23,068 --> 00:00:24,827 ♪ And it goes like this ♪ 4 00:00:29,275 --> 00:00:31,034 ♪ Do the coconut twist ♪ 5 00:00:32,379 --> 00:00:34,724 Do you find it like, uh, 6 00:00:34,758 --> 00:00:36,310 difficult to meet someone, 7 00:00:36,344 --> 00:00:38,724 like in your town or like, uh, 8 00:00:38,758 --> 00:00:40,344 actually not just been focused at all 9 00:00:40,379 --> 00:00:42,655 for three years on dating anyone? 10 00:00:42,689 --> 00:00:47,034 Um, I don't usually get to know new people, to be honest. 11 00:00:47,068 --> 00:00:49,482 Like I have the same friends I... 12 00:00:49,517 --> 00:00:52,068 I've been having like 10 years ago. 13 00:00:55,517 --> 00:00:57,482 Really? Very nice. 14 00:01:01,482 --> 00:01:05,965 [Jeniffer speaking] 15 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:07,931 [chuckles] 16 00:01:07,965 --> 00:01:11,413 [Jeniffer speaking] 17 00:01:13,344 --> 00:01:18,000 [Jeniffer speaking] 18 00:01:21,655 --> 00:01:25,103 [Jeniffer speaking] 19 00:01:28,068 --> 00:01:30,034 -[in Spanish] -All right. 20 00:01:30,068 --> 00:01:31,551 Here we go, babe. 21 00:01:31,586 --> 00:01:33,206 Oh, beautiful place. Love it. 22 00:01:33,241 --> 00:01:35,551 Yeah. It's cute. 23 00:01:35,586 --> 00:01:39,586 [Jesse] I'm really thrilled to be with Jennifer. 24 00:01:39,620 --> 00:01:41,551 We just keep smiling at each other. 25 00:01:41,586 --> 00:01:42,551 Beautiful. 26 00:01:42,586 --> 00:01:45,413 [in Spanish] 27 00:01:45,448 --> 00:01:47,241 [in Spanish] 28 00:01:47,275 --> 00:01:48,551 Very happy to be here. 29 00:01:48,586 --> 00:01:50,620 Can I have your passport please, sir? 30 00:01:50,655 --> 00:01:52,310 -There you go. -[man] Thank you. 31 00:01:52,344 --> 00:01:54,551 About to get to the hotel room, 32 00:01:54,586 --> 00:01:58,310 but I do not want or expect, 33 00:01:58,344 --> 00:02:00,931 uh, you know, for us to sleep together, 34 00:02:00,965 --> 00:02:03,448 because how is it going to be? 35 00:02:03,482 --> 00:02:05,448 Am I ready for this? I don't know. 36 00:02:05,482 --> 00:02:07,482 Like we just met. 37 00:02:07,517 --> 00:02:09,034 It's nerve-wracking. 38 00:02:10,310 --> 00:02:11,862 All right. 39 00:02:14,793 --> 00:02:17,034 Wow. Nice. 40 00:02:17,068 --> 00:02:18,551 [in Spanish] 41 00:02:18,586 --> 00:02:19,827 -Uh, very nice. -[Jeniffer] Yeah. 42 00:02:19,862 --> 00:02:22,275 -[Jesse] Yeah. -[Jennifer] Great. 43 00:02:22,310 --> 00:02:23,862 Oh, my God. We have a bathtub. 44 00:02:23,896 --> 00:02:25,827 -Yeah. We do. -[Jesse] Yes. 45 00:02:25,862 --> 00:02:28,379 Wow. I'm like really positively surprised 46 00:02:28,413 --> 00:02:29,896 -about this. -Yeah. 47 00:02:33,310 --> 00:02:34,586 Oh, wow. 48 00:02:34,620 --> 00:02:36,448 That's incredible. 49 00:02:36,482 --> 00:02:38,172 So now we get ready, 50 00:02:38,206 --> 00:02:40,551 make sure that we have a nice first date, right? 51 00:02:40,586 --> 00:02:41,655 -Yeah. I mean, that's... -Yeah. 52 00:02:46,068 --> 00:02:52,034 [Jeniffer speaking] 53 00:03:06,103 --> 00:03:07,758 Oh, wow. 54 00:03:07,793 --> 00:03:09,724 Look at you. 55 00:03:11,379 --> 00:03:12,689 Wow. 56 00:03:12,724 --> 00:03:14,586 Baby. 57 00:03:14,620 --> 00:03:18,344 Wow. I'm like this is beautiful. 58 00:03:18,379 --> 00:03:21,034 [Jeniffer] You look like a star. 59 00:03:21,068 --> 00:03:23,724 Wow. Beautiful. It's beautiful. 60 00:03:23,758 --> 00:03:25,724 -Well, you know, I mean... -[Jennifer] Let's go. 61 00:03:25,758 --> 00:03:27,758 So let's go and... Let's go. 62 00:03:27,793 --> 00:03:29,448 Yeah. 63 00:03:29,482 --> 00:03:34,241 A few hours ago, we only knew each other online. 64 00:03:38,482 --> 00:03:40,517 Now we are next to each other. 65 00:03:40,551 --> 00:03:44,724 I just wanna make sure that before I dive into 66 00:03:44,758 --> 00:03:47,344 something sexual or kissing, any... 67 00:03:47,379 --> 00:03:50,931 I wanna like make sure... 68 00:03:50,965 --> 00:03:55,172 You know? Like... Like I wanna get to know her. 69 00:03:55,206 --> 00:03:57,517 I love it. So cute. 70 00:03:57,551 --> 00:03:58,448 Let's sit here. 71 00:04:01,827 --> 00:04:03,172 [in Spanish] 72 00:04:08,551 --> 00:04:11,551 So their specialty is like meat? 73 00:04:11,586 --> 00:04:13,931 -Yes. Yes. Meat. -Mmm-hmm. 74 00:04:13,965 --> 00:04:15,827 Well, that's good. Yeah. 75 00:04:15,862 --> 00:04:18,482 I love... I love a good steak. 76 00:04:18,517 --> 00:04:21,310 Waiter. 77 00:04:21,344 --> 00:04:22,931 [in Spanish] 78 00:04:22,965 --> 00:04:24,172 Yeah. 79 00:04:24,206 --> 00:04:26,310 [chuckles] 80 00:04:26,344 --> 00:04:27,965 [waiter in Spanish] 81 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,586 [Jesse in Spanish] 82 00:04:30,620 --> 00:04:31,793 [in Spanish] 83 00:04:37,931 --> 00:04:39,655 [Jeniffer in Spanish] 84 00:04:41,344 --> 00:04:42,689 I'm gonna do the steak. 85 00:04:42,724 --> 00:04:45,310 Um, and like do you have espresso martini? 86 00:04:45,344 --> 00:04:46,965 -[in Spanish] -[Jesse] No? Okay. 87 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,172 [Jeniffer] Oh, a bottle of wine. 88 00:04:49,206 --> 00:04:50,482 -[Jesse] Red wine? -Yeah. Red wine. 89 00:04:50,517 --> 00:04:51,586 Yeah. I love red wine. Yeah. Yeah. 90 00:04:51,620 --> 00:04:55,172 [in Spanish] 91 00:04:55,206 --> 00:04:58,758 I agree with everything she said, yeah. 92 00:04:58,793 --> 00:05:00,448 [in Spanish] Yeah. 93 00:05:00,482 --> 00:05:02,000 There is a language barrier. 94 00:05:02,034 --> 00:05:04,344 Right now I feel like a lost puppy. 95 00:05:04,379 --> 00:05:07,793 But, um, I'm focusing on being with Jennifer. 96 00:05:07,827 --> 00:05:11,000 There is so much energy. Yeah. 97 00:05:13,206 --> 00:05:15,862 Wait. Is that merlot? 98 00:05:15,896 --> 00:05:17,172 Okay. 99 00:05:19,482 --> 00:05:22,000 Smells like... 100 00:05:22,034 --> 00:05:24,034 pee a little bit. I don't know. 101 00:05:29,827 --> 00:05:31,586 Oh, shit. 102 00:05:38,275 --> 00:05:40,689 Did you get raw actually? 103 00:05:40,724 --> 00:05:41,862 -Hmm? -Did you get raw? 104 00:05:41,896 --> 00:05:43,482 Because mine is raw. 105 00:05:46,586 --> 00:05:49,068 -Not mine. -No? Okay. 106 00:05:50,862 --> 00:05:53,655 [Jeniffer] Baby. Terrible. 107 00:05:53,689 --> 00:05:55,931 This is my first time here too. 108 00:05:59,206 --> 00:06:01,034 -[clears throat] -[waiter in Spanish] 109 00:06:01,068 --> 00:06:03,586 Um, this drink we didn't order. 110 00:06:03,620 --> 00:06:05,620 We wanted a merlot red wine. 111 00:06:05,655 --> 00:06:06,551 I don't know what this is. 112 00:06:06,586 --> 00:06:08,034 [in Spanish] 113 00:06:08,068 --> 00:06:10,137 [in Spanish] 114 00:06:10,172 --> 00:06:12,206 -You have no red wine? -[waiter] No. 115 00:06:12,241 --> 00:06:14,310 Okay. 116 00:06:14,344 --> 00:06:17,103 Also, this steak is like raw. 117 00:06:18,793 --> 00:06:20,068 And some vegetables, please. 118 00:06:20,103 --> 00:06:21,620 [in Spanish] 119 00:06:21,655 --> 00:06:22,758 All right. 120 00:06:28,379 --> 00:06:30,379 [dog barks] 121 00:06:32,896 --> 00:06:34,275 This is one wild restaurant. 122 00:06:37,448 --> 00:06:39,103 I wanna focus on Jennifer, 123 00:06:39,137 --> 00:06:41,068 and it's gonna be difficult... 124 00:06:43,172 --> 00:06:46,965 because this place is not okay. 125 00:06:49,310 --> 00:06:53,034 [upbeat music playing] 126 00:06:53,068 --> 00:06:56,241 [singer] ♪ Sing we'll live A long life ♪ 127 00:06:56,275 --> 00:06:59,689 ♪ Sing I'm never Gonna have to lie ♪ 128 00:06:59,724 --> 00:07:03,137 ♪ Won't you let me go? ♪ 129 00:07:03,172 --> 00:07:05,000 ♪ Won't you let me go? ♪ 130 00:07:10,586 --> 00:07:13,620 Ever since I told Tania that I wanted a divorce, 131 00:07:13,655 --> 00:07:16,034 things are a little rough at home. 132 00:07:18,034 --> 00:07:20,034 And I don't want my actions to hurt anybody else, 133 00:07:20,068 --> 00:07:22,310 you know, but I think definitely getting a divorce 134 00:07:22,344 --> 00:07:24,379 is the best way to move forward. 135 00:07:24,413 --> 00:07:28,137 Um, what outfit says, "Hey, Mom, 136 00:07:28,172 --> 00:07:29,965 I'm getting divorced?" 137 00:07:32,172 --> 00:07:34,551 Tonight, Syngin and I are meeting my mom 138 00:07:34,586 --> 00:07:37,965 and my sister, Andrea, to let them know 139 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,827 that we're getting a divorce. 140 00:07:42,551 --> 00:07:46,758 I just never saw this day coming, you know? 141 00:07:46,793 --> 00:07:48,724 I really, really thought... 142 00:07:48,758 --> 00:07:51,620 I knew Syngin and I had problems 143 00:07:51,655 --> 00:07:55,724 but I really just kind of chalk them all up to us 144 00:07:55,758 --> 00:07:59,517 starting really fast and jumping in this really quick. 145 00:07:59,551 --> 00:08:02,551 And so, yeah, I just really, really thought that 146 00:08:02,586 --> 00:08:04,000 when we came here to the States, 147 00:08:04,034 --> 00:08:05,896 like we would be able to work everything out. 148 00:08:13,689 --> 00:08:15,620 -Hi. -Hey. You doing okay? 149 00:08:19,758 --> 00:08:21,689 -Are you gonna say it or... -I literally don't know. 150 00:08:21,724 --> 00:08:24,241 Should I just wait outside in the car while you tell them? 151 00:08:27,448 --> 00:08:28,448 [Tania] I know. 152 00:08:30,413 --> 00:08:32,689 [Syngin] Tania and I went to see an immigration lawyer 153 00:08:32,724 --> 00:08:35,413 to see how our divorce will affect Tania and her mom 154 00:08:35,448 --> 00:08:39,034 since they both cosponsored me on the K-1 visa. 155 00:08:39,068 --> 00:08:42,758 You are still aware of the financial responsibilities, 156 00:08:42,793 --> 00:08:44,827 Tania, that you and anybody else 157 00:08:44,862 --> 00:08:47,689 who signed for Syngin as sponsors 158 00:08:47,724 --> 00:08:51,172 carry with them until he becomes a citizen, 159 00:08:51,206 --> 00:08:53,827 relinquishes his residency, or he dies. 160 00:08:53,862 --> 00:08:55,000 Oh, gosh. 161 00:08:58,068 --> 00:09:00,689 [Syngin speaking] 162 00:09:00,724 --> 00:09:02,655 You know is she gonna be angry at me 163 00:09:02,689 --> 00:09:06,862 or all the questions on what's going on. 164 00:09:06,896 --> 00:09:09,586 Especially because we had our little rough bumps 165 00:09:09,620 --> 00:09:11,827 when I got here and everything, you know? 166 00:09:11,862 --> 00:09:13,482 You can help out with mowing, 167 00:09:13,517 --> 00:09:16,344 weed whacking, or be power washing. 168 00:09:16,379 --> 00:09:19,137 If you can't show me you can do this without an attitude, 169 00:09:19,172 --> 00:09:20,655 I don't think you're gonna be able to deal 170 00:09:20,689 --> 00:09:22,896 and have my daughter. 171 00:09:22,931 --> 00:09:24,827 Syng, we're gonna have one problem. 172 00:09:24,862 --> 00:09:27,172 Don't touch my Jack Daniels. 173 00:09:27,206 --> 00:09:30,620 I'm sorry. I had Jack with my coffee. 174 00:09:30,655 --> 00:09:32,551 -Don't. -Okay. Yeah. 175 00:09:32,586 --> 00:09:34,241 Duly noted, yeah. 176 00:09:34,275 --> 00:09:36,310 Well, I mean, yeah, things were bad but not that bad, 177 00:09:36,344 --> 00:09:37,413 I feel like. I don't know. 178 00:09:37,448 --> 00:09:39,827 Maybe they were. 179 00:09:39,862 --> 00:09:41,068 [Syngin] So, yeah... 180 00:09:47,344 --> 00:09:51,620 -[Missy] Hello. -[Syngin] Hello there. 181 00:09:51,655 --> 00:09:53,172 -How are you? -How's everybody? 182 00:09:53,206 --> 00:09:55,517 -You're gonna go around? Hi. -How are you? 183 00:09:55,551 --> 00:09:58,172 -It's so cute here. -[Tania] It is, right? 184 00:09:58,206 --> 00:10:00,103 -Yeah. -Nice. 185 00:10:00,137 --> 00:10:01,931 -We never come to Connecticut. -It's cozy. 186 00:10:01,965 --> 00:10:05,241 Yay, family dinner. [chuckles] 187 00:10:05,275 --> 00:10:07,310 [Syngin] It's good to see you all. Thank you for coming out 188 00:10:07,344 --> 00:10:09,896 and having a little... a little dinner with us. 189 00:10:09,931 --> 00:10:11,482 Hmm. 190 00:10:14,103 --> 00:10:15,758 I'm just curious. 191 00:10:15,793 --> 00:10:17,448 We're out and it's kind of like 192 00:10:17,482 --> 00:10:19,862 a little bit more special. 193 00:10:21,517 --> 00:10:24,344 Did you call us here for a reason? 194 00:10:24,379 --> 00:10:25,724 What's the occasion? 195 00:10:25,758 --> 00:10:28,655 Like are you guys pregnant? 196 00:10:33,448 --> 00:10:35,068 No, but, um... 197 00:10:40,206 --> 00:10:41,620 You're making me, to the point, 198 00:10:41,655 --> 00:10:44,310 a little bit nervous. 199 00:10:44,344 --> 00:10:46,724 It's a... It's a decision that's been a while 200 00:10:46,758 --> 00:10:47,931 in the making. 201 00:10:47,965 --> 00:10:49,103 You know, it wasn't just something 202 00:10:49,137 --> 00:10:50,172 that happened overnight. 203 00:10:50,206 --> 00:10:51,275 Um... 204 00:10:53,931 --> 00:10:55,275 we decided that... 205 00:10:58,206 --> 00:10:59,758 we're, um... 206 00:11:03,689 --> 00:11:05,482 gonna... gonna... gonna break up. 207 00:11:13,931 --> 00:11:15,034 [singer] ♪ Are you ready, Ready to go? ♪ 208 00:11:15,068 --> 00:11:16,724 ♪ Are you ready, Ready to go? ♪ 209 00:11:16,758 --> 00:11:18,620 ♪ Are you ready? Are you ready? ♪ 210 00:11:18,655 --> 00:11:22,413 ♪ You know about me 'Cause I played my game ♪ 211 00:11:22,448 --> 00:11:26,275 ♪ You can't hold me back, It's driving you insane ♪ 212 00:11:26,310 --> 00:11:28,310 ♪ Translate, repeat ♪ 213 00:11:28,344 --> 00:11:30,413 ♪ Now I'm ready to go ♪ 214 00:11:30,448 --> 00:11:34,206 ♪ You can't compete, I'm here to steal the show ♪ 215 00:11:34,241 --> 00:11:36,310 Hey. 216 00:11:36,344 --> 00:11:39,137 Is this one even charged? 217 00:11:39,172 --> 00:11:40,620 This one is dead. 218 00:11:40,655 --> 00:11:43,586 So I guess I have to use this one. 219 00:11:43,620 --> 00:11:44,862 All right. 220 00:11:44,896 --> 00:11:46,620 Am I really gonna do this? 221 00:11:48,827 --> 00:11:51,413 My sex coach gave me this very 222 00:11:51,448 --> 00:11:54,275 unconventional homework. 223 00:11:54,310 --> 00:11:58,068 I'm going to make a self-love videotape 224 00:11:58,103 --> 00:12:01,000 to help me get ready for my date with Stephanie. 225 00:12:01,034 --> 00:12:03,517 Yeah, looks nice. 226 00:12:03,551 --> 00:12:06,827 And hopefully help me lose my celibacy. 227 00:12:08,310 --> 00:12:10,862 I'm a little bit nervous... 228 00:12:10,896 --> 00:12:13,310 being intimate with somebody 229 00:12:13,344 --> 00:12:19,137 because sex for me has never been enjoyable. 230 00:12:19,172 --> 00:12:21,862 So if I can feel fully comfortable 231 00:12:21,896 --> 00:12:24,448 and be playful with myself 232 00:12:24,482 --> 00:12:28,137 then maybe I can enjoy sex and incorporate it 233 00:12:28,172 --> 00:12:29,896 into my life again. 234 00:12:33,413 --> 00:12:35,379 [device vibrating] 235 00:12:39,034 --> 00:12:42,000 [upbeat music playing] 236 00:12:44,137 --> 00:12:45,517 [Stephanie chuckles] 237 00:12:45,551 --> 00:12:47,103 [singer] ♪ Sugar time ♪ 238 00:12:49,172 --> 00:12:52,137 [upbeat music playing] 239 00:12:54,862 --> 00:12:58,000 Oh, my God. I've put way too much blush-on. 240 00:12:59,724 --> 00:13:02,034 Filming myself pleasuring myself 241 00:13:02,068 --> 00:13:05,724 was slightly awkward but it helped me 242 00:13:05,758 --> 00:13:08,551 take back control. 243 00:13:08,586 --> 00:13:12,000 The self-love homework actually went really well. 244 00:13:12,034 --> 00:13:16,931 Like I am so excited to do Kegel exercises. 245 00:13:16,965 --> 00:13:19,379 I'm doing some right now. 246 00:13:19,413 --> 00:13:22,103 It's kind of addicting. I've been doing them a lot. 247 00:13:22,137 --> 00:13:25,724 Like literally last night, I'm lying in bed, I'm like... 248 00:13:25,758 --> 00:13:27,758 [chuckles] 249 00:13:27,793 --> 00:13:31,172 I'm feeling more prepared for my first date with Steph, 250 00:13:31,206 --> 00:13:35,551 but I don't really know... 251 00:13:35,586 --> 00:13:39,241 if Steph is ready for any muff-diving tonight, 252 00:13:39,275 --> 00:13:42,275 because I don't really quite know if she's like 253 00:13:42,310 --> 00:13:43,827 into girls like that. 254 00:13:43,862 --> 00:13:45,586 Because that's happened a lot with me 255 00:13:45,620 --> 00:13:48,448 where I have like made out with girls 256 00:13:48,482 --> 00:13:51,000 or like gone to second base with girls 257 00:13:51,034 --> 00:13:52,586 when I've been drunk, 258 00:13:52,620 --> 00:13:55,551 and then the next day you're like, "Was it... 259 00:13:55,586 --> 00:13:57,896 Was it a thing or was it just 'cause we were drunk?" 260 00:13:57,931 --> 00:14:00,344 And so with her, I really just wanna establish 261 00:14:00,379 --> 00:14:02,655 whether or not it was just because we were drunk 262 00:14:02,689 --> 00:14:04,931 or because there's actually like attraction between us. 263 00:14:04,965 --> 00:14:05,931 Is she bisexual? 264 00:14:05,965 --> 00:14:07,655 Is she bi-curious? 265 00:14:07,689 --> 00:14:10,827 Because on my part, there definitely is attraction 266 00:14:10,862 --> 00:14:14,793 and I would be open to losing my celibacy with her. 267 00:14:14,827 --> 00:14:17,827 [upbeat music playing] 268 00:14:20,620 --> 00:14:23,241 I know Steph a little bit. 269 00:14:23,275 --> 00:14:25,827 I know she's a cool person. I know we're gonna have fun. 270 00:14:25,862 --> 00:14:29,344 It's just what type of fun are we going to have, 271 00:14:29,379 --> 00:14:30,689 that is the question. 272 00:14:33,034 --> 00:14:35,448 All right. We are here. 273 00:14:40,517 --> 00:14:41,724 This is my first date with a woman 274 00:14:41,758 --> 00:14:44,068 since my ex-girlfriend Erika. 275 00:14:44,103 --> 00:14:46,000 This is a big deal. 276 00:14:47,655 --> 00:14:49,620 -Have a good evening. -Thanks. 277 00:14:49,655 --> 00:14:55,379 But as much as I'm trying to act like everything's cool, 278 00:14:55,413 --> 00:14:57,000 I'm terrified. 279 00:14:57,034 --> 00:15:00,068 [upbeat music playing] 280 00:15:04,344 --> 00:15:07,758 [singer] ♪ I see you're ready To party, girl ♪ 281 00:15:07,793 --> 00:15:12,310 ♪ We're gonna have Some fun tonight ♪ 282 00:15:12,344 --> 00:15:15,689 ♪ You can be The queen tonight ♪ 283 00:15:15,724 --> 00:15:17,862 ♪ Dressed in white ♪ 284 00:15:17,896 --> 00:15:19,965 ♪ Yes, you'll be queen For tonight ♪ 285 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,586 -[Cole] Are you nervous? -[woman] You all right? 286 00:15:21,620 --> 00:15:23,655 -Yeah, I'm nervous. -[doorbell dings] 287 00:15:23,689 --> 00:15:24,965 [Cole] I'm gonna go get it. You stay here. 288 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,068 [woman] Oh, my God. I'm so excited. 289 00:15:30,206 --> 00:15:31,965 [Debbie] Tonight I'm going on a blind date 290 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,862 and I'm really nervous. 291 00:15:34,896 --> 00:15:37,310 I don't know anything about this person. 292 00:15:37,344 --> 00:15:40,551 I hope this man is someone that enjoys going out, 293 00:15:40,586 --> 00:15:42,931 having a cocktail, you know, having fun, 294 00:15:42,965 --> 00:15:45,862 and definitely having a sexual relationship, 295 00:15:45,896 --> 00:15:47,206 because... 296 00:15:50,517 --> 00:15:52,413 You know a lot of things. 297 00:15:52,448 --> 00:15:55,517 So I'm hoping that we have some kind of a connection. 298 00:15:56,551 --> 00:15:57,862 -Hi. -Hi. 299 00:15:57,896 --> 00:15:59,413 -I'm Edward. -Edward, I'm Cole. 300 00:15:59,448 --> 00:16:01,241 -Nice to meet you, Cole. -Nice to meet you, too. 301 00:16:01,275 --> 00:16:02,413 Yeah, my mother will just be a second, 302 00:16:02,448 --> 00:16:04,379 so wait for her. 303 00:16:09,448 --> 00:16:11,931 You excited, you're gonna take my mother out? 304 00:16:11,965 --> 00:16:13,482 -Yeah. -I'm kind of nervous 305 00:16:13,517 --> 00:16:16,034 a little bit. I worry about her, you know? 306 00:16:16,068 --> 00:16:18,758 -But, you know... -Hello. 307 00:16:18,793 --> 00:16:20,793 -[Edward] Debbie. -This is my mother, Debbie. 308 00:16:20,827 --> 00:16:22,586 -Nice to meet you, Debbie. -[Debbie] Nice too meet you. 309 00:16:22,620 --> 00:16:24,275 I hear a hint of an accent. 310 00:16:24,310 --> 00:16:26,724 Yes. I'm originally from Manchester, England. 311 00:16:26,758 --> 00:16:28,551 [Debbie] Oh, all right. 312 00:16:28,586 --> 00:16:29,689 Well, have fun you two. 313 00:16:29,724 --> 00:16:30,965 -I will. -Okay. 314 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,413 No funny business. 315 00:16:32,448 --> 00:16:33,931 -Okay. Thank you. -[Debbie] Okay. 316 00:16:33,965 --> 00:16:36,413 -Okay. -Bye. 317 00:16:36,448 --> 00:16:38,620 He is really cute and cuddly. 318 00:16:38,655 --> 00:16:40,586 I thought he was very handsome. 319 00:16:40,620 --> 00:16:41,793 -Thank you. -You're welcome. 320 00:16:41,827 --> 00:16:44,724 And, uh, he has a fantastic accent. 321 00:16:44,758 --> 00:16:46,206 And he's adorable. 322 00:16:48,310 --> 00:16:52,482 Does your son always kind of meet your dates at the door 323 00:16:52,517 --> 00:16:55,413 and be the guard that he was today? 324 00:16:55,448 --> 00:16:58,206 I usually don't date so this is all new to me, 325 00:16:58,241 --> 00:17:00,034 and I'm very nervous. 326 00:17:00,068 --> 00:17:01,620 Yeah. 327 00:17:01,655 --> 00:17:03,862 So, anyway, I just got a tattoo. 328 00:17:03,896 --> 00:17:06,793 So it's like, okay, I never had a tattoo before. 329 00:17:06,827 --> 00:17:08,689 -Do you have a tattoo? -No. I'm not into tattoos. 330 00:17:08,724 --> 00:17:10,448 I'm not either but I got this one. 331 00:17:10,482 --> 00:17:12,000 Okay. 332 00:17:16,241 --> 00:17:18,000 I have cats. 333 00:17:18,034 --> 00:17:19,827 Wanna see mine? 334 00:17:19,862 --> 00:17:21,448 This is Cookie. 335 00:17:21,482 --> 00:17:23,206 She's quite beautiful. 336 00:17:23,241 --> 00:17:26,344 No, that's okay. I don't need to see her. 337 00:17:26,379 --> 00:17:29,655 Oh, you're right. She is quite pretty. 338 00:17:31,655 --> 00:17:34,655 I get nervous and I talk and I gibber 339 00:17:34,689 --> 00:17:37,275 and I don't shut up. 340 00:17:37,310 --> 00:17:38,655 -Thank you. -You're welcome. 341 00:17:41,482 --> 00:17:43,655 Okay. Watch your step. 342 00:17:43,689 --> 00:17:47,551 [producer speaking] 343 00:17:47,586 --> 00:17:50,206 Actually, I thought she looked a lot older 344 00:17:50,241 --> 00:17:52,724 than I expected, to be honest. 345 00:17:52,758 --> 00:17:55,862 -Oh, this is nice. -Comfy. Yeah, comfy. 346 00:17:55,896 --> 00:17:58,448 But I'm enjoying being with her. 347 00:17:58,482 --> 00:18:03,172 She's got that ability to talk a lot. 348 00:18:03,206 --> 00:18:05,000 -Drinks? -Great. Do you drink? 349 00:18:05,034 --> 00:18:07,034 -I do not. -Really? 350 00:18:07,068 --> 00:18:09,103 I... No. So... 351 00:18:09,137 --> 00:18:11,103 -Okay. -How you doing? 352 00:18:11,137 --> 00:18:13,068 Hi. Can I get you something to drink, something to eat? 353 00:18:13,103 --> 00:18:14,586 I would love a scorpion and a water. 354 00:18:14,620 --> 00:18:18,344 [waitress speaking] 355 00:18:18,379 --> 00:18:22,275 -Yes. -All right. 356 00:18:22,310 --> 00:18:23,517 -And for you? -I'm gonna go 357 00:18:23,551 --> 00:18:25,000 with a tonic order and lime please. 358 00:18:25,034 --> 00:18:26,862 Sounds good to me. I'll be right back, okay? 359 00:18:26,896 --> 00:18:29,413 -Okay. -Thank you. 360 00:18:29,448 --> 00:18:31,103 [Edward] When she ordered the drink 361 00:18:31,137 --> 00:18:32,931 with the six shots in it, 362 00:18:32,965 --> 00:18:35,931 um, I felt I'm definitely gonna be carrying Debbie 363 00:18:35,965 --> 00:18:38,517 home tonight, which then I'm gonna have to face her son 364 00:18:38,551 --> 00:18:41,551 saying, "What have you done to my mom?" So... 365 00:18:43,068 --> 00:18:44,275 Oh, look at this. 366 00:18:44,310 --> 00:18:45,931 All right. 367 00:18:45,965 --> 00:18:48,413 -That is a lot of... -That is a very large drink. 368 00:18:48,448 --> 00:18:49,793 -[waitress] Yes. -[Debbie] Thank you. 369 00:18:49,827 --> 00:18:52,172 -[waitress] Enjoy. -[Edward] Thank you. 370 00:18:52,206 --> 00:18:53,551 [Debbie] When I found out he doesn't drink, 371 00:18:53,586 --> 00:18:54,758 I thought, "Oh, my God." 372 00:18:57,620 --> 00:18:58,551 [Debbie speaking] 373 00:19:06,517 --> 00:19:08,551 -[Edward] I have, yeah. -They're awful. 374 00:19:08,586 --> 00:19:09,620 Just awful. 375 00:19:09,655 --> 00:19:11,000 There's been a couple that go, 376 00:19:11,034 --> 00:19:15,000 "Well, I'm only interested in... 377 00:19:15,034 --> 00:19:16,586 Oh, God. 378 00:19:16,620 --> 00:19:20,172 [laughter] 379 00:19:20,206 --> 00:19:23,413 What is your opinion on sex on the first date? 380 00:19:23,448 --> 00:19:24,620 Hmm. 381 00:19:27,620 --> 00:19:29,172 I don't know. I mean, I'm not against it. 382 00:19:29,206 --> 00:19:33,827 I'm not... it depends. 383 00:19:33,862 --> 00:19:36,793 [Edward] She says sheepishly looking at the floor. 384 00:19:36,827 --> 00:19:38,931 [laughter] 385 00:19:38,965 --> 00:19:40,482 I am at that age now where I... 386 00:19:40,517 --> 00:19:42,448 You know, those little blue pills. 387 00:19:42,482 --> 00:19:44,103 There's some guys who are in their 40s 388 00:19:44,137 --> 00:19:45,758 who need little blue pills, 389 00:19:45,793 --> 00:19:48,482 but I'm lucky that I don't need a little blue pill. 390 00:19:48,517 --> 00:19:52,827 So I'm hoping to be having sex when I'm in my 80s... 391 00:19:52,862 --> 00:19:54,586 Yeah. [laughs] 392 00:19:54,620 --> 00:19:57,103 ...you know? So... You know, but... 393 00:19:57,137 --> 00:19:59,413 So what do you want to do after this, 394 00:19:59,448 --> 00:20:00,586 you know, when I carry... 395 00:20:00,620 --> 00:20:01,793 And I carry you out of here? 396 00:20:01,827 --> 00:20:03,482 [chuckles] 397 00:20:03,517 --> 00:20:05,827 -Come on. Tell me. -After this? 398 00:20:08,275 --> 00:20:10,206 How "after" are we talking? 399 00:20:10,241 --> 00:20:11,862 [laughs] 400 00:20:11,896 --> 00:20:13,896 When a person tells me that they love sex 401 00:20:13,931 --> 00:20:16,793 and they wanna have sex in their 80s 402 00:20:16,827 --> 00:20:18,586 and they don't need a blue pill, 403 00:20:18,620 --> 00:20:20,137 I'm thinking, "More power to them." 404 00:20:20,172 --> 00:20:22,344 I'd love to find somebody like that. 405 00:20:22,379 --> 00:20:25,965 But I have no idea where this date is going 406 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,000 and I would like to think it has a really good outcome 407 00:20:29,034 --> 00:20:31,137 but I don't know. I have no idea. 408 00:20:39,241 --> 00:20:40,517 [singer] ♪ Crazy ♪ 409 00:20:42,413 --> 00:20:44,172 ♪ Intoxicated ♪ 410 00:20:44,206 --> 00:20:45,931 ♪ What you waiting for? ♪ 411 00:20:45,965 --> 00:20:47,620 ♪ I'm not your lady ♪ 412 00:20:47,655 --> 00:20:49,620 ♪ You keep me wanting more ♪ 413 00:20:49,655 --> 00:20:51,344 ♪ The way you play me ♪ 414 00:20:51,379 --> 00:20:53,379 ♪ Oh, got me crazy ♪ 415 00:20:55,206 --> 00:20:56,793 ♪ Oh, got me crazy ♪ 416 00:20:57,724 --> 00:20:59,000 ♪ Crazy ♪ 417 00:21:01,206 --> 00:21:03,000 [Natalie] Oh, my God. 418 00:21:03,034 --> 00:21:05,827 It's been five days since my date with Johnny. 419 00:21:05,862 --> 00:21:08,413 He's asking me now out on a second date, 420 00:21:08,448 --> 00:21:12,413 so tomorrow is gonna be a date number two. 421 00:21:12,448 --> 00:21:14,931 [Natalie speaking] 422 00:21:21,275 --> 00:21:25,137 [Natalie speaking] 423 00:21:26,620 --> 00:21:29,172 I love this weather. 424 00:21:29,206 --> 00:21:31,034 [Jolanta] Hey, so how did everything go? 425 00:21:31,068 --> 00:21:33,241 Tell me what happened on the date with Johnny, right? 426 00:21:33,275 --> 00:21:34,448 -John. -[Jolanta] John. 427 00:21:34,482 --> 00:21:36,620 Well, tell me more about this guy. 428 00:21:39,448 --> 00:21:41,137 [Natalie speaking] 429 00:21:41,172 --> 00:21:42,586 Okay. 430 00:21:42,620 --> 00:21:44,793 Any chemistry going on? 431 00:21:44,827 --> 00:21:48,793 Like you... Any fire between the two, the smoke? 432 00:21:48,827 --> 00:21:50,931 I like him. 433 00:21:50,965 --> 00:21:55,172 The fact that Natalie came out on a date is a big deal. 434 00:21:55,206 --> 00:21:58,827 I know she's very anxious and at times insecure 435 00:21:58,862 --> 00:22:01,482 because of all the things she went through. 436 00:22:01,517 --> 00:22:05,413 So she's letting herself to maybe trust people 437 00:22:05,448 --> 00:22:06,827 a little bit more. 438 00:22:06,862 --> 00:22:11,172 So did you talk to Michael since you, uh... 439 00:22:12,931 --> 00:22:14,206 had a date? 440 00:22:14,241 --> 00:22:16,413 Yes, he knows that I went on a date. 441 00:22:16,448 --> 00:22:17,689 I think it's good to be honest. 442 00:22:17,724 --> 00:22:19,413 -And he knows. -Yes. Definitely. 443 00:22:19,448 --> 00:22:21,655 You don't need any trouble, yeah. 444 00:22:21,689 --> 00:22:23,620 We make a decision. We separated. 445 00:22:23,655 --> 00:22:25,413 We decided to take our time. 446 00:22:25,448 --> 00:22:27,206 He will be first man to find out 447 00:22:27,241 --> 00:22:28,862 if something changes in my life. 448 00:22:30,034 --> 00:22:32,000 [Natalie speaking] 449 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:47,827 [upbeat music playing] 450 00:22:47,862 --> 00:22:49,172 [Josh] Join us. Join us. Come on in. 451 00:22:49,206 --> 00:22:50,896 Come on in. Join us. 452 00:22:50,931 --> 00:22:53,137 You guys gotta come on over here. 453 00:22:53,172 --> 00:22:54,137 Come around this way. 454 00:22:54,172 --> 00:22:55,827 Come on. Come on. 455 00:22:55,862 --> 00:22:57,620 [Natalie] I'm so excited for modeling event. 456 00:22:57,655 --> 00:22:59,896 I wanted always to be model. 457 00:22:59,931 --> 00:23:01,931 But I don't have a lot of experience 458 00:23:01,965 --> 00:23:04,758 because Michael didn't support my goals. 459 00:23:04,793 --> 00:23:07,517 Michael didn't support my dreams. 460 00:23:07,551 --> 00:23:09,275 [Natalie speaking] 461 00:23:18,103 --> 00:23:20,793 Now I'm gonna be beautiful and see what it brings me. 462 00:23:20,827 --> 00:23:23,103 Maybe it will be better to be beautiful. 463 00:23:23,137 --> 00:23:24,862 Just beautiful, you know? 464 00:23:24,896 --> 00:23:26,310 -Hi. -[Johnny] Hello, beautiful. 465 00:23:26,344 --> 00:23:27,413 -Nice to see you. -How are you doing? 466 00:23:27,448 --> 00:23:28,689 Good to see you too. 467 00:23:28,724 --> 00:23:30,689 Happy to see you here. 468 00:23:30,724 --> 00:23:32,310 When I walk into the room, 469 00:23:32,344 --> 00:23:35,275 I see Johnny like all dressed up. 470 00:23:35,310 --> 00:23:38,275 I was like, "Oh, wow." But I'm nervous. 471 00:23:38,310 --> 00:23:40,310 He's a very good-looking guy. 472 00:23:40,344 --> 00:23:42,448 And he's different from Mike. 473 00:23:43,862 --> 00:23:46,068 We're gonna go ahead and get this whole thing started. 474 00:23:46,758 --> 00:23:48,517 Runway starts in your core. 475 00:23:48,551 --> 00:23:49,793 So get your cores tight, 476 00:23:49,827 --> 00:23:51,758 your shoulders are down and back. 477 00:23:51,793 --> 00:23:54,931 We wanna make sure that chin is not too high 478 00:23:54,965 --> 00:23:56,965 but we also wanna make sure it's not too low. 479 00:23:58,068 --> 00:23:59,310 [Natalie speaking] 480 00:24:08,655 --> 00:24:10,344 -[woman] Five... Yeah. -Oh. Sorry. 481 00:24:10,379 --> 00:24:11,758 -Sorry. I'm sorry. -No, no, no. You can go. 482 00:24:11,793 --> 00:24:13,482 Start whenever you feel. Five, six... 483 00:24:13,517 --> 00:24:15,275 -[Johnny speaking] -...seven, and go. 484 00:24:15,310 --> 00:24:17,448 [Josh] Go. Nice. Good. Good. 485 00:24:17,482 --> 00:24:20,137 -Good. Good. Good. -[Johnny] Mmm-hmm. Mmm-hmm. Mmm-hmm. 486 00:24:20,172 --> 00:24:21,655 [cheering] 487 00:24:21,689 --> 00:24:23,000 [woman] Okay. 488 00:24:23,896 --> 00:24:26,310 [Natalie speaking] 489 00:24:26,344 --> 00:24:29,172 I feel alive. I feel fabulous. 490 00:24:29,206 --> 00:24:30,620 [woman] Yeah. There you go. That's better. 491 00:24:30,655 --> 00:24:31,793 Pull that chin down. 492 00:24:31,827 --> 00:24:35,620 [Natalie speaking] 493 00:24:41,758 --> 00:24:44,000 We're gonna do some posing really quick. 494 00:24:44,034 --> 00:24:46,379 You guys think you could be a model as in a couple scene? 495 00:24:46,413 --> 00:24:48,137 -Do you want a challenge? -[Johnny] Do you wanna try? 496 00:24:49,862 --> 00:24:51,448 -What? -[woman] You think you can post together? 497 00:24:51,482 --> 00:24:53,310 You wanna post together like as if we were like 498 00:24:53,344 --> 00:24:54,862 -walking for a bridal thing? -Yeah. Like imagine 499 00:24:54,896 --> 00:24:56,034 -you are doing a wedding shoot. -Yes. 500 00:24:56,068 --> 00:24:57,862 Let's do bridal... bridal runway. 501 00:24:57,896 --> 00:24:59,689 -Yes. -I mean, let's see. Let's see what you got. 502 00:24:59,724 --> 00:25:01,172 This is a camera. 503 00:25:01,206 --> 00:25:02,931 I want you guys to be super relaxed. 504 00:25:04,793 --> 00:25:06,172 [Natalie] When a woman tells me 505 00:25:06,206 --> 00:25:09,000 be a model married with Johnny, 506 00:25:09,034 --> 00:25:11,517 I feel strange 507 00:25:11,551 --> 00:25:14,758 because I'm still married with Michael on paper. 508 00:25:14,793 --> 00:25:16,448 -You okay? -Yeah. I'm excited. 509 00:25:16,482 --> 00:25:18,000 -Oh, my gosh. -All right. So let's see. 510 00:25:18,034 --> 00:25:20,758 Let's see. Give me like a little smile. 511 00:25:20,793 --> 00:25:22,689 -There you go. There it is. -That's it. That's it. 512 00:25:23,931 --> 00:25:27,000 Johnny technically doesn't know 513 00:25:27,034 --> 00:25:30,517 that I'm still married, but I wanna tell him. 514 00:25:32,241 --> 00:25:34,344 It's just not right time yet. 515 00:25:36,931 --> 00:25:38,586 [indistinct chattering] 516 00:25:38,620 --> 00:25:40,206 That walk... That walk, you know? 517 00:25:40,241 --> 00:25:42,068 There you go. See? Practice. 518 00:25:42,103 --> 00:25:44,586 Look at that. Look at that. Look at that. 519 00:25:44,620 --> 00:25:46,344 -It was a pleasure. -Thank you. 520 00:25:46,379 --> 00:25:48,793 I think I have very wonderful time. 521 00:25:48,827 --> 00:25:51,000 I'm very excited that you came out tonight. 522 00:25:51,034 --> 00:25:53,275 I mean, this was really good for both of us, 523 00:25:53,310 --> 00:25:56,379 so I'm excited for that second date. 524 00:25:56,413 --> 00:25:58,551 -Tomorrow. -Yes. All right. Okay. 525 00:25:58,586 --> 00:25:59,758 That's exciting. 526 00:26:01,275 --> 00:26:05,172 [Natalie speaking] 527 00:26:13,758 --> 00:26:16,000 [upbeat music playing] 528 00:26:16,034 --> 00:26:19,241 [singer] ♪ Fine and dandy ♪ 529 00:26:19,275 --> 00:26:21,620 ♪ Sweet as candy ♪ 530 00:26:22,620 --> 00:26:25,758 ♪ Fine and dandy ♪ 531 00:26:25,793 --> 00:26:28,034 ♪ Heaven know I love you so ♪ 532 00:26:32,758 --> 00:26:34,689 [Stephanie] I'm waiting here for my hairstylist, 533 00:26:34,724 --> 00:26:36,965 Stephanie, for our date. 534 00:26:37,931 --> 00:26:40,068 I really liked Steph. 535 00:26:40,103 --> 00:26:43,344 The first time we hung out, we ended up kissing. 536 00:26:44,413 --> 00:26:45,896 Awesome. Thanks so much. 537 00:26:45,931 --> 00:26:48,068 But it's been two and a half years 538 00:26:48,103 --> 00:26:49,724 since I've had sex and I'm ready 539 00:26:49,758 --> 00:26:51,931 to rip the bandage off tonight. 540 00:26:55,793 --> 00:26:56,896 [sighs] 541 00:27:00,068 --> 00:27:01,724 -Hey. -Hello. 542 00:27:01,758 --> 00:27:02,931 What's up? 543 00:27:03,689 --> 00:27:05,103 How are you? 544 00:27:05,137 --> 00:27:07,000 -Oh. I dropped... -[chuckles] 545 00:27:07,034 --> 00:27:08,241 -Hi. -Hi. 546 00:27:09,103 --> 00:27:10,275 How are you? 547 00:27:10,310 --> 00:27:12,103 I am good. 548 00:27:12,137 --> 00:27:14,241 Look at us. We're both in leather jackets. 549 00:27:14,275 --> 00:27:16,068 -I know. It's like we planned it. -We both... 550 00:27:16,103 --> 00:27:18,137 Oh, my God. We actually look like were matching. 551 00:27:18,172 --> 00:27:19,620 [chuckles] 552 00:27:19,655 --> 00:27:21,344 [laughs] 553 00:27:24,655 --> 00:27:25,896 [Stephanie] Steph looks hot. 554 00:27:25,931 --> 00:27:27,655 I feel kind of nervous. 555 00:27:27,689 --> 00:27:29,000 And whenever I get really nervous, 556 00:27:29,034 --> 00:27:31,310 I start laughing for no reason. 557 00:27:31,344 --> 00:27:34,137 [laughs] 558 00:27:34,172 --> 00:27:36,206 Do we have any questions on the menu for tonight by any chance? 559 00:27:36,241 --> 00:27:39,448 -Um... I don't. -Um, I'm gonna get the blackened scallop. 560 00:27:39,482 --> 00:27:42,931 That's literally what I'm getting. [laughs] 561 00:27:42,965 --> 00:27:45,241 I will get the blackened scallops as well. 562 00:27:45,275 --> 00:27:46,827 -Wonderful. Is that everything? -[Stephanie] Wow. 563 00:27:46,862 --> 00:27:48,758 -Thank you. -We have so much in common. 564 00:27:48,793 --> 00:27:50,931 Our names are both Stephanie. 565 00:27:50,965 --> 00:27:52,724 I mean, two Stephanies are better than one. 566 00:27:52,758 --> 00:27:54,310 [laughs] 567 00:27:57,172 --> 00:27:58,931 I would say me and Steph's relationship 568 00:27:58,965 --> 00:28:02,551 is very flirtatious. 569 00:28:02,586 --> 00:28:05,000 She's a very attractive person. 570 00:28:05,034 --> 00:28:07,827 And we always have good chemistry when we're together. 571 00:28:08,758 --> 00:28:10,344 -I'm still loving the hair. -I like it. 572 00:28:10,379 --> 00:28:11,689 -Yeah. -It looks really good on you. 573 00:28:11,724 --> 00:28:13,344 I like the shorter hair on you. 574 00:28:13,379 --> 00:28:14,689 I'm the type of person who... 575 00:28:14,724 --> 00:28:17,034 I always like to try new things. 576 00:28:17,068 --> 00:28:20,517 -That's always good. -Yeah. Like, I'll be honest... 577 00:28:20,551 --> 00:28:22,758 Oh, my gosh. 578 00:28:22,793 --> 00:28:24,655 This entire time we've been sitting here, 579 00:28:24,689 --> 00:28:27,517 I've been doing some new exercises I learned. 580 00:28:29,586 --> 00:28:31,172 -Do you like... -Okay. 581 00:28:31,206 --> 00:28:33,896 -Do you know Kegel exercises? -Yes. 582 00:28:33,931 --> 00:28:36,793 The rest of my body, I don't really care to exercise it, 583 00:28:36,827 --> 00:28:38,827 -but like my vagina... -Doing it? 584 00:28:38,862 --> 00:28:41,137 Definitely want my vagina to be like super in shape. 585 00:28:41,172 --> 00:28:42,793 [laughs] 586 00:28:42,827 --> 00:28:44,965 Great first date conversation. 587 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,793 Oh, okay. So this is a date. 588 00:28:46,827 --> 00:28:48,413 I was wondering. 589 00:28:48,448 --> 00:28:50,862 I would like for this to be a date, 590 00:28:51,724 --> 00:28:54,965 but I don't wanna freak you out. 591 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,344 No. I think I would consider this as a date. 592 00:28:57,379 --> 00:28:59,206 -[Stephanie] Oh, okay. -Definitely. 593 00:28:59,241 --> 00:29:01,068 Yeah. 594 00:29:01,103 --> 00:29:04,758 I'm slowly getting back into like the dating scene. 595 00:29:05,724 --> 00:29:07,206 Have you been dating? 596 00:29:07,241 --> 00:29:10,310 I haven't been dating and in a little while. 597 00:29:10,344 --> 00:29:12,724 Me and my ex got divorced 598 00:29:12,758 --> 00:29:15,275 right in the beginning part of the pandemic. 599 00:29:16,241 --> 00:29:18,275 But now I'm ready for it. 600 00:29:20,655 --> 00:29:23,862 What I love most about Steph is that 601 00:29:23,896 --> 00:29:26,620 she seems really go with the flow. 602 00:29:26,655 --> 00:29:29,965 She's a person who loves to laugh and have a fun time. 603 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,758 And she has a way of making you feel 604 00:29:32,793 --> 00:29:34,724 really comfortable around her. 605 00:29:34,758 --> 00:29:36,586 Do you feel like you have a type? 606 00:29:36,620 --> 00:29:37,758 Hmm. 607 00:29:37,793 --> 00:29:39,310 Somebody that looks cuddly. 608 00:29:39,344 --> 00:29:40,931 -[chuckles] -Oh. 609 00:29:40,965 --> 00:29:43,793 Cuddliness comes from somebody in their... 610 00:29:45,103 --> 00:29:46,413 The comfort feeling and... 611 00:29:46,448 --> 00:29:48,103 You're all about vibes like I am. 612 00:29:48,137 --> 00:29:49,896 I can't... I know. I can't help it. 613 00:29:49,931 --> 00:29:51,310 Everything's a vibe for me. 614 00:29:53,413 --> 00:29:56,931 I like exotic dangerous types, 615 00:29:56,965 --> 00:29:58,551 as far as women go. 616 00:29:58,586 --> 00:30:01,724 I really love girls that have tattoos. 617 00:30:01,758 --> 00:30:04,620 'Cause I feel like I'm just like a strawberry ice cream. 618 00:30:04,655 --> 00:30:05,965 [Steph] You need something to spice you up? 619 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,482 I need some rocky road. 620 00:30:07,517 --> 00:30:09,482 [laughs] I don't know. I don't know. 621 00:30:09,517 --> 00:30:11,413 Wait. Do you think I'm like rocky road? 622 00:30:11,448 --> 00:30:15,103 I think you are all the good stuff, yeah. 623 00:30:15,137 --> 00:30:17,344 And I'm just... I'm vanilla, honestly. 624 00:30:17,379 --> 00:30:18,379 [laughs] 625 00:30:19,586 --> 00:30:22,413 I just like suddenly got a hankering for ice cream. 626 00:30:27,655 --> 00:30:29,965 So I know you have work tomorrow, 627 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:34,034 but why don't we have dessert back at my house? 628 00:30:37,137 --> 00:30:39,620 [upbeat music playing] 629 00:30:39,655 --> 00:30:44,068 [singer] ♪ Hide behind ♪ 630 00:30:44,103 --> 00:30:47,965 ♪ Your eyes that light Before you ♪ 631 00:30:51,241 --> 00:30:55,448 ♪ Lay me down ♪ 632 00:30:55,482 --> 00:30:58,551 ♪ Alone beneath your stare ♪ 633 00:31:00,758 --> 00:31:05,689 We've decided that we're, um, gonna break up. 634 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,517 We started seeing an immigration lawyer. 635 00:31:13,551 --> 00:31:15,517 We started talking more openly about it. 636 00:31:15,551 --> 00:31:17,482 [Missy Speaking] 637 00:31:17,517 --> 00:31:19,413 I think I'm still shocked. 638 00:31:19,448 --> 00:31:20,482 [Syngin] Yeah. 639 00:31:21,310 --> 00:31:23,482 I'm like... 640 00:31:23,517 --> 00:31:26,172 I figured you guys would have worked through that. 641 00:31:26,206 --> 00:31:28,517 We did try couples therapy and everything as well. 642 00:31:28,551 --> 00:31:29,931 And I also believe that we already... 643 00:31:29,965 --> 00:31:30,965 [Tania speaking] 644 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:32,172 No, she literally told me 645 00:31:32,206 --> 00:31:33,275 if I don't start therapy, 646 00:31:33,310 --> 00:31:34,827 we can't be together. 647 00:31:34,862 --> 00:31:36,862 And I don't... I don't care about therapy. 648 00:31:36,896 --> 00:31:39,275 Well, listen, that's what married couples do. 649 00:31:40,896 --> 00:31:44,206 It doesn't hurt to have an outside person 650 00:31:44,241 --> 00:31:47,862 outside the box of your little circle 651 00:31:47,896 --> 00:31:49,172 to talk to. 652 00:31:53,241 --> 00:31:55,793 I think Syngin, at one point said, to himself, 653 00:31:55,827 --> 00:31:57,758 "I'm in this but when it gets worse, 654 00:31:57,793 --> 00:31:59,517 I'm not cut out for this. 655 00:31:59,551 --> 00:32:01,172 I just wanna move forward 656 00:32:01,206 --> 00:32:02,896 and not have to deal with 657 00:32:02,931 --> 00:32:06,000 how to work this worst part out." 658 00:32:07,793 --> 00:32:10,172 When did you guys decide this? 659 00:32:10,206 --> 00:32:13,034 About two months ago that we started feeling this way. 660 00:32:13,068 --> 00:32:15,000 Especially like I have decided 661 00:32:15,034 --> 00:32:17,517 like I'm not ready for children, 662 00:32:17,551 --> 00:32:20,241 which is obviously a big factor for Tania. 663 00:32:20,275 --> 00:32:21,931 [Tania] Not not ready. Like you just said... 664 00:32:21,965 --> 00:32:23,275 -[Syngin] Yeah. -...you don't want children. 665 00:32:23,310 --> 00:32:25,413 You don't foresee yourself in like five years 666 00:32:25,448 --> 00:32:27,068 like wanting children. 667 00:32:27,103 --> 00:32:28,689 So it's all about you not having... 668 00:32:28,724 --> 00:32:30,689 Wanting to have children, not that you don't 669 00:32:30,724 --> 00:32:32,620 wanna have children with Tania? 670 00:32:32,655 --> 00:32:35,586 Yeah. No, I don't want any children at all with anybody. 671 00:32:37,068 --> 00:32:40,068 So like did you already know you didn't want children 672 00:32:40,103 --> 00:32:42,068 and you strung her along? 673 00:32:43,965 --> 00:32:46,862 No, no, no. Definitely no. 674 00:32:46,896 --> 00:32:48,724 But you didn't know this three years ago? 675 00:32:51,275 --> 00:32:53,689 And I don't think it's just solo just the child thing. 676 00:32:55,689 --> 00:32:56,586 Yeah. 677 00:32:58,724 --> 00:33:00,206 I thought he would have asked more 678 00:33:00,241 --> 00:33:02,000 about you being his cosponsor 679 00:33:02,034 --> 00:33:04,517 coming to America. 680 00:33:04,551 --> 00:33:06,241 We're still responsible for him even if we divorce. 681 00:33:06,275 --> 00:33:08,620 For how much longer? 682 00:33:08,655 --> 00:33:10,586 Once he's had his green card for five years, 683 00:33:10,620 --> 00:33:11,931 he's gonna apply for a citizenship 684 00:33:11,965 --> 00:33:14,172 and then that, like, releases us. 685 00:33:14,206 --> 00:33:15,931 I'm responsible for you? 686 00:33:15,965 --> 00:33:18,137 Yeah. You know, um... 687 00:33:18,172 --> 00:33:20,310 Well, you can go back to South Africa. 688 00:33:23,379 --> 00:33:25,482 Because you're coming at me a little bit, I won't lie... 689 00:33:25,517 --> 00:33:27,275 -[Missy] No, no, no. -...I'm feeling that shit. 690 00:33:33,551 --> 00:33:35,137 And he... There's the immaturity. 691 00:33:35,931 --> 00:33:37,758 Right now I feel totally attacked. 692 00:33:37,793 --> 00:33:39,137 I do have a lot of faults, you know, 693 00:33:39,172 --> 00:33:41,137 I can sometimes put up walls 694 00:33:41,172 --> 00:33:43,448 which is very unhealthy when in relationship. 695 00:33:43,482 --> 00:33:46,413 But I think the failure of this marriage is like 50/50. 696 00:33:46,448 --> 00:33:49,000 So I'm not gonna sit here and be blamed, 697 00:33:49,034 --> 00:33:51,103 then making them think it's all my fault. 698 00:33:51,137 --> 00:33:53,620 This is just another reason to show that me and Tania 699 00:33:53,655 --> 00:33:55,793 will be better off apart and it's time for me 700 00:33:55,827 --> 00:33:56,931 to move on with my life. 701 00:34:05,482 --> 00:34:08,275 [instrumental music playing] 702 00:34:17,344 --> 00:34:18,586 [dog barks] 703 00:34:21,551 --> 00:34:22,965 This is one wild restaurant. 704 00:34:26,206 --> 00:34:28,275 I don't know what's going on. 705 00:34:28,310 --> 00:34:29,655 I didn't get what I want. 706 00:34:29,689 --> 00:34:32,172 -I got some weird drink. -Yeah. 707 00:34:32,206 --> 00:34:33,758 -Let's start over. -[Jesse] Uh-huh. 708 00:34:38,344 --> 00:34:40,241 [Jennifer speaking] 709 00:34:55,275 --> 00:34:56,793 No, no, it's okay my love. 710 00:34:56,827 --> 00:34:58,482 -[Jennifer speaking] -No, no, it's okay. 711 00:34:58,517 --> 00:35:00,241 I'll take... I'll take one bite... 712 00:35:02,413 --> 00:35:04,206 because you asked so kindly. 713 00:35:06,241 --> 00:35:07,379 I got to feed myself. 714 00:35:07,413 --> 00:35:08,724 [Jennifer speaking] 715 00:35:10,241 --> 00:35:11,689 Hmm. 716 00:35:11,724 --> 00:35:12,827 Hmm. 717 00:35:12,862 --> 00:35:14,724 Yours is good. Good. 718 00:35:14,758 --> 00:35:15,758 Hmm. 719 00:35:19,206 --> 00:35:21,000 You're so cute. You know that? 720 00:35:43,517 --> 00:35:44,517 [Jennifer] Yeah. 721 00:36:09,586 --> 00:36:10,586 Yes. 722 00:36:12,137 --> 00:36:15,827 [singer singing foreign language] 723 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,137 [Jesse] Interesting evening. 724 00:36:20,172 --> 00:36:23,965 [Jennifer speaking] 725 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,379 [Jesse] So I think it would be nice to like get a little, uh. 726 00:36:36,275 --> 00:36:37,896 Let's just like, you know, get comfortable, 727 00:36:37,931 --> 00:36:39,000 relax a little bit. 728 00:36:43,965 --> 00:36:44,896 Um... 729 00:36:47,965 --> 00:36:51,241 [Jennifer speaking] 730 00:37:02,482 --> 00:37:03,689 -Yeah. Yeah, there's robes. -Yes? 731 00:37:03,724 --> 00:37:04,758 Yeah, there's robes. 732 00:37:04,793 --> 00:37:06,000 -That will be... -Yeah. 733 00:37:06,034 --> 00:37:06,965 ...perfect. 734 00:37:20,241 --> 00:37:21,517 Perfect. 735 00:37:23,137 --> 00:37:25,689 So let's, um... let's have a little drink, 736 00:37:25,724 --> 00:37:28,137 -wind down, relax. -Yeah. 737 00:37:28,793 --> 00:37:30,344 Let's do some yoga. 738 00:37:32,206 --> 00:37:34,344 -[Jennifer speaking] -Like... 739 00:37:36,310 --> 00:37:37,517 You don't have to kiss right away. 740 00:37:37,551 --> 00:37:39,275 You don't have to, uh, 741 00:37:39,310 --> 00:37:41,103 make love the first night. 742 00:37:41,137 --> 00:37:43,000 I had that phase in my life. 743 00:37:44,137 --> 00:37:46,620 Let me get to know you for who you are 744 00:37:46,655 --> 00:37:50,310 and let not lust be our guide. 745 00:37:51,379 --> 00:37:54,551 I think that couples yoga really connects you. 746 00:37:56,068 --> 00:38:00,310 So, um, you're sitting here, I'm sitting here 747 00:38:00,344 --> 00:38:05,655 and, um, basically, um, 748 00:38:05,689 --> 00:38:08,379 your legs go over mine here. 749 00:38:08,413 --> 00:38:09,724 -Yeah. -[Jennifer] Okay. 750 00:38:09,758 --> 00:38:11,827 And we're sitting like this. 751 00:38:11,862 --> 00:38:13,034 -Mmm. -[Jennifer] Like this? 752 00:38:13,068 --> 00:38:14,448 Yeah, like that. 753 00:38:16,241 --> 00:38:18,068 So every time we, like, synchronize, right? 754 00:38:18,103 --> 00:38:19,896 You breathe into me and I breathe into you 755 00:38:19,931 --> 00:38:21,758 and look to each other's left side, all right? 756 00:38:21,793 --> 00:38:23,206 -[Jennifer] Okay. -All right. Ready? 757 00:38:23,241 --> 00:38:24,344 -[Jennifer] Okay. -Okay. 758 00:38:44,310 --> 00:38:47,275 [romantic music playing] 759 00:38:56,965 --> 00:38:58,724 [Jennifer giggles] 760 00:39:19,379 --> 00:39:20,931 [singer] ♪ What's the name? ♪ 761 00:39:20,965 --> 00:39:22,620 ♪ What's the name? ♪ 762 00:39:22,655 --> 00:39:24,586 ♪ I've only ever heard you ♪ 763 00:39:24,620 --> 00:39:27,275 ♪ Call her baby ♪ 764 00:39:29,137 --> 00:39:30,241 ♪ What's your game? ♪ 765 00:39:30,275 --> 00:39:31,965 ♪ What's your game? ♪ 766 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:33,689 So what do you wanna do after this? 767 00:39:33,724 --> 00:39:36,379 And when I... and I carry you out of here? 768 00:39:36,413 --> 00:39:37,827 Carry, no. 769 00:39:37,862 --> 00:39:40,413 After this? How "after" are we talking? 770 00:39:42,172 --> 00:39:44,068 I'm having a really great time with Cedric. 771 00:39:44,103 --> 00:39:46,931 He's fantastic. I just think he's adorable. 772 00:39:49,172 --> 00:39:52,000 Okay. Um, you can take me home, 773 00:39:53,689 --> 00:39:55,482 kiss me on the cheek. 774 00:39:55,517 --> 00:39:56,793 With or without mask? 775 00:39:56,827 --> 00:39:58,620 -Definitely without. -[Cedric] Yeah. 776 00:39:59,689 --> 00:40:00,758 Yeah. 777 00:40:02,448 --> 00:40:05,000 You know, I'm really glad I went on this date. 778 00:40:05,034 --> 00:40:07,172 Maybe I learned a few things and... 779 00:40:07,206 --> 00:40:09,103 I'm not looking for a hookup, 780 00:40:09,137 --> 00:40:11,413 but if it happens on the first date, that's amazing. 781 00:40:11,448 --> 00:40:14,275 So I'm hoping to get a kiss on the cheek. 782 00:40:19,034 --> 00:40:20,758 I've had a really good time. 783 00:40:20,793 --> 00:40:21,965 [Cedric] I'm glad. 784 00:40:23,310 --> 00:40:25,620 -Are you allergic to cats? -I am not. 785 00:40:25,655 --> 00:40:27,793 -I'm more... -Okay. [laughs] 786 00:40:27,827 --> 00:40:29,724 I'm more of a cat person than I am a... 787 00:40:29,758 --> 00:40:32,103 -Oh, really? -A dog person, yeah. 788 00:40:32,137 --> 00:40:33,931 Oh, then you'd like my cats. 789 00:40:39,172 --> 00:40:40,793 I've had a really good time. 790 00:40:42,517 --> 00:40:43,620 [Cedric] Here we go. 791 00:40:44,862 --> 00:40:46,448 -[Debbie] Thank you. -You're welcome. 792 00:40:47,655 --> 00:40:49,172 So did you have a good time? 793 00:40:49,206 --> 00:40:50,655 I did. I really enjoyed it. 794 00:40:50,689 --> 00:40:52,000 -Good. -How about you? 795 00:40:52,034 --> 00:40:54,000 -I did. -I do have to say that 796 00:40:54,034 --> 00:40:57,137 I didn't feel a love connection now, okay? 797 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:02,965 Yeah, that's okay. 798 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:04,344 I understand. 799 00:41:05,931 --> 00:41:08,517 But, I know... I hope we can be friends. 800 00:41:08,551 --> 00:41:10,206 -[Debbie] Yeah. -I'd like that. 801 00:41:10,241 --> 00:41:11,310 -[Debbie] Absolutely. -Okay. 802 00:41:15,068 --> 00:41:16,517 -Okay. -Okay. Drive safe. 803 00:41:16,551 --> 00:41:17,724 Goodnight. 804 00:41:27,758 --> 00:41:30,758 [dramatic music playing] 805 00:41:36,793 --> 00:41:39,310 I was not expecting him to tell me 806 00:41:39,344 --> 00:41:42,344 that we did not have any kind of a love connection. 807 00:41:42,379 --> 00:41:45,896 I was expecting him to say, 808 00:41:45,931 --> 00:41:49,586 you know, "It was nice, um, maybe I'll give you call," 809 00:41:49,620 --> 00:41:51,862 so it was like a little bit hurtful. 810 00:41:53,724 --> 00:41:55,551 I am in the friend zone with him. 811 00:41:55,586 --> 00:41:57,689 I've never been in a friend zone 812 00:41:57,724 --> 00:42:00,103 with somebody I've gone out on a date with. 813 00:42:01,482 --> 00:42:03,413 Yeah, I don't wanna be in the fucking friend zone. 814 00:42:03,448 --> 00:42:05,206 I wanna be in the fucking fuck zone. 815 00:42:11,620 --> 00:42:13,034 [producer speaking] 816 00:42:17,620 --> 00:42:19,275 It's hard putting yourself out there 817 00:42:19,310 --> 00:42:22,965 especially after I was married for 27 years 818 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,310 and then I was a widow for 13 years, 819 00:42:25,344 --> 00:42:27,862 and go out there and try to meet people. 820 00:42:27,896 --> 00:42:30,862 I'm 69 years old, almost 70 years old, 821 00:42:30,896 --> 00:42:33,793 and is it... is it worth the hassle? 822 00:42:33,827 --> 00:42:36,034 I mean, I'm happy with my life. 823 00:42:36,068 --> 00:42:37,862 I have my cats. I do what I want. 824 00:42:37,896 --> 00:42:39,448 I have my friends. 825 00:42:39,482 --> 00:42:44,034 Is it worth making my heart 826 00:42:44,068 --> 00:42:46,724 to find somebody to mend my heart? 827 00:42:46,758 --> 00:42:47,758 I don't know. 828 00:42:53,758 --> 00:42:56,310 [narrator] Next time on 90 Day: The Single Life. 829 00:42:56,344 --> 00:42:59,482 -Oh, hi. -Hey, good to see you. 830 00:42:59,517 --> 00:43:01,931 Junya doesn't know that I'm still married to Michael 831 00:43:01,965 --> 00:43:03,448 and I have to tell him. 832 00:43:03,482 --> 00:43:04,379 Like, um, uh... 833 00:43:18,793 --> 00:43:19,689 -Wait. -[woman] Let me see. 834 00:43:19,724 --> 00:43:20,689 -Wait, wait, wait. -[woman] Yeah. 835 00:43:20,724 --> 00:43:21,965 How do I look? 836 00:43:22,620 --> 00:43:23,965 [Kaory speaking] 837 00:43:24,517 --> 00:43:26,137 She's beautiful, um, 838 00:43:26,172 --> 00:43:29,551 she's not too tall, and I feel some sparks. 839 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:33,620 So I had fun tonight. 840 00:43:33,655 --> 00:43:35,517 -I had a good time as well. -Yeah. 841 00:43:35,551 --> 00:43:39,758 So, I would really like to kiss you. 842 00:43:39,793 --> 00:43:42,206 -Are you asking to kiss me? -Yes. 843 00:43:45,206 --> 00:43:47,689 -There we go. -So baby, yeah, 844 00:43:47,724 --> 00:43:49,793 I'm being realistic, a relationship with me 845 00:43:49,827 --> 00:43:51,482 will mean a relationship with my daughter. 846 00:43:52,827 --> 00:43:54,827 I do not have experience with this 847 00:43:54,862 --> 00:43:56,137 and I need to be careful. 848 00:43:58,517 --> 00:44:00,344 I had never really done the dating app thing. 849 00:44:00,379 --> 00:44:01,758 -Yeah. -Just go for it. 850 00:44:01,793 --> 00:44:03,275 Just jump in. I mean, 851 00:44:03,310 --> 00:44:04,517 hit that install button. 852 00:44:05,551 --> 00:44:06,551 [Syngin] Let's go then. 853 00:44:07,103 --> 00:44:10,068 [Syngin speaking]