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The dramatic new episode
of "Bachelor in Paradise"
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starts right now.
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♪ Almost paradise ♪
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♪ We're knocking
on heaven's door ♪
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♪ Almost paradise ♪
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♪ How could we ask for more? ♪
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♪ I swear
that I could see forever ♪
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♪ In your eyes ♪
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♪ Paradise ♪
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♪ Paradise ♪
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♪ And in your arms
salvation's not so far away ♪
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♪ It's getting closer,
closer every day ♪
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♪ Almost paradise ♪
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♪ We're knocking
on heaven's door ♪
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♪ Almost paradise ♪
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♪ How could we ask for more? ♪
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♪ I swear
that I could see forever ♪
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♪ In your eyes ♪
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♪ Paradise ♪
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How's Izzy doing, by the way?
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Do you think
it's certain?
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Do you think
it's certain?
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Like, she is absolutely
100% over Vinny,
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or do you think she could
wake up this morning and say,
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"Maybe
I made a mistake"?
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No idea, because all
I heard about this
morning was this,
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and I had no idea
until this morning.
Neither did I.
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I only heard it
from Vinny.
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Izzy talked to Vinny last night
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and said she wants to see
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if something
is there with Brett,
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which obviously really
took him back, shocked him.
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I mean, everybody said
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Vinny and Izzy are the strongest
couple in paradise, bar none.
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To really go out of your way
to pursue another guy,
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it's just ‐‐ they weren't
on the same page, apparently.
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it's just ‐‐ they weren't
on the same page, apparently.
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Well, especially because
they've been, like,
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the one everybody is, like,
"Oh, that's a certain thing."
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This whole Vinny and Izzy
situation right now,
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it does kind of remind me of
what happened with me and Kirk
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because he was having doubts
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and never told me
until it was way too late.
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And Vinny was totally
blindsided.
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One, it's really hard
to see a man cry,
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and, two,
like, I felt his pain.
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Like, I've been there.
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It's the absolute worst feeling
you can possibly have.
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What's up?
Hey.
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Can we go to
the treehouse?
Yeah.
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Can we go to
the treehouse?
Yeah.
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Waking up today wasn't easy.
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I feel crushed.
I don't know if I was misled.
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Committing so much
to Izzy and I's relationship
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over these past couple weeks,
you know, it's what I wanted,
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but apparently,
it's not what she wanted.
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I don't want to sit around
and wait for her
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so I can be second‐best.
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You don't
have to say anything
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if you don't want to,
but...
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I came into this...
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...not expecting
what we had from day one.
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I came into this
open‐minded.
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I came into this
open‐minded.
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And then I saw you, I was like,
"This is why I'm here."
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I felt that
instant connection.
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It was like,
"You know what?
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I want to build a relationship
with Izzy.
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I want to be here for Izzy,
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and potentially
leave here with her."
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You know, all the fun times
that we had
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and all the talks
that we had,"
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and, you know, opening up
to each other,
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that's not something that's
very easy for me, you know?
Mm‐hmm.
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And I feel like
we were on the same page.
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Like, I didn't want to date
anybody else here.
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Like, I didn't want to date
anybody else here.
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Well, I didn't ‐‐
I didn't want to, either.
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We were ‐‐ we were very much
on the same page.
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And I have not had anybody
come in here ‐‐
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Like I said to you
last night,
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I had not one thing
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that made me want to be
with anybody else.
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And I'm only
being honest with you,
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and I'm being honest
with myself,
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when I tell you,
when ‐‐ when Brett walked in,
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I got this feeling of,
like ‐‐
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I questioned myself.
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Why would I feel
a certain way?
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I don't even know the guy,
but something made me ‐‐
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But you're willing
to throw it all away
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just on a guy
that walked in...
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No, because I think ‐‐
... based on
physical attraction.
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No, because I think ‐‐
... based on
physical attraction.
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And I haven't talked
to you about things
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that I'm... unsure about
with you and I.
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I wish that I was able to
talk to you about this stuff
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before Brett came in.
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I'm just hurt.
I'm heartbroken.
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I'm crushed.
I know you are,
I know you are.
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I ‐‐
Like, I'm blindsided.
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Like, I didn't think this was
gonna happen this way.
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You know, it just was hurtful
for me to see that.
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I understand that,
and I'm sorry.
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Like, the last thing
I want to do is hurt you.
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The way that you handled
yourself yesterday...
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The way that you handled
yourself yesterday...
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... just showed me
who you are.
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And what we had
is something
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that I haven't felt
in quite some time.
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And, you know,
there was a potential to ‐‐
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to fall in love
with somebody like you.
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And you're gonna
watch this ‐‐
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And you're gonna hear the things
that I've said about you.
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I mean, it's just...
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I mean, it's just...
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You know,
there's other ways of ‐‐
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of how you could've
went about that.
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And regardless of
what I said to you,
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without microphones
or whatever,
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I can't fight my feelings,
I can't fight my emotions.
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I...
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I've chosen to remove myself
from here.
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I'm leaving.
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I'm leaving.
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I don't think you should.
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Vinny, stay.
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Have a good
rest of your trip.
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Please stay.
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Come on.
I'm sorry.
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You good? All right.
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I love Vinny.
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I really do.
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He's such a good person.
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And I just kind of feel like
a really person.
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Like, he deserves a lot better
than what I just did.
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Aww.
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No.
You kidding me?
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He's leaving because of me!
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I miss what me and Izzy had.
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You know, I thought
that there was a potential there
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to fall in love.
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I felt like that
that was happening.
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And...I let somebody
into my heart,
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and I got
taken advantage of...
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...all because of
somebody walking by
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and based on how they look.
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And you're just gonna
throw all that out ‐‐
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And you're just gonna
throw all that out ‐‐
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throw it all away ‐‐
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and just break my heart
and crush me.
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Coming up...
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If that can happen
to them,
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it can happen
to any one of us.
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It just starts to make you
question your own relationship.
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The way
you're reacting to this
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is you finding another reason
to push me away again,
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and it's
kind of irritating.
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I'm just
not seeing us click.
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I mean, I don't even know
what to think right now.
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- Oh, my God!
- Holy crap!
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It's so great to see
Jade and Tanner
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It's so great to see
Jade and Tanner
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as proof of how paradise
can work.
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Just wanted to come
check in on you guys
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and see what
you all were up to.
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We've got a date card
to hand out.
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What lengths would you
be willing to go to get it?
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Now I'm worried about
Caila and Jared
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being the next Jade and Tanner,
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but I know how to get
a reaction out of him.
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I don't think you would sabotage
anything that I have.
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When is he ever gonna trust me
more than he trusts you?
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Because ‐‐
Yeah, I don't know if
he's ever gonna trust you
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more than he trusts me.
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I miss Vinny.
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Miss him already? Damn.
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It's such a tough situation
for him.
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It just breaks my heart.
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We just had our first breakup,
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and things just
kind of got real.
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I mean,
Vinny was talking about
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potentially getting engaged
at the end of this,
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and for Izzy to drop a bomb
on him like that was just huge.
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He deserved to stay.
You know what I mean?
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He was one of the guys
that just ‐‐
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I wanted him
to find love.
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I'm disappointed
in her,
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and I'm just devastated
for him.
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and I'm just devastated
for him.
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Like,
I can't regret anything,
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but I also do feel
just so, so horrible.
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This is the first major breakup
that we've had here,
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and it is scary to see that
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because no one expected this
or saw this coming at all.
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You're gonna be all right.
I know it's not easy right now.
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But we're here
if you need us, too.
Thank you.
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To see that end
was really sad
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and also just shook everybody
a little bit.
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It just starts to make you
question your own relationship.
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And, like,
if that can happen to them,
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it can happen
to any one of us.
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Things change quickly
in paradise,
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Things change quickly
in paradise,
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and you can never predict
anything that's gonna happen.
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Hi!
What's up, guys?
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Oh, my God.
Oh, my God.
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Holy crap!
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Aaaaah!
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Who's that?
Jade and Tanner.
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Genuine excitement
goes through me
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Genuine excitement
goes through me
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as soon as I see
Jade and Tanner.
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Oh, my God!
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I feel, like, instantaneously,
everything's better.
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God! Oh, my God!
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Oh, my God!
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Vinny just left,
and we're all, like,
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"Oh, my gosh.
Does love even exist here?"
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And Jade and Tanner
walking in
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was like
this breath of fresh air,
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like, "Hey, guys, guess what?
Love does exist here."
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You know, it can work.
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Oh, my God, Jared.
How are you doing?
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It's really exciting
to meet the other couples,
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because,
you know, deep down,
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I want someone else to find
what we found here.
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Hi, Jade! I'm Izzy.
Hi!
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Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
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Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
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This place definitely
means more to us
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than it does probably
to anybody.
Mm‐hmm.
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This is the story
we get to tell our
children someday
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and how we met,
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and I just think
it's really special to us.
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Yeah, guys,
we just wanted to come see
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what you all are up to.
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Um, what is this,
week 4 for you?
Yeah.
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‐Yeah, I mean...
‐It's crazy.
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You guys
are pretty far along.
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It's kind of
a big moment.
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Week 4 was kind of
when it turned for us,
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when it kind of went from
just a paradise fling
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to something that
potentially could be real,
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and I had no idea
at this stage of the game
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that I would be, you know,
proposing at the end of this,
247
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that I would be, you know,
proposing at the end of this,
248
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but we just wanted
to come check in,
249
00:11:00,693 --> 00:11:02,595
and I think Jade has something
in her hand, too.
250
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We do have
a special little date card
251
00:11:04,697 --> 00:11:07,300
that we're going to give
to one couple.
252
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Hi. Come here.
253
00:11:10,403 --> 00:11:11,604
We're gonna take
a little time
254
00:11:11,604 --> 00:11:12,906
to talk to each
and every one of the couples
255
00:11:12,906 --> 00:11:14,774
and see who we think
has the best chance
256
00:11:14,774 --> 00:11:15,975
to make it
after paradise.
257
00:11:15,975 --> 00:11:17,944
- Let's go have a chat, guys.
- Okay.
258
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Based upon our conversations,
259
00:11:19,712 --> 00:11:20,880
we're gonna hand out
a date card
260
00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,516
to the people that we think
is most deserving.
261
00:11:23,516 --> 00:11:24,817
Our relationship has been
very different
262
00:11:24,817 --> 00:11:26,920
than my relationship
before.
Last year?
263
00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:28,721
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
And I don't know.
264
00:11:28,721 --> 00:11:29,042
We, like,
kind of hit it off,
265
00:11:29,042 --> 00:11:30,523
We, like,
kind of hit it off,
266
00:11:30,523 --> 00:11:33,860
and then I...
got a little bit confused.
267
00:11:33,860 --> 00:11:35,795
Evan and I definitely
need a date
268
00:11:35,795 --> 00:11:37,564
more than
any other couple.
269
00:11:37,564 --> 00:11:40,266
I need more alone time with him
away from here
270
00:11:40,266 --> 00:11:42,502
to figure it out.
271
00:11:42,502 --> 00:11:43,736
Is it a yes, is it a no?
272
00:11:43,736 --> 00:11:47,407
Because it's not fair for me
to be indecisive anymore.
273
00:11:47,407 --> 00:11:48,041
I mean, we've had, like,
274
00:11:48,041 --> 00:11:49,742
sort of ups and downs
the whole way.
Yeah, yeah.
275
00:11:49,742 --> 00:11:50,944
Well, you're both still here.
I mean, that's something.
276
00:11:50,944 --> 00:11:52,545
I know.
Yeah, the thing
that's been cool is
277
00:11:52,545 --> 00:11:53,846
we've both been, like,
really honest about it, though.
278
00:11:53,846 --> 00:11:55,815
Yeah.
Like, "Here's what I'm feeling,
and here's...," you know.
279
00:11:55,815 --> 00:11:57,884
He's very different
than anyone I've ever dated.
280
00:11:57,884 --> 00:11:59,042
I think because of
what happened last year,
281
00:11:59,042 --> 00:11:59,919
I think because of
what happened last year,
282
00:11:59,919 --> 00:12:01,788
I've been, like,
way more cautious.
283
00:12:01,788 --> 00:12:04,591
I think Carly's really
trying hard to like Evan.
284
00:12:04,591 --> 00:12:06,492
He seems to
really like Carly.
285
00:12:06,492 --> 00:12:07,660
So I wish them
the best of luck.
286
00:12:07,660 --> 00:12:09,596
All right,
So, what's the lowdown
287
00:12:09,596 --> 00:12:10,964
on you two crazy kiddos?
The lowdown?
288
00:12:10,964 --> 00:12:13,733
Lace and I are one of
the strongest couples here,
289
00:12:13,733 --> 00:12:15,134
and I really
want to get this date card
290
00:12:15,134 --> 00:12:17,904
because I want to move things
along with our relationship.
291
00:12:17,904 --> 00:12:19,472
You guys haven't had
a date yet at all?
292
00:12:19,472 --> 00:12:20,640
We had a double date,
293
00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:21,874
but we haven't had a date,
like, just alone time,
294
00:12:21,874 --> 00:12:23,743
so, we had a couples massage
upstairs that he planned.
295
00:12:23,743 --> 00:12:25,678
- Nice. Very nice.
- That's nice.
296
00:12:25,678 --> 00:12:27,580
And he expressed
his feelings for me.
297
00:12:27,580 --> 00:12:28,982
What ‐‐ what'd he say?
A big word.
298
00:12:28,982 --> 00:12:29,042
A four‐letter word?
Yeah, I was like...
299
00:12:29,042 --> 00:12:30,850
A four‐letter word?
Yeah, I was like...
300
00:12:30,850 --> 00:12:32,919
That's a big step,
though.
He knows how I feel.
301
00:12:32,919 --> 00:12:35,655
I think I just ‐‐ I'm just
so scared of it right now.
302
00:12:35,655 --> 00:12:38,458
So, you said
that you love her.
303
00:12:38,458 --> 00:12:39,525
Yeah.
304
00:12:39,525 --> 00:12:41,227
And you didn't
say it back?
No.
305
00:12:41,561 --> 00:12:42,695
Wow.
306
00:12:42,695 --> 00:12:43,830
I know it's coming.
307
00:12:43,830 --> 00:12:46,499
I'm just not willing to just
say it right away.
308
00:12:46,499 --> 00:12:47,634
Like, I...
309
00:12:47,634 --> 00:12:49,569
What made you want to
say it to her so early?
310
00:12:49,569 --> 00:12:50,703
I'm the type of person
where it's, like,
311
00:12:50,703 --> 00:12:51,738
if I feel a certain way,
like,
312
00:12:51,738 --> 00:12:53,339
I don't care
what the outcome's gonna be.
313
00:12:53,339 --> 00:12:54,274
Like, I'm gonna tell you.
314
00:12:54,274 --> 00:12:57,143
I ‐‐ I'm not gonna hold
anything back.
315
00:12:57,844 --> 00:12:59,042
I think Grant is
further along than Lace is.
316
00:12:59,042 --> 00:13:00,680
I think Grant is
further along than Lace is.
317
00:13:00,680 --> 00:13:01,881
Lace is a little hesitant,
318
00:13:01,881 --> 00:13:03,783
um, and I think
that's a major red flag.
319
00:13:03,783 --> 00:13:05,418
When did you guys say,
"I love you"?
320
00:13:05,418 --> 00:13:06,486
We said we ‐‐
"I love you"
321
00:13:06,486 --> 00:13:07,754
the last week, right?
Yeah.
322
00:13:07,754 --> 00:13:08,955
Right before.
Mm‐hmm.
323
00:13:08,955 --> 00:13:11,391
So, I mean, you guys beat us
to the punch there.
324
00:13:11,391 --> 00:13:11,791
He did.
325
00:13:11,791 --> 00:13:12,892
Grant is amazing,
326
00:13:12,892 --> 00:13:14,661
but I'm not ready to say,
"I love you" to him.
327
00:13:14,661 --> 00:13:16,562
It's just not ‐‐
it's not in me.
328
00:13:16,562 --> 00:13:17,764
So if I had to ask,
329
00:13:17,764 --> 00:13:19,532
are you guys leaving the show
together right now?
330
00:13:19,532 --> 00:13:21,534
We'll see what happens,
right?
331
00:13:21,534 --> 00:13:23,703
Just keep an open mind,
going forward.
332
00:13:23,703 --> 00:13:25,638
The last few days
get crazy.
333
00:13:25,638 --> 00:13:26,839
So, best of luck
to you.
334
00:13:26,839 --> 00:13:28,708
I think the talk
with Jade and Tanner,
335
00:13:28,708 --> 00:13:29,042
it just kind of was
one of those things, like,
336
00:13:29,042 --> 00:13:30,009
it just kind of was
one of those things, like,
337
00:13:30,009 --> 00:13:34,113
it really makes you realize
where your relationship's at.
338
00:13:41,854 --> 00:13:43,589
But I've told you
how I feel about you,
339
00:13:43,589 --> 00:13:45,425
and I think
that should be ‐‐
I'm aware.
340
00:13:45,558 --> 00:13:47,894
Okay, well ‐‐
341
00:13:47,894 --> 00:13:49,796
The way
you're reacting to this
342
00:13:49,796 --> 00:13:52,832
is you finding another reason
to sort of push me away again,
343
00:13:52,832 --> 00:13:54,767
and it's kind of irritating.
I'm not pushing you away.
344
00:13:54,767 --> 00:13:56,469
It's just, like,
maybe it's a realization.
345
00:13:56,469 --> 00:13:57,503
I don't know.
I just ‐‐ I ‐‐
346
00:13:57,503 --> 00:13:58,638
A realization about what,
though?
347
00:13:58,638 --> 00:13:59,042
Sitting there talking
with Jade and Tanner
348
00:13:59,042 --> 00:14:00,506
Sitting there talking
with Jade and Tanner
349
00:14:00,506 --> 00:14:03,676
and, like,
just not seeing us click,
350
00:14:03,676 --> 00:14:05,678
I just didn't feel like
it was very natural.
351
00:14:05,678 --> 00:14:08,715
It's how you vibe together
in situations.
352
00:14:08,715 --> 00:14:10,650
We did not do good
on that situation.
353
00:14:10,650 --> 00:14:11,784
I'm gonna be honest.
354
00:14:11,784 --> 00:14:13,019
Like, I don't even know
what to think right now.
355
00:14:13,019 --> 00:14:15,655
It makes me start
questioning our relationship.
356
00:14:15,655 --> 00:14:17,590
I thought
he was gonna be the one,
357
00:14:17,590 --> 00:14:18,891
but now I'm not sure
358
00:14:18,891 --> 00:14:20,560
if we're really
meant to be together.
359
00:14:31,904 --> 00:14:34,507
Oh, my God.
This is crazy.
360
00:14:34,507 --> 00:14:35,975
Izzy and Vinny just broke up.
361
00:14:35,975 --> 00:14:39,912
Then Jade and Tanner show up,
and now Lace and I are fighting.
362
00:14:39,912 --> 00:14:42,615
It's kind of crazy
to see the polar opposites
363
00:14:42,615 --> 00:14:44,617
of what can happen
here in paradise.
364
00:14:44,617 --> 00:14:47,620
I mean, you have a couple
that was strong that broke up.
365
00:14:47,620 --> 00:14:48,755
And then you have a couple
366
00:14:48,755 --> 00:14:50,089
that met here,
got engaged here,
367
00:14:50,089 --> 00:14:52,425
and they're married right now,
and they're still happy.
368
00:14:52,425 --> 00:14:53,659
What's up, guys?
369
00:14:53,659 --> 00:14:54,961
When Jade and Tanner arrived,
370
00:14:54,961 --> 00:14:54,997
and they had a date card
to give to a couple here,
371
00:14:54,997 --> 00:14:57,363
and they had a date card
to give to a couple here,
372
00:14:57,363 --> 00:14:57,964
I want it so bad.
373
00:14:57,964 --> 00:15:00,600
I really need this
one‐on‐one time with Amanda,
374
00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,236
and I want to continue
getting to know her.
375
00:15:03,236 --> 00:15:03,669
I need to.
376
00:15:03,669 --> 00:15:04,737
Give me the lowdown
on it.
377
00:15:04,737 --> 00:15:05,838
So, did you start here,
then?
378
00:15:05,838 --> 00:15:06,973
I was the very first
person here.
379
00:15:06,973 --> 00:15:08,608
Okay, so it was good,
yeah.
Oh, cool.
380
00:15:08,608 --> 00:15:09,709
Nice.
Oh, cool. Yeah.
381
00:15:09,709 --> 00:15:12,478
He wasn't here the first day,
so he got here ‐‐
382
00:15:12,478 --> 00:15:14,046
he was the very first guy
to come on.
383
00:15:14,046 --> 00:15:16,582
Okay.
So, did you go on dates
before he got here?
384
00:15:16,582 --> 00:15:17,717
I did.
Yeah, cool.
385
00:15:17,717 --> 00:15:18,851
I went on one.
Who with?
386
00:15:18,851 --> 00:15:20,520
I went out with Nick.
Okay.
387
00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:21,721
Yeah, uh‐huh.
Nick ‐‐ yeah, yeah.
388
00:15:21,721 --> 00:15:23,556
Yeah.
And it was good.
389
00:15:23,556 --> 00:15:24,997
You beat Nick again.
390
00:15:24,997 --> 00:15:25,324
You beat Nick again.
391
00:15:25,324 --> 00:15:25,958
Yeah.
392
00:15:25,958 --> 00:15:27,727
Nick and I
have a history, obviously,
393
00:15:27,727 --> 00:15:29,796
of ‐‐ of dating the same woman
before.
394
00:15:29,796 --> 00:15:30,863
But I feel good about
395
00:15:30,863 --> 00:15:33,399
where I stand
and me as a person.
396
00:15:33,399 --> 00:15:34,667
I don't worry about Nick.
397
00:15:34,667 --> 00:15:36,302
He's no concern to me.
398
00:15:36,302 --> 00:15:37,303
Ugh.
399
00:15:38,638 --> 00:15:39,872
I feel great about Amanda.
400
00:15:39,872 --> 00:15:42,642
She's beautiful, she's caring,
she's sweet.
401
00:15:42,642 --> 00:15:43,643
Honestly, she's different,
402
00:15:43,643 --> 00:15:45,411
as far as, like,
personality‐wise,
403
00:15:45,411 --> 00:15:46,579
that I've ever met
in a woman,
404
00:15:46,579 --> 00:15:47,747
'cause she's just
so selfless,
405
00:15:47,747 --> 00:15:49,549
and I think
that's such a kind thing.
Thanks.
406
00:15:49,549 --> 00:15:50,850
- She's a great mother.
- Oh, that's sweet.
407
00:15:50,850 --> 00:15:52,952
She has two daughters
that all she does is
talk about them.
408
00:15:52,952 --> 00:15:54,997
Thank you.
She gets along with people.
She's nice to people.
409
00:15:54,997 --> 00:15:55,555
Thank you.
She gets along with people.
She's nice to people.
410
00:15:55,555 --> 00:15:56,656
We have
the best connection.
411
00:15:56,656 --> 00:15:58,724
Oh.
I just want another date.
412
00:15:58,724 --> 00:15:59,892
Pick us, please.
413
00:15:59,892 --> 00:16:01,861
I'll throw you some stuff
under the table, man.
414
00:16:01,861 --> 00:16:02,995
- Thanks, guys.
- Yeah.
415
00:16:02,995 --> 00:16:04,797
Josh isn't shy
about saying that
416
00:16:04,797 --> 00:16:06,899
they deserve this date card
and they really want it,
417
00:16:06,899 --> 00:16:08,835
but I feel like
he's putting it on too much,
418
00:16:08,835 --> 00:16:11,737
so we also wonder if there's
an ulterior motive.
419
00:16:11,737 --> 00:16:14,040
I don't know.
Tough one.
420
00:16:14,841 --> 00:16:17,310
You started day one.
When did you come in?
421
00:16:17,310 --> 00:16:19,479
I came in
four days ago.
422
00:16:19,479 --> 00:16:20,680
Okay.
So you're fairly new.
423
00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:21,814
Oh, okay.
Yeah, midway.
424
00:16:21,814 --> 00:16:22,982
Which is
a little intimidating.
425
00:16:22,982 --> 00:16:24,817
Did you go on any dates
before she showed up, then?
426
00:16:24,817 --> 00:16:24,997
I did, yeah.
Yeah?
427
00:16:24,997 --> 00:16:25,852
I did, yeah.
Yeah?
428
00:16:25,852 --> 00:16:26,919
Like, for me,
it was just ‐‐
429
00:16:26,919 --> 00:16:28,721
I wasn't coming
for my second chance.
430
00:16:28,721 --> 00:16:29,922
Like, I kind of
already did that.
431
00:16:29,922 --> 00:16:31,757
Third time's a charm,
buddy.
Oh, my God.
432
00:16:31,757 --> 00:16:33,659
He loves that one.
I was like,
"If Harrison says that to me,
433
00:16:33,659 --> 00:16:35,495
I'm gonna punch him
in the nuts."
434
00:16:36,562 --> 00:16:38,965
My biggest hesitation
coming here was
435
00:16:38,965 --> 00:16:42,101
my previous experiences
were both intense...
436
00:16:42,101 --> 00:16:44,604
Mm‐hmm.
... Um, for a lot of
different reasons
437
00:16:44,604 --> 00:16:46,772
but none more so
other than the fact
438
00:16:46,772 --> 00:16:49,775
that I developed really ‐‐
real feelings for both women.
439
00:16:49,775 --> 00:16:52,478
Right.
And looking back,
440
00:16:52,478 --> 00:16:53,779
I can say now,
441
00:16:53,779 --> 00:16:54,997
things worked out
the way they should.
Right.
442
00:16:54,997 --> 00:16:56,582
things worked out
the way they should.
Right.
443
00:16:56,582 --> 00:16:58,684
So it's easy for me
to question this environment.
444
00:16:58,684 --> 00:17:00,586
I'm not trying to
put pressure on myself.
445
00:17:00,586 --> 00:17:01,854
- I'm not against...
- Right.
446
00:17:01,854 --> 00:17:03,489
... anything crazy
happening,
447
00:17:03,489 --> 00:17:04,724
but it doesn't
need to happen.
448
00:17:04,724 --> 00:17:06,726
But my advice is,
get out of your head
449
00:17:06,726 --> 00:17:08,861
and just go for it, though,
honestly.
450
00:17:08,861 --> 00:17:11,731
Don't wake up
on the last day of this
451
00:17:11,731 --> 00:17:14,600
and wish that
you had tried more,
452
00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,335
because you never know
what could happen.
453
00:17:16,335 --> 00:17:18,304
Cool.
454
00:17:22,708 --> 00:17:24,110
How you guys doing?
455
00:17:24,110 --> 00:17:24,997
Muy bien.
Just talking about, like,
that date card.
456
00:17:24,997 --> 00:17:27,380
Muy bien.
Just talking about, like,
that date card.
457
00:17:27,380 --> 00:17:28,381
Oh, my God.
Get that.
458
00:17:28,381 --> 00:17:29,482
I would love to.
459
00:17:29,482 --> 00:17:30,783
Morning, Ashley.
Morning.
460
00:17:30,783 --> 00:17:32,552
How you feeling?
Good.
461
00:17:32,552 --> 00:17:33,553
Good?
462
00:17:33,553 --> 00:17:34,787
Ugh.
463
00:17:34,787 --> 00:17:36,689
I hope that Jade and Tanner
464
00:17:36,689 --> 00:17:38,991
don't give Jared and Caila
the date card.
465
00:17:38,991 --> 00:17:41,961
Honestly, it's a ‐‐
it's a nightmare scenario.
466
00:17:41,961 --> 00:17:44,730
You know, now I'm worried about
Caila and Jared
467
00:17:44,730 --> 00:17:46,499
being the next Jade and Tanner
468
00:17:46,499 --> 00:17:49,602
and proposing
and all that
469
00:17:49,602 --> 00:17:51,037
When we were talking about,
like, possibilities,
470
00:17:51,037 --> 00:17:53,539
we were like, "You two
would look good on paper,
like, together."
471
00:17:53,539 --> 00:17:54,740
Right.
Yeah.
472
00:17:54,740 --> 00:17:54,997
So we were kind of hoping
something would happen.
Yeah.
473
00:17:54,997 --> 00:17:56,409
So we were kind of hoping
something would happen.
Yeah.
474
00:17:56,409 --> 00:17:57,577
And it worked out
so far, so...
475
00:17:57,577 --> 00:17:58,544
Yeah.
It has.
476
00:17:58,544 --> 00:17:59,712
Yeah,
he's a pretty good guy.
477
00:17:59,712 --> 00:18:00,813
Eh, mm, I try.
Yeah.
478
00:18:00,813 --> 00:18:02,782
So, you guys
went on a date.
Yeah.
479
00:18:02,782 --> 00:18:03,983
We went horseback riding.
It was really fun.
480
00:18:03,983 --> 00:18:06,052
So you came in with a date card
and asked him.
Yes.
481
00:18:06,052 --> 00:18:08,554
The best thing about
what Caila and I have right now
482
00:18:08,554 --> 00:18:09,789
is that, every minute
we spend together,
483
00:18:09,789 --> 00:18:11,090
it keeps getting
better and better.
484
00:18:11,090 --> 00:18:13,926
So I'm hoping that
I get this date card
and see this through.
485
00:18:13,926 --> 00:18:16,495
Are you both, like,
actually excited about
it, though, you think?
486
00:18:16,495 --> 00:18:17,897
I'm excited. Yeah.
I am, too. Yeah.
487
00:18:17,897 --> 00:18:20,399
I'm extremely happy
for my buddy
488
00:18:20,399 --> 00:18:21,701
that he's
excited about a girl
489
00:18:21,701 --> 00:18:22,702
and found someone that,
490
00:18:22,702 --> 00:18:24,604
you know,
puts a smile on his face.
491
00:18:24,604 --> 00:18:24,997
I know
it's only been four days,
492
00:18:24,997 --> 00:18:25,705
I know
it's only been four days,
493
00:18:25,705 --> 00:18:26,839
but do you think
there's a chance
494
00:18:26,839 --> 00:18:28,674
that you guys could at least
leave here together?
495
00:18:28,674 --> 00:18:30,610
Yeah,
I think there's a chance.
I think so, yeah.
496
00:18:30,610 --> 00:18:33,546
You guys are fairly close,
you know, where you live, and...
497
00:18:33,546 --> 00:18:35,681
Yeah.
I love Rhode Island,
actually, and...
498
00:18:35,681 --> 00:18:36,916
That's a good thing.
Yeah.
499
00:18:36,916 --> 00:18:38,751
That's a big hurdle
to get out of the way.
Yeah.
500
00:18:38,751 --> 00:18:39,719
Yeah, I think so.
501
00:18:39,719 --> 00:18:40,820
Do you think you guys
could benefit
502
00:18:40,820 --> 00:18:42,688
from our date card
we're giving out?
503
00:18:42,688 --> 00:18:44,523
I think we'd benefit
from your date card.
Yeah.
504
00:18:44,523 --> 00:18:45,558
Absolutely.
505
00:18:45,558 --> 00:18:46,859
It's kind of exciting to see
506
00:18:46,859 --> 00:18:49,595
that they naturally
found each other here.
507
00:18:49,595 --> 00:18:52,431
I can definitely see them
falling in love.
508
00:18:52,431 --> 00:18:53,766
My lady, my lord.
509
00:18:53,766 --> 00:18:54,997
I'm meeting the king and queen
right now.
510
00:18:54,997 --> 00:18:55,401
I'm meeting the king and queen
right now.
511
00:18:55,401 --> 00:18:56,168
Hi.
Hi.
512
00:18:56,168 --> 00:18:58,771
You're looking very
princess‐esque.
Oh, yes, thank you.
513
00:18:58,771 --> 00:19:00,740
That's what everybody said
when I arrived.
514
00:19:00,740 --> 00:19:02,608
I love it.
Thanks.
515
00:19:02,608 --> 00:19:03,743
How's it been?
Once again...
516
00:19:03,743 --> 00:19:05,511
All ‐‐ all rainbows
and sunshine?
517
00:19:05,511 --> 00:19:07,513
...the least desirable woman
in the kingdom.
518
00:19:07,513 --> 00:19:09,749
Stop.
Um...
519
00:19:09,749 --> 00:19:11,751
Yeah,
it's been struggle bus.
520
00:19:11,751 --> 00:19:13,753
What would be,
like, your ideal,
521
00:19:13,753 --> 00:19:15,655
like, the biggest hope
for you
522
00:19:15,655 --> 00:19:16,889
to walk
out of paradise with, and ‐‐
523
00:19:16,889 --> 00:19:18,691
And then, like,
the opposite ‐‐
524
00:19:18,691 --> 00:19:20,459
What would be
your, like, worst nightmare?
525
00:19:20,459 --> 00:19:21,927
My biggest hope
coming into it
526
00:19:21,927 --> 00:19:23,529
was that Jared
would turn around.
527
00:19:23,529 --> 00:19:24,497
Yeah.
Yeah.
528
00:19:24,497 --> 00:19:24,997
And then, um,
my biggest fear
529
00:19:24,997 --> 00:19:26,766
And then, um,
my biggest fear
530
00:19:26,766 --> 00:19:28,701
is that he leaves
engaged to Caila.
531
00:19:28,701 --> 00:19:29,869
Yeah.
Yeah.
532
00:19:29,869 --> 00:19:31,804
You think there's a chance
of that happening?
533
00:19:31,804 --> 00:19:35,508
So, as far as
I've heard...
534
00:19:35,508 --> 00:19:38,577
um, he's definitely
more into her than he ‐‐
535
00:19:38,577 --> 00:19:39,645
than she is to him.
536
00:19:39,645 --> 00:19:42,314
And I'm like, "Okay,
I'm really thinking of her
537
00:19:42,314 --> 00:19:45,885
as... a faker person."
538
00:19:45,885 --> 00:19:49,989
I just hit the nail
in the coffin for Jared.
539
00:19:49,989 --> 00:19:51,957
Jared and Caila
are not in consideration
540
00:19:51,957 --> 00:19:54,226
for Jade and Tanner's
date card.
541
00:19:54,226 --> 00:19:54,794
No way.
542
00:19:54,794 --> 00:19:54,997
All right, thanks, guys.
You're great.
543
00:19:54,997 --> 00:19:56,595
All right, thanks, guys.
You're great.
544
00:19:56,595 --> 00:19:57,897
And I always feel like
Jade and Tanner
545
00:19:57,897 --> 00:19:59,699
will have a soft spot
for Jared and I,
546
00:19:59,699 --> 00:20:03,369
so we'll see what they ‐‐
they have to say.
547
00:20:04,103 --> 00:20:06,439
There's a few couples here
that we thought
548
00:20:06,439 --> 00:20:07,606
were on the right path
already,
549
00:20:07,606 --> 00:20:08,841
and there was a few
that we thought
550
00:20:08,841 --> 00:20:11,577
maybe this date would help
propel to that next level,
551
00:20:11,577 --> 00:20:12,812
so it was a tough ‐‐
tough decision,
552
00:20:12,812 --> 00:20:14,046
whether to give it
to someone that,
553
00:20:14,046 --> 00:20:16,749
you know, has a great shot
at becoming something
554
00:20:16,749 --> 00:20:19,719
or one ‐‐ one of those swing
couples that really needed it.
555
00:20:19,719 --> 00:20:22,621
But, um,
I think we came to a decision.
556
00:20:22,621 --> 00:20:23,589
Yeah.
557
00:20:23,589 --> 00:20:24,790
Jared and Caila,
558
00:20:24,790 --> 00:20:24,997
enjoy the date
where we fell in love.
559
00:20:24,997 --> 00:20:27,626
enjoy the date
where we fell in love.
560
00:20:27,626 --> 00:20:29,762
XOXO.
Jade and Tanner.
561
00:20:29,762 --> 00:20:32,331
‐Aww.
‐Yay!
562
00:20:33,666 --> 00:20:35,401
I'm so excited
to get the date card
563
00:20:35,401 --> 00:20:35,901
from Tanner and Jade.
564
00:20:35,901 --> 00:20:37,503
Of course I want
my own love story.
565
00:20:37,503 --> 00:20:38,704
Everybody wants
their own love story,
566
00:20:38,704 --> 00:20:39,972
so, hopefully
it's a big turning point
567
00:20:39,972 --> 00:20:41,874
in the relationship
that Caila and myself have.
568
00:20:41,874 --> 00:20:43,709
We felt like you guys
already had a good foundation.
569
00:20:43,709 --> 00:20:45,444
Thanks, guys.
I appreciate it.
570
00:20:45,444 --> 00:20:46,512
Like, what the hell?
571
00:20:46,512 --> 00:20:48,581
This is the worst scenario.
572
00:20:48,581 --> 00:20:50,549
Why isn't that me again?
573
00:20:50,549 --> 00:20:52,485
For the second year in a row,
it's like,
574
00:20:52,485 --> 00:20:54,997
"why am I the one
that's at home, single?"
575
00:20:54,997 --> 00:20:55,921
"why am I the one
that's at home, single?"
576
00:20:55,921 --> 00:20:59,592
Dear God,
please hope that Jared today
577
00:20:59,592 --> 00:21:03,562
realizes that Caila sucks
and I'm a lot more fun
578
00:21:03,562 --> 00:21:06,198
and she is
a little piece of
579
00:21:06,565 --> 00:21:07,900
Coming up...
580
00:21:07,900 --> 00:21:10,536
This girl's a disloyal bitch.
581
00:21:10,536 --> 00:21:14,106
How has my nightmare scenario
come to be?
582
00:21:16,408 --> 00:21:17,610
Maybe she just
doesn't like me.
583
00:21:17,610 --> 00:21:18,844
I know how to get
a reaction out of him.
584
00:21:18,844 --> 00:21:21,313
She told you
to be careful.
Yeah.
585
00:21:21,313 --> 00:21:22,748
She is in love with you.
586
00:21:22,748 --> 00:21:23,949
I need to talk to her.
587
00:21:23,949 --> 00:21:24,997
Okay. So you're gonna
sabotage everyone else?
588
00:21:24,997 --> 00:21:26,452
Okay. So you're gonna
sabotage everyone else?
589
00:21:26,452 --> 00:21:27,820
Like, you want
to entertain yourself?
590
00:21:27,820 --> 00:21:28,921
I'm not entertaining myself
591
00:21:28,921 --> 00:21:30,589
by telling him, like,
what I've been hearing.
592
00:21:30,589 --> 00:21:31,857
If you were honestly here
to meet someone else,
593
00:21:31,857 --> 00:21:33,559
then you should
focus on that.
Yeah.
594
00:21:33,559 --> 00:21:35,194
I want to scratch her eyes out.
595
00:21:44,637 --> 00:21:46,405
Meeting with Jade and Tanner
596
00:21:46,405 --> 00:21:47,706
definitely made me
a little nervous
597
00:21:47,706 --> 00:21:49,441
about my relationship
with Nick.
598
00:21:49,441 --> 00:21:50,843
I would like Nick to open up
599
00:21:50,843 --> 00:21:52,845
and just tell me
how he's feeling.
600
00:21:52,845 --> 00:21:54,680
Whatever those feelings are,
just tell me.
601
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,515
Do you like me?
Do you have a crush on me?
602
00:21:56,515 --> 00:21:58,517
Do you get butterflies
when you think of me?
603
00:21:58,517 --> 00:21:59,752
I just want ‐‐
I need something.
604
00:21:59,752 --> 00:22:01,787
This is the first couple days
I've noticed
605
00:22:01,787 --> 00:22:03,589
he has a bit of a wall up.
606
00:22:03,589 --> 00:22:04,857
If he doesn't step it up,
607
00:22:04,857 --> 00:22:07,496
if he doesn't tell me
how he's feeling, um,
608
00:22:07,496 --> 00:22:07,893
if he doesn't tell me
how he's feeling, um,
609
00:22:07,893 --> 00:22:10,696
and we can't move forward,
I'm gone.
610
00:22:10,696 --> 00:22:12,531
I think
whenever you feel like
611
00:22:12,531 --> 00:22:15,568
I'm like backing off
or thinking,
612
00:22:15,568 --> 00:22:19,605
that's when you get
more attentive and closer.
613
00:22:19,605 --> 00:22:21,440
But I need more of that
without me doing that.
614
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:22,975
I just chalked it all up
615
00:22:22,975 --> 00:22:24,443
to you having
a bit of a wall up, but...
616
00:22:24,443 --> 00:22:26,979
I mean, I don't know.
I guess maybe, in some ways.
617
00:22:26,979 --> 00:22:30,683
I don't ‐‐ I guess I didn't
feel like ‐‐ like it was a wall.
618
00:22:30,683 --> 00:22:33,719
That's why one of the first
questions I asked on our date
619
00:22:33,719 --> 00:22:37,496
was if your past relationships
maybe affected...
620
00:22:37,496 --> 00:22:37,590
was if your past relationships
maybe affected...
621
00:22:37,590 --> 00:22:39,725
I'd probably be lying
if I said it didn't.
622
00:22:39,725 --> 00:22:41,827
I would like to think
it doesn't, but...
623
00:22:41,827 --> 00:22:44,630
If I sense at all
that you're backing off
624
00:22:44,630 --> 00:22:45,731
or you have a wall,
625
00:22:45,731 --> 00:22:46,966
I'm gonna back off.
626
00:22:46,966 --> 00:22:49,501
Well, I don't think
I'm backing off.
Not backing off
627
00:22:49,501 --> 00:22:53,639
but just not maybe
moving forward?
628
00:22:53,639 --> 00:22:56,876
Like, I want every day to be
a progression, you know?
629
00:22:56,876 --> 00:22:58,744
I know it's only been
a few days,
630
00:22:58,744 --> 00:23:00,679
and it's crazy
to talk like this now,
631
00:23:00,679 --> 00:23:02,681
but whenever I feel like
something's not right,
632
00:23:02,681 --> 00:23:05,251
I back off, and I don't
want to do that with you.
633
00:23:08,454 --> 00:23:11,891
Well, I don't want you to,
either.
634
00:23:11,891 --> 00:23:14,593
I mean, I ‐‐
I feel less cautious with you
635
00:23:14,593 --> 00:23:17,763
than I have with anyone else
here, by a long shot.
636
00:23:17,763 --> 00:23:20,699
And I am self‐conscious
of the fact that ‐‐
637
00:23:20,699 --> 00:23:22,701
I wish I wasn't ‐‐
but, like, you know,
638
00:23:22,701 --> 00:23:23,936
I was a guy who was ‐‐
639
00:23:23,936 --> 00:23:26,839
basically would've been engaged
to two different girls.
640
00:23:26,839 --> 00:23:28,841
If I jump in again
and I'm dumped,
641
00:23:28,841 --> 00:23:31,543
I'm just like ‐‐
then it almost becomes like
642
00:23:31,543 --> 00:23:33,846
I become, like,
a Trivial Pursuit question.
643
00:23:33,846 --> 00:23:37,316
I don't want to be a joke,
you know.
644
00:23:37,816 --> 00:23:39,852
I think the only way
you would look like a joke
645
00:23:39,852 --> 00:23:43,856
is coming here
and not going for it.
646
00:23:43,856 --> 00:23:45,925
Then it's like, you know,
"Well, what are you doing?"
647
00:23:45,925 --> 00:23:47,726
We all have
past relationships.
648
00:23:47,726 --> 00:23:49,595
He had two
on national television
649
00:23:49,595 --> 00:23:50,663
that did not go his way,
650
00:23:50,663 --> 00:23:51,931
and he was
heartbroken twice.
651
00:23:51,931 --> 00:23:54,566
I mean, I give him credit for
putting himself back out there.
652
00:23:54,566 --> 00:23:55,868
I just think
he's a little guarded.
653
00:23:55,868 --> 00:23:57,703
He doesn't want it
to happen again,
654
00:23:57,703 --> 00:23:59,738
but I'm not gonna hurt him.
655
00:23:59,738 --> 00:24:03,208
I have real feelings
for Nick.
656
00:24:05,210 --> 00:24:06,478
Oh
657
00:24:16,722 --> 00:24:20,059
It is pretty incredible,
isn't it?
658
00:24:20,059 --> 00:24:21,760
I'm getting, like,
nostalgia.
I know!
659
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:22,861
I've never actually
seen this,
660
00:24:22,861 --> 00:24:24,763
but, like, seeing how
Tanner and Jade came here...
661
00:24:24,763 --> 00:24:26,598
It's even more meaningful
662
00:24:26,598 --> 00:24:28,701
that Jade and Tanner
gave us this date,
663
00:24:28,701 --> 00:24:30,502
because this is
where they fell in love,
664
00:24:30,502 --> 00:24:31,570
in this exact place.
665
00:24:31,570 --> 00:24:32,771
And they're kind of
passing the baton,
666
00:24:32,771 --> 00:24:35,741
and they see that spark
in both Jared and I.
667
00:24:35,741 --> 00:24:37,496
But at the same time,
I just know Ashley is here,
668
00:24:37,496 --> 00:24:39,378
But at the same time,
I just know Ashley is here,
669
00:24:39,378 --> 00:24:41,513
and if ‐‐
if she's gonna constantly
670
00:24:41,513 --> 00:24:43,515
get in the way
of our progress,
671
00:24:43,515 --> 00:24:47,720
then I don't know
what to do.
672
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,055
It's a little worrisome.
673
00:24:50,456 --> 00:24:52,458
Wow. Um...
674
00:24:52,458 --> 00:24:54,693
I know that
there's been some ‐‐
675
00:24:54,693 --> 00:24:56,662
not complications,
but...
676
00:24:56,662 --> 00:24:57,763
Obstacles?
Yep.
677
00:24:57,763 --> 00:25:00,599
And Ashley is somebody
that I care a lot about,
678
00:25:00,599 --> 00:25:01,633
and she's a friend.
679
00:25:01,633 --> 00:25:02,835
And it was ‐‐ it was hard
680
00:25:02,835 --> 00:25:05,537
hearing the things
that she had to say,
681
00:25:05,537 --> 00:25:07,072
but I decided, you know,
682
00:25:07,072 --> 00:25:07,496
that you were somebody
I wanted to pursue and
continue things with,
683
00:25:07,496 --> 00:25:09,675
that you were somebody
I wanted to pursue and
continue things with,
684
00:25:09,675 --> 00:25:11,710
because I do
really like you.
685
00:25:11,710 --> 00:25:13,879
And you know what?
She's gonna be okay.
686
00:25:13,879 --> 00:25:16,515
I know she will be.
I'm not worried about that.
I know, but ‐‐
687
00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:17,783
I know, like,
but we are, like,
688
00:25:17,783 --> 00:25:20,319
walking around on egg shells
around her.
689
00:25:20,319 --> 00:25:22,321
Yeah.
Which...
690
00:25:23,389 --> 00:25:24,456
...Isn't helping us.
691
00:25:24,456 --> 00:25:27,326
I'm gonna be honest.
I would agree.
692
00:25:27,326 --> 00:25:28,027
I would agree.
693
00:25:28,027 --> 00:25:31,663
I want you to know that,
you know, when I'm with you,
694
00:25:31,663 --> 00:25:33,198
I'm only
thinking about you.
695
00:25:33,198 --> 00:25:33,966
Uh...
696
00:25:33,966 --> 00:25:35,734
I just don't want
to scare you away.
697
00:25:35,734 --> 00:25:37,496
Yeah.
And that's where my ‐‐
my mind is at right now.
698
00:25:37,496 --> 00:25:39,638
Yeah.
And that's where my ‐‐
my mind is at right now.
699
00:25:39,638 --> 00:25:40,906
You won't scare me away,
700
00:25:40,906 --> 00:25:44,443
and I want you to just do
whatever you want to do, okay,
701
00:25:44,443 --> 00:25:45,744
to feel comfortable,
to like ‐‐
702
00:25:45,744 --> 00:25:47,546
Well, I really want
to kiss you.
703
00:25:53,886 --> 00:25:56,622
That was a big thing
weighing on my heart.
704
00:25:56,622 --> 00:25:59,558
and for me to tell Jared
that I feel like Ashley
705
00:25:59,558 --> 00:26:01,760
is kind of hindering
our relationship
706
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,597
and him being receptive
to me saying that
707
00:26:05,597 --> 00:26:07,399
gives me a sigh of relief.
708
00:26:07,399 --> 00:26:07,496
Uh, it's pouring.
709
00:26:07,496 --> 00:26:07,900
Uh, it's pouring.
710
00:26:07,900 --> 00:26:09,668
I think we should
get out of the rain.
711
00:26:09,668 --> 00:26:11,170
Yeah.
712
00:26:13,739 --> 00:26:15,307
That's a good idea.
All right.
713
00:26:16,775 --> 00:26:18,844
I could see myself falling
in love here in paradise,
714
00:26:18,844 --> 00:26:20,746
and tonight
might be that start.
715
00:26:20,746 --> 00:26:22,781
Well, the good thing is,
if we jump in and get wet,
716
00:26:22,781 --> 00:26:24,883
we're already wet,
so it doesn't even matter.
Yeah.
717
00:26:24,883 --> 00:26:27,719
Seeing Jade and Tanner
and seeing what love is like,
718
00:26:27,719 --> 00:26:29,755
it gives me hope,
719
00:26:29,755 --> 00:26:32,124
and we might have
that same fairy‐tale ending.
720
00:26:32,124 --> 00:26:33,926
Ooh!
721
00:26:33,926 --> 00:26:35,694
Ready to go swimming?
Strip down, girl.
722
00:26:35,694 --> 00:26:37,496
Ready to go swimming?
Ready to go swimming.
723
00:26:37,496 --> 00:26:37,529
Ready to go swimming?
Ready to go swimming.
724
00:26:37,930 --> 00:26:39,965
There was something
about Caila ‐‐
725
00:26:39,965 --> 00:26:42,468
I could understand
what Ben was talking about.
726
00:26:42,468 --> 00:26:43,735
Like, she's just like
there's ‐‐
727
00:26:43,735 --> 00:26:44,937
She's just got this quality
728
00:26:44,937 --> 00:26:47,439
that just makes her,
like, incredibly sexy.
729
00:26:47,439 --> 00:26:48,674
You all right?
730
00:26:48,674 --> 00:26:49,741
Oh, it's ‐‐
You good?
731
00:26:49,741 --> 00:26:51,577
You can just stand, yeah.
You just slide right in?
732
00:26:51,577 --> 00:26:52,644
Yeah.
733
00:26:52,644 --> 00:26:54,313
I'm excited for the future
with Caila.
734
00:26:54,313 --> 00:26:54,713
I really am.
735
00:26:54,713 --> 00:26:55,848
And I'm excited to just
736
00:26:55,848 --> 00:26:58,584
try to build this relationship
with her more,
737
00:26:58,584 --> 00:27:00,552
and I want to continue this
and see if it's something
738
00:27:00,552 --> 00:27:02,654
that can last
outside of paradise.
739
00:27:15,934 --> 00:27:18,070
I'm feeling completely helpless
740
00:27:18,070 --> 00:27:22,508
'cause I'm forced to watch Jared
falling for somebody else.
741
00:27:24,476 --> 00:27:27,646
I would feel
absolutely devastated,
742
00:27:27,646 --> 00:27:29,915
broken, really,
743
00:27:29,915 --> 00:27:32,384
if they were to leave paradise
together.
744
00:27:33,919 --> 00:27:37,496
Caila has the sex appeal
that I don't.
745
00:27:37,496 --> 00:27:38,690
Caila has the sex appeal
that I don't.
746
00:27:38,690 --> 00:27:41,627
She is, like,
flirty, sexy girl,
747
00:27:41,627 --> 00:27:45,097
and I am, like...
748
00:27:46,632 --> 00:27:48,400
...Not sexy.
749
00:27:51,770 --> 00:27:53,605
You know what really,
really scares me
750
00:27:53,605 --> 00:27:57,709
even more than ‐‐
than them leaving together...
751
00:27:57,709 --> 00:28:00,445
is going ‐‐ them going
to the fantasy suite.
752
00:28:03,482 --> 00:28:04,883
I think I might die.
753
00:28:04,883 --> 00:28:07,496
I would actually ‐‐
I think I'd die.
754
00:28:07,496 --> 00:28:08,787
I would actually ‐‐
I think I'd die.
755
00:28:08,787 --> 00:28:10,889
Because knowing Jared,
756
00:28:10,889 --> 00:28:14,726
in most cases,
he wouldn't do anything,
757
00:28:14,726 --> 00:28:16,862
but I feel like she does
have something on him,
758
00:28:16,862 --> 00:28:18,931
and he's gonna do stuff
in the fantasy suite,
759
00:28:18,931 --> 00:28:22,668
and that is going to
literally murder me.
760
00:28:22,668 --> 00:28:26,138
That's the death
of heartbreak.
761
00:28:36,014 --> 00:28:38,850
Did you have, like, lots of
girlfriends in high school?
762
00:28:38,850 --> 00:28:41,386
Uh, I had, like,
a few long‐term ones.
763
00:28:41,386 --> 00:28:43,589
Mm‐hmm.
764
00:28:43,589 --> 00:28:44,890
The relationship
Evan and I have
765
00:28:44,890 --> 00:28:46,658
is such
a strong friendship now,
766
00:28:46,658 --> 00:28:49,661
and it feels like,
now that it's becoming more,
767
00:28:49,661 --> 00:28:51,296
it feels really real.
768
00:28:51,763 --> 00:28:54,566
Uh, I went through,
like a year,
769
00:28:54,566 --> 00:28:56,501
where I, like,
it was this thing.
770
00:28:56,501 --> 00:28:58,570
Like, I was, like,
just processing, like ‐‐
771
00:28:58,570 --> 00:29:00,539
You were just
everybody.
772
00:29:00,539 --> 00:29:01,276
Mm‐hmm.
Oh, my God!
773
00:29:01,276 --> 00:29:03,342
Mm‐hmm.
Oh, my God!
774
00:29:03,342 --> 00:29:04,710
I don't understand this.
775
00:29:04,710 --> 00:29:07,546
You put off
zero sexual vibe to me,
776
00:29:07,546 --> 00:29:10,582
you've never made a move,
you act asexual.
777
00:29:10,582 --> 00:29:11,683
And I ‐‐ I don't know.
778
00:29:11,683 --> 00:29:13,619
I just need
a little bit of swag.
779
00:29:13,619 --> 00:29:14,720
That's not
how I come across?
780
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,355
That's not
how I come across?
781
00:29:17,522 --> 00:29:19,424
On a relationship scale,
782
00:29:19,424 --> 00:29:20,726
we're just, like,
in the middle.
783
00:29:20,726 --> 00:29:22,894
I think something
needs to change
784
00:29:22,894 --> 00:29:26,398
to, like, not put us
in the 50 mark.
785
00:29:31,803 --> 00:29:34,606
So, guys, we have something
to tell you.
786
00:29:34,606 --> 00:29:37,643
We found a date card!
787
00:29:37,643 --> 00:29:40,379
Whoa!
788
00:29:40,379 --> 00:29:42,414
‐Ready?
‐Wow.
789
00:29:42,414 --> 00:29:43,348
"Evan..."
790
00:29:43,348 --> 00:29:46,151
‐Yeah.
‐Whoo!
791
00:29:46,151 --> 00:29:49,421
"... choose a woman to join you
for an ancient ceremony."
792
00:29:49,421 --> 00:29:50,622
Oh, my God.
793
00:29:50,622 --> 00:29:52,658
Whoo!
Yay!
794
00:29:52,658 --> 00:29:54,726
Yeah, things have been
up and down with Carly,
795
00:29:54,726 --> 00:29:56,662
but I think she just
wants to see me be, like,
796
00:29:56,662 --> 00:29:57,796
you know,
kind of cool and chill
797
00:29:57,796 --> 00:30:00,365
and not, like, so, like,
"Ha ha!"
798
00:30:00,365 --> 00:30:01,276
Carly,
will you go with me?
799
00:30:01,276 --> 00:30:02,301
Carly,
will you go with me?
800
00:30:04,569 --> 00:30:05,704
Aww.
801
00:30:05,704 --> 00:30:08,507
I'm working on that.
802
00:30:13,812 --> 00:30:15,814
I don't think I've ever
felt this way about a girl.
803
00:30:15,814 --> 00:30:16,982
I don't want
that to scare her,
804
00:30:16,982 --> 00:30:18,884
but at the same time,
I want her to feel that.
805
00:30:18,884 --> 00:30:20,752
You know what?
At some point, it's like,
806
00:30:20,752 --> 00:30:22,587
"Hey, these are my emotions.
They're real.
807
00:30:22,587 --> 00:30:23,789
If it's too much for you,
then ‐‐
808
00:30:23,789 --> 00:30:25,524
then it's too much
for you."
809
00:30:25,524 --> 00:30:26,625
But I hope this date today
810
00:30:26,625 --> 00:30:28,660
is a turning point
in our relationship.
811
00:30:30,662 --> 00:30:31,276
Oh, my gosh.
812
00:30:31,276 --> 00:30:32,331
Oh, my gosh.
813
00:30:32,331 --> 00:30:33,031
What is this?
814
00:30:36,668 --> 00:30:38,470
What in the world?
I don't know.
815
00:30:38,470 --> 00:30:39,705
Evan and I walk up,
816
00:30:39,705 --> 00:30:43,408
and there's a bunch of people
with headdresses and a fire.
817
00:30:43,408 --> 00:30:45,444
This is really
up Evan's alley.
818
00:30:45,444 --> 00:30:47,546
Like, he loves
this weird stuff.
819
00:30:50,849 --> 00:30:54,586
You've come to the temazcal
to release a negative energy.
820
00:30:54,586 --> 00:30:56,655
As you came here
to the sacred womb,
821
00:30:56,655 --> 00:30:58,590
the work you're doing
is a rebirth.
822
00:30:58,590 --> 00:30:59,891
I'm a little nervous
about the hut.
823
00:30:59,891 --> 00:31:01,276
I don't know
what's gonna happen in the hut.
824
00:31:01,276 --> 00:31:01,727
I don't know
what's gonna happen in the hut.
825
00:31:01,727 --> 00:31:06,465
I just want to be confident
that I am falling for Evan
826
00:31:06,465 --> 00:31:08,500
or I'm not falling for Evan.
827
00:31:27,819 --> 00:31:29,821
Because Evan is super into it,
828
00:31:29,821 --> 00:31:31,276
it makes me feel, like,
kind of comfortable
829
00:31:31,276 --> 00:31:31,690
it makes me feel, like,
kind of comfortable
830
00:31:31,690 --> 00:31:32,858
in a really weird way.
831
00:31:32,858 --> 00:31:35,026
If I went on this date
with someone
832
00:31:35,026 --> 00:31:38,630
who wasn't at the same, like,
spiritual plane I am,
833
00:31:38,630 --> 00:31:39,698
that would be bad.
834
00:31:43,802 --> 00:31:46,605
Say what you really feel.
835
00:31:46,605 --> 00:31:50,942
Carly, I think one of
my greatest fears is that ‐‐
836
00:31:50,942 --> 00:31:54,479
is that I won't be
accepted for all of me.
837
00:31:54,479 --> 00:32:00,519
And you have
accepted all of me so far ‐‐
838
00:32:00,519 --> 00:32:01,276
my weird and my crazy
and my everything,
839
00:32:01,276 --> 00:32:03,722
my weird and my crazy
and my everything,
840
00:32:03,722 --> 00:32:07,826
and I'm really excited
to see what happens,
841
00:32:07,826 --> 00:32:11,430
and I really
want to pursue you
842
00:32:11,430 --> 00:32:13,532
and see what else is
in your heart,
843
00:32:13,532 --> 00:32:16,268
because so far,
it's just been beautiful.
844
00:32:18,603 --> 00:32:22,874
When he said,
"You accept the crazy,"
845
00:32:22,874 --> 00:32:26,178
I was like, "I don't know
that I do, but I should."
846
00:32:26,645 --> 00:32:28,647
He accepts me for mine.
847
00:32:28,647 --> 00:32:30,615
I might as well
accept him for his.
848
00:32:32,684 --> 00:32:33,785
He's saying that
849
00:32:33,785 --> 00:32:36,755
he can see a lot of
heart shapes and amber red.
850
00:32:36,755 --> 00:32:38,457
He can see love
in the rocks.
851
00:32:38,457 --> 00:32:40,025
You know,
you're sitting in there,
852
00:32:40,025 --> 00:32:42,961
you're sweaty, you're body's
going all sorts of ways,
853
00:32:42,961 --> 00:32:45,730
you have sand everywhere,
your hair is a mess,
854
00:32:45,730 --> 00:32:51,236
and he was looking at me, like,
"You are so beautiful."
855
00:32:52,737 --> 00:32:56,441
And it's incredible to be
sitting in front of a guy,
856
00:32:56,441 --> 00:32:58,844
looking probably your worst
857
00:32:58,844 --> 00:33:01,276
and having him just look at you
like you radiate.
858
00:33:01,276 --> 00:33:03,014
and having him just look at you
like you radiate.
859
00:33:04,916 --> 00:33:07,586
Whoa. That's what we've
all been searching for.
860
00:33:07,586 --> 00:33:10,755
I think every day being
with you has surprised me.
861
00:33:10,755 --> 00:33:12,724
And every single day,
862
00:33:12,724 --> 00:33:16,761
I have... fallen
more and more for you.
863
00:33:16,761 --> 00:33:19,764
And it's surprised me
every single second.
864
00:33:19,764 --> 00:33:23,101
And I'm excited
about that.
865
00:33:36,248 --> 00:33:37,582
Bien.
866
00:33:37,983 --> 00:33:42,587
This may have been, like,
the biggest breakthrough.
867
00:33:42,587 --> 00:33:44,589
I could just feel like
we're connected
868
00:33:44,589 --> 00:33:46,691
and we're on the same page,
and we're just ‐‐
869
00:33:46,691 --> 00:33:49,327
we're moving as ‐‐ as one.
870
00:33:49,327 --> 00:33:51,663
It's amazing.
871
00:33:51,663 --> 00:33:54,533
It blows my mind
that I like him so much
872
00:33:54,533 --> 00:33:56,902
and that he's, like,
not what I expected.
873
00:33:56,902 --> 00:33:59,938
But I think there's
so much beauty in that.
874
00:33:59,938 --> 00:34:01,276
I'm so attracted to him
as a human being and his soul
875
00:34:01,276 --> 00:34:04,876
I'm so attracted to him
as a human being and his soul
876
00:34:04,876 --> 00:34:09,314
that it's making him, like,
look different to me...
877
00:34:09,314 --> 00:34:11,349
on the outside, as well.
878
00:34:15,887 --> 00:34:19,257
Now my lady boner
is, like, finally back.
879
00:34:30,869 --> 00:34:32,938
Jared and I
had an amazing date together.
880
00:34:32,938 --> 00:34:34,806
It was wonderful and romantic,
881
00:34:34,806 --> 00:34:37,208
and I was open with Jared
for the first time
882
00:34:37,208 --> 00:34:42,647
about how Ashley being present
kind of has stalled us,
883
00:34:42,647 --> 00:34:44,783
and he feels the same.
884
00:34:44,783 --> 00:34:46,084
I am so happy.
885
00:34:46,084 --> 00:34:48,520
I'm gonna go
paint my nails.
Cool.
886
00:34:50,121 --> 00:34:53,028
Before I left for paradise,
I was friends with Caila,
887
00:34:53,028 --> 00:34:53,725
Before I left for paradise,
I was friends with Caila,
888
00:34:53,725 --> 00:34:54,993
but then I arrive here,
and I'm like,
889
00:34:54,993 --> 00:34:56,761
"Oh, this girl's
a disloyal bitch."
890
00:34:56,761 --> 00:34:57,929
I'm happy for you.
891
00:34:57,929 --> 00:34:59,898
It's really good
to see you like this.
892
00:34:59,898 --> 00:35:01,032
Thank you.
I appreciate that.
893
00:35:01,032 --> 00:35:04,970
I mean, that girl
is fricking fake.
894
00:35:04,970 --> 00:35:09,641
But I really think
the only reason that I feel okay
895
00:35:09,641 --> 00:35:12,510
is because I know him
better than her.
896
00:35:13,778 --> 00:35:16,648
And I know how to get
a reaction out of him.
897
00:35:16,648 --> 00:35:17,916
I'm his, like, main chick.
898
00:35:17,916 --> 00:35:20,719
Like, you may be, like,
making out with him,
899
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,754
but I can make out
with his mind.
900
00:35:22,754 --> 00:35:23,028
I know how to stimulate him
correctly.
901
00:35:23,028 --> 00:35:24,956
I know how to stimulate him
correctly.
902
00:35:25,357 --> 00:35:28,693
You know that I, like,
didn't want to talk to
you about this now,
903
00:35:28,693 --> 00:35:30,395
but it's, like...
904
00:35:37,802 --> 00:35:39,871
I ‐‐
Like, it's not like
I don't see that.
905
00:35:39,871 --> 00:35:42,607
But I try
not to think about it
906
00:35:42,607 --> 00:35:44,843
and just
work toward something.
907
00:35:44,843 --> 00:35:46,778
But it's hard.
908
00:35:46,778 --> 00:35:48,313
Yeah.
909
00:35:54,419 --> 00:35:55,553
I'm sorry.
910
00:36:02,927 --> 00:36:04,863
You think it's coming
from this whole place
of jealousy, though,
911
00:36:04,863 --> 00:36:06,031
and I don't want you
to think that.
912
00:36:06,031 --> 00:36:07,866
I don't think it's coming
from a place of jealousy.
913
00:36:07,866 --> 00:36:09,000
I've said I've trusted you
all along.
914
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,436
I don't think you would sabotage
anything that I have.
915
00:36:14,139 --> 00:36:16,708
Yes, I'm not,
like, this temptress,
916
00:36:16,708 --> 00:36:18,043
and I'm not, like,
this sexy girl
917
00:36:18,043 --> 00:36:20,378
who can just giggle
and, like...
918
00:36:21,479 --> 00:36:22,180
...smile like that,
919
00:36:22,180 --> 00:36:23,028
but I am a girl that can, like,
kind of dig deep in him.
920
00:36:23,028 --> 00:36:26,518
but I am a girl that can, like,
kind of dig deep in him.
921
00:36:26,518 --> 00:36:27,952
And it's fun.
922
00:36:27,952 --> 00:36:29,087
It's fun to threaten her.
923
00:36:29,087 --> 00:36:30,922
It's like,
"Hey, this is the guy
924
00:36:30,922 --> 00:36:32,891
that's been in my life
for a long time."
925
00:36:32,891 --> 00:36:35,627
You're all
by your lonesome.
I know.
926
00:36:35,627 --> 00:36:37,062
It's gonna take
a lot for you
927
00:36:37,062 --> 00:36:41,399
to be a more special person
in his life than I am.
928
00:36:41,399 --> 00:36:42,400
What's up?
929
00:36:43,668 --> 00:36:44,636
I just always want you
930
00:36:44,636 --> 00:36:45,770
to be honest
and comfortable with me.
931
00:36:45,770 --> 00:36:46,905
Yeah.
Just like I always want
932
00:36:46,905 --> 00:36:48,773
to be honest and comfortable
with you.
Mm‐hmm.
933
00:36:48,773 --> 00:36:50,175
It's just, you know,
it's tough when people are like,
934
00:36:50,175 --> 00:36:53,028
"Is she into you
as much you are,
like, into her?"
935
00:36:53,028 --> 00:36:53,712
"Is she into you
as much you are,
like, into her?"
936
00:36:53,712 --> 00:36:55,680
Who's ‐‐
It's ‐‐ It's ‐‐ It's ‐‐
937
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,016
It's not, like, anybody's
not trying to be mean.
938
00:36:58,016 --> 00:36:59,984
People are asking
if I really like you?
939
00:36:59,984 --> 00:37:02,554
Well, I do.
No, and I don't
question that.
940
00:37:02,554 --> 00:37:04,522
Yeah.
I ‐‐ I like you.
941
00:37:04,522 --> 00:37:05,857
Yeah, I like you, too.
942
00:37:05,857 --> 00:37:08,059
I ‐‐ I love spending time
with you.
943
00:37:08,059 --> 00:37:10,895
And I feel like
we've been on two dates,
944
00:37:10,895 --> 00:37:14,499
and each one's
better than the next.
Mm‐hmm.
945
00:37:14,499 --> 00:37:15,934
Um...
946
00:37:15,934 --> 00:37:17,902
I guess what's just
sticking with me is
you were like ‐‐
947
00:37:17,902 --> 00:37:20,538
you keep saying
that people keep asking
948
00:37:20,538 --> 00:37:21,639
if I really like you.
949
00:37:21,639 --> 00:37:22,807
No, it's not ‐‐
950
00:37:22,807 --> 00:37:23,028
And I ‐‐ I have a feeling
I know who's questioning.
951
00:37:23,028 --> 00:37:26,745
And I ‐‐ I have a feeling
I know who's questioning.
952
00:37:26,745 --> 00:37:27,979
I know it's hard,
953
00:37:27,979 --> 00:37:29,981
because Ashley
is your friend.
954
00:37:29,981 --> 00:37:31,082
Yeah.
And you trust her,
955
00:37:31,082 --> 00:37:32,917
and you've known her
longer.
Yeah.
956
00:37:32,917 --> 00:37:34,919
And don't ‐‐ she doesn't, like,
say bad things about you.
957
00:37:34,919 --> 00:37:36,921
That's what I feel like.
She's just
watching out for me,
958
00:37:36,921 --> 00:37:38,623
'cause she knows
who I am...
Yeah.
959
00:37:38,623 --> 00:37:39,691
... and she knows that,
like...
960
00:37:39,691 --> 00:37:42,627
Yeah, no, she didn't say
anything bad.
961
00:37:42,627 --> 00:37:43,695
God, no.
962
00:37:43,695 --> 00:37:45,730
So, then ‐‐ wait.
963
00:37:45,730 --> 00:37:47,665
I'm still unclear
what she said, then.
964
00:37:47,665 --> 00:37:49,601
Um...
965
00:37:50,101 --> 00:37:52,570
She was like, "Just, you know,
beware of your heart."
966
00:37:52,570 --> 00:37:53,028
She was like, you know,
967
00:37:53,028 --> 00:37:54,205
She was like, you know,
968
00:37:54,205 --> 00:37:55,774
"'Cause I think
you might be more into Caila
969
00:37:55,774 --> 00:37:57,642
than you are into her,"
and that's not a bad thing,
970
00:37:57,642 --> 00:38:01,412
but she was like,
"But be careful."
971
00:38:01,412 --> 00:38:02,013
So...
972
00:38:02,013 --> 00:38:04,482
She told you
to be careful.
973
00:38:04,482 --> 00:38:06,618
Um...
974
00:38:06,618 --> 00:38:07,919
Yeah.
975
00:38:07,919 --> 00:38:09,788
She is
in love with you.
976
00:38:09,788 --> 00:38:10,955
Mm‐hmm.
977
00:38:10,955 --> 00:38:12,657
Well, I don't know
if it's ‐‐
She is.
978
00:38:12,657 --> 00:38:13,792
I don't think
she's in love with me.
979
00:38:13,792 --> 00:38:15,994
I really like you,
and I want you to know that,
980
00:38:15,994 --> 00:38:18,830
and I want this
to keep going, and, um...
981
00:38:18,830 --> 00:38:20,665
And she needs to know that.
982
00:38:20,665 --> 00:38:23,028
So I need
to talk to her.
983
00:38:23,028 --> 00:38:23,601
So I need
to talk to her.
984
00:38:23,601 --> 00:38:25,970
Uh...
985
00:38:25,970 --> 00:38:28,173
I need her to know
that I actually
really like you.
986
00:38:28,173 --> 00:38:31,709
Ashley apparently said,
"Watch out for Caila."
987
00:38:31,709 --> 00:38:33,011
I'll catch up with you.
Okay.
988
00:38:33,011 --> 00:38:35,513
'Cause apparently,
I'm a bad person.
989
00:38:36,748 --> 00:38:38,183
This is all jealousy.
990
00:38:38,183 --> 00:38:41,019
Yes, I said that I wouldn't
go on a date with him,
991
00:38:41,019 --> 00:38:44,489
and she just
can't get over that.
992
00:38:44,489 --> 00:38:45,256
But she needs to.
993
00:38:45,256 --> 00:38:48,726
Jared and I, we're trying to
get to know each other,
994
00:38:48,726 --> 00:38:49,961
and we had a great date,
995
00:38:49,961 --> 00:38:53,028
and yet we just can't be happy
because of Ashley.
996
00:38:53,028 --> 00:38:54,833
and yet we just can't be happy
because of Ashley.
997
00:38:54,833 --> 00:38:57,368
I don't know what to do.
998
00:38:57,368 --> 00:38:58,169
Hey.
Hey.
999
00:38:58,169 --> 00:39:00,839
But I'm not gonna let anything
get in the way of Jared and I.
1000
00:39:00,839 --> 00:39:04,909
Um, I just walked away from
a conversation with Jared.
1001
00:39:04,909 --> 00:39:07,178
Yeah.
And he just kind of
told me that ‐‐
1002
00:39:07,178 --> 00:39:09,547
I don't know ‐‐ you're kind of
questioning my feelings.
1003
00:39:09,547 --> 00:39:11,216
Yeah.
1004
00:39:12,750 --> 00:39:14,986
Um, I just had, like,
a really great night with Jared,
1005
00:39:14,986 --> 00:39:15,987
and, like...
Yeah.
1006
00:39:15,987 --> 00:39:17,155
... we're kind of
trying to grow,
1007
00:39:17,155 --> 00:39:18,890
and I'm trying to
understand my feelings.
Yeah.
1008
00:39:18,890 --> 00:39:21,159
If every day
this is brought up,
1009
00:39:21,159 --> 00:39:23,028
when is he ever gonna trust me
more than he trusts you?
1010
00:39:23,028 --> 00:39:23,294
when is he ever gonna trust me
more than he trusts you?
1011
00:39:23,294 --> 00:39:25,964
Because it's like, you guys
have known each other longer.
1012
00:39:25,964 --> 00:39:27,932
Yeah, I don't know
if he's ever gonna trust you
1013
00:39:27,932 --> 00:39:29,434
more than he trusts me.
1014
00:39:29,901 --> 00:39:31,002
I mean,
what am I supposed to,
1015
00:39:31,002 --> 00:39:33,805
like, not tell him things
that I've been hearing?
1016
00:39:33,805 --> 00:39:35,940
No, you can tell him
whatever you've been hearing.
1017
00:39:35,940 --> 00:39:37,041
Whatever you want, Ashley ‐‐
1018
00:39:37,041 --> 00:39:39,077
Like, it's gonna stall
my relationship with Jared,
1019
00:39:39,077 --> 00:39:41,179
but I ‐‐ we are trying
to make you comfortable.
1020
00:39:41,179 --> 00:39:47,652
She refers to them as a "we,"
and I'm like, "Okay.
1021
00:39:47,652 --> 00:39:49,787
I want to
scratch her eyes out."
1022
00:39:49,787 --> 00:39:51,923
It's just not fair for ‐‐
for people to say ‐‐
1023
00:39:51,923 --> 00:39:53,028
wonder if my feelings
are real.
1024
00:39:53,028 --> 00:39:53,758
wonder if my feelings
are real.
1025
00:39:53,758 --> 00:39:55,159
Okay, well,
if your feelings are real,
1026
00:39:55,159 --> 00:39:57,495
then that's what they are.
But I ‐‐
1027
00:39:58,963 --> 00:40:00,798
Ashley's still
getting over Jared,
1028
00:40:00,798 --> 00:40:01,866
and until that happens,
1029
00:40:01,866 --> 00:40:03,801
we're ‐‐ we're just gonna
constantly be in tension
1030
00:40:03,801 --> 00:40:05,870
because she's
still in love with him,
1031
00:40:05,870 --> 00:40:07,939
and the fact
that Jared is listening,
1032
00:40:07,939 --> 00:40:09,941
it's just a ‐‐
it's a bad mixture.
1033
00:40:09,941 --> 00:40:11,843
If you were honestly here
to meet someone else...
Yeah.
1034
00:40:11,843 --> 00:40:12,911
...then you should
focus on that.
1035
00:40:12,911 --> 00:40:14,112
I know, but there's nobody
right now.
1036
00:40:14,112 --> 00:40:16,714
Okay. So you're gonna, like,
sabotage everyone else?
1037
00:40:16,714 --> 00:40:18,683
Like, you want to entertain
yourself and ‐‐
1038
00:40:18,683 --> 00:40:19,817
I'm not entertaining myself
1039
00:40:19,817 --> 00:40:21,853
by telling him, like,
what I've been hearing.
1040
00:40:21,853 --> 00:40:23,028
I've been hesitant
about things.
Mm‐hmm.
1041
00:40:23,028 --> 00:40:23,888
I've been hesitant
about things.
Mm‐hmm.
1042
00:40:23,888 --> 00:40:25,957
Okay.
It doesn't mean
I don't like him.
1043
00:40:25,957 --> 00:40:28,192
I seriously like Jared,
1044
00:40:28,192 --> 00:40:31,629
but if she's gonna constantly
get in the way of our progress
1045
00:40:31,629 --> 00:40:33,564
and, like,
me feeling excited,
1046
00:40:33,564 --> 00:40:35,466
then is it even worth it?
1047
00:40:37,936 --> 00:40:41,773
Coming up next Monday
on "Bachelor in Paradise"...
1048
00:40:41,773 --> 00:40:43,808
You started hitting on Carl
right in front of me.
1049
00:40:43,808 --> 00:40:44,876
I didn't do anything wrong.
1050
00:40:44,876 --> 00:40:45,910
Like...
You did, though.
1051
00:40:45,910 --> 00:40:47,845
... A storm is brewing...
1052
00:40:47,845 --> 00:40:49,113
I'm just done
with your attitude.
Good. Great.
1053
00:40:49,113 --> 00:40:51,015
You're giving me attitude.
If you're done,
then I'm done.
1054
00:40:51,015 --> 00:40:53,028
...forcing heartbreak
you won't see coming.
1055
00:40:53,028 --> 00:40:53,851
...forcing heartbreak
you won't see coming.
1056
00:40:53,851 --> 00:40:55,053
I just want to go home.
1057
00:40:55,053 --> 00:40:57,956
- It's real simple.
- Josh, you're an
1058
00:40:57,956 --> 00:40:59,157
Can you guys come down here
real quick?
1059
00:40:59,157 --> 00:41:01,159
I have a genuine relationship
with that woman right now,
1060
00:41:01,159 --> 00:41:02,894
and somebody's
trying to mess it up,
1061
00:41:02,894 --> 00:41:04,228
and I don't
appreciate it.
1062
00:41:04,228 --> 00:41:06,831
Like, do you guys not feel
I'm ‐‐ I'm, like, genuine?
1063
00:41:06,831 --> 00:41:08,032
I'll speak for myself ‐‐
I don't know.
1064
00:41:08,032 --> 00:41:09,834
I don't even know you,
Nick.
I have my concerns.
1065
00:41:09,834 --> 00:41:11,402
What are your concerns?
1066
00:41:13,071 --> 00:41:15,206
Just because Amanda
doesn't like you
1067
00:41:15,206 --> 00:41:17,942
doesn't mean that you need to
try to hurt our relationship.
1068
00:41:17,942 --> 00:41:19,110
It's not that, man.
You need to hope
1069
00:41:19,110 --> 00:41:21,446
that everything's good
with me and her.
Or what?
1070
00:41:22,046 --> 00:41:23,028
It's all coming up next week
on "Bachelor in Paradise."
1071
00:41:23,028 --> 00:41:26,084
It's all coming up next week
on "Bachelor in Paradise."
1072
00:41:27,452 --> 00:41:28,987
You know where Italy is,
though.
1073
00:41:28,987 --> 00:41:30,788
No.
In Europe.
1074
00:41:30,788 --> 00:41:32,457
No.
No?
1075
00:41:32,457 --> 00:41:33,624
Where is Europe?
1076
00:41:34,092 --> 00:41:35,893
You know North America,
obviously.
1077
00:41:35,893 --> 00:41:37,895
No.
We're in North America.
1078
00:41:37,895 --> 00:41:39,530
What else
is in North America?
1079
00:41:39,530 --> 00:41:40,999
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
1080
00:41:40,999 --> 00:41:43,701
See, South America
is a continent,
1081
00:41:43,701 --> 00:41:44,969
North America's
a continent.
1082
00:41:44,969 --> 00:41:46,938
Anyways,
Europe is a continent
1083
00:41:46,938 --> 00:41:50,008
that includes
lots of countries, and...
1084
00:41:50,008 --> 00:41:52,377
Did you not learn it in school,
all this?
1085
00:41:52,377 --> 00:41:53,811
I did.
1086
00:41:53,811 --> 00:41:55,613
But I didn't pay attention.
1087
00:41:55,613 --> 00:41:56,647
The other day, I thought
1088
00:41:56,647 --> 00:41:57,151
the first president
of the United States
1089
00:41:57,151 --> 00:41:58,449
the first president
of the United States
1090
00:41:58,449 --> 00:42:00,218
was Abraham Lincoln.